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28 Vancouver, British Columbia, CA Man


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  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Yesterday – 8:25pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I'm a recovering graduate student. I was doing a PhD in the humanities in Boston, but the private sector has put its prongs in me. I give advice for a living, I think too much, I eat really spicy food, and I read like I'm dying of thirst. I want to write a novel.

Myers-Briggs: INFP ("The Healer").
Enneagram: Seven wing-Eight ("The Realist").
What I’m doing with my life
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Right now, I'm an education consultant working for a company in Vancouver.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at making lasagna, but I'm even better at agonizing over the cost of ricotta cheese. You see where this gets me. I'm indecisive in "imagination vacuums" - those places where decision-making is entirely subjective, and you could easily forego the ricotta and make the goddamn lasagna more cheaply. I'm also a rock solid listener, especially when it's raining out and we're drinking chamomile tea.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have an intense gaze, and I like to squeeze details out of others, especially new people. I have crazy eyebrows, like Jack Nicholson's, which undulate of their own accord. I'm also secretly a mountain man. (I wear plaid and like to chop wood, but I'm a snob about camping.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ernest Hemingway saved my life. I'm not kidding.

My favorite film is "Lawrence of Arabia," which is the most erotic movie about the desert ever made, and also the greatest celluloid meditation on being alone. On TV, "True Detective" terrifies me exactly right. In music, I lean toward shiny indy pop ( say King Charles), melancholy rock (The National), and folky hybrids (The Lumineers).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Mom. 2. Skepticism. 3. Running. 4. Cheese. 5. Books. 6. Those conversations you have when it's just the two of you and it's raining outside. Anyone from the Pacific Northwest will know of what I speak.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think regularly about how I should think less about most things, because the basics of life are pretty straight-forward. This is a circle jerk I have with myself. Also, death.

I also think about how, after a very long adolescence, I have a lot of love to give. The trick is finding a good investment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hauling a boom of cedars down the Salish Sea in my battered tugboat, quietly crooning "Moon River" and blazing a fat one. What other compelling options are there in this town? Talk to me about this.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have three: (a) You would not believe how much I tingle vicariously from the emotions of other people. (b) My mom is sort of my best friend; but not in a creepy way, I promise. (c) I am the High Priest of Over-Sharing.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you can never get enough. And I don't mean sex, money or happiness.

Conversely, or maybe in addition, you should do so if you're at a stage in your life where mental wellness, presence, and a nuanced understanding of romantic commitment are things that you strive toward.

Or if you're whip-smart.

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