My outlook on life is a blend of anarchism, pragmatism, hedonism and stoicism. I wish the world was much less hierarchical while begrudgingly acknowledging the need of some structure to exist, but not letting it get to me too much. I understand the privilege that the universe has handed me and do my best to hold that in mind when considering the world around me.
I'm a relationship anarchist. TL:DR more or less polyamory with an aversion to traditional structures and classification of relationships. I currently have a lover who I adore, but who is not my life partner. I'm open to any type of relationship, though a main squeeze/life partner-ish type relationship would be ace with the right person. I'm very into BDSM/kink and am a gentle/dominant type.
I value confidence, curiosity and self-awareness in others above all things. I most enjoy activities that stimulate thought. Board games, video games, puzzles, riddles, even problems. I think about a lot of things, sometimes too much which can lead to absent-mindedness on occasion. I hope this is more endearing than frustrating.
● Holes in my lobes.
● Broad shoulders.
Neil Gaiman, H.P. Lovecraft, Julian May, Philip K. Dick, Neal Stephenson.
The Fifth Element, The Big Lebowski, Pulp Fiction, Snatch, American Beauty, Cloud Atlas, Lord of the Rings.
Jimmy Carr, Amy Schumer, Frankie Boyle, Sarah Silverman, Jim Jefferies.
My Cat From Hell, Black Books, Archer, Sherlock, Elementary, The Strain, The Blacklist, Orphan Black, Fargo, Game Of Thrones. Mr Robot, Sens8, Rick and Morty.
The Sundays, Cranberries, Darling Violetta, Lana Del Rey, Velvet Acid Christ, Sabaton, Nightwish, Gorillaz, Pink Floyd, The Cat Empire, Skrillex, Florence and the Machine, In Strict Confidence.
Mexican, Italian, Indian. I love a good, rare, steak too.
Life is Strange, Mass Effect, Bioshock, Borderlands, Deus Ex, Fallout, Elder Scrolls.
● Quality linen.
● Air conditioning.
● How awesome cats are!
● Myself - in an Introspection / reflection / mindfulness sense.
● Whether the descendants of humanity will escape Earth before The Sun consumes it.
● you want a relationship that doesn't have to comply with social norms.
● you have compatible interests in BDSM/Kink and want to discuss, share, and/or play.
● you like cute dates and similar romantic type things.
● you want to take some molly and go dancing.
BONUS LEVEL: You want to combine the above and take some molly, go to a fetish nightclub and dance and play and have super long and deep conversations.