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Fuurther

52 / F / Straight / Single

Atlanta, Georgia

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 9:07am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Basque (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
You know all the things you want to do? You should go do them. I'll join you! Maybe along the way we'll fall into a bucket of "chemistry"...

With this girl, what you see is what you get. My profile isn't filled with wishful thinking... my photos are current, my age is accurate, and my desires are sincere.

I'm just me. Happy, smart, silly, spontaneous, successful, sensual me.

The first 30 years of my life were On The Road intense. The last 20 I've spent building a great career and raising two wonderful kids. I'd like the next 30 to be centered on a special someone, who is likewise centered on me.

I am stable on all fronts: financially, emotionally, physically, intellectually, spiritually. Other than an Australian shepherd with control issues, my life is drama-free. Strangers compliment my infectious smile... I spread positive energy wherever I go. I forgive and forget. I live in the moment. I laugh at myself often, say wierd stuff out loud, and never get stuck on the woulda, coulda, shoulda's.

Bright (ok, megawatt), witty, funny, confident, energetic, passionate, curious, adventurous, flexible, loyal, honest and sincere. That's me... And I hope that's you, too.

What will we do at the end of a hectic week? Maybe check out that corner dive, or enjoy a candlelit dinner we cook together. Or, we can invite friends over for a casual feast... I love to entertain!

The weekend might find us at a blues festival, or offshore fishing. I might surprise you with a luxurious getaway or camping trip. I pack light and get ready quick, so there's more time for fun and, ahem, other stuff. I am physically active and hope to find a trail partner or someone who will drag me to the gym. On a beautiful day you most likely will find me in the garden or hiking along the river, not behind a desk. (Although my phone will be close by.)

Shoehorning a relationship into your existing life is hard, I know. Please contact me only if you have the time and energy to invest, and the willingness to meet me half way when it comes to plans and scheduling. Must be present to win!!

No worries if you leave the toilet seat up or come home late. Stuff happens. I've got your back. I will surprise you, delight you, and give you plenty to laugh at (like me in my sexy lingerie!). I will be your partner, your lover and your best friend... And that's all I ask in return.

If you are stable, intelligent, confident, in charge and curious-by-nature, you may be the one for me. A little romance and attentiveness will come back to you in spades. Here's hoping your past is left where it belongs, and you are ready to dive in and live... Today.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying every minute of it!
I’m really good at
Simplifying things
Connecting with people
Planning adventures
Cooking & entertaining
Helping others
The first things people usually notice about me
Definitely my positive energy, humble compassion and easy, outgoing nature. Also, my smarts, my wit - I am pretty funny, and like to keep the laughter flowing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Once a year I read Alice Through the Looking Glass.

Anything by: Augusten Burroughs, Carl Hiaasen, Kurt Vonnegut, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Andy Borrowitz, Thomas Friedman, Malcolm Gladwell.

Magazines: Wired, Mental Floss, Funny Times, The Week, The Economist, HBR.

Media: Twitter feeds, NPR, HuffPost, LinkedIn posts, TED Talks, Pulse.

Movies/TV: Comedies, period pieces, foreign films; Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire, 30 Rock, Stewart & Colbert.

Music: Continuing a long, strange trip... Grateful Dead, blues, classic rock, bluegrass, spanish guitar, Gipsy Kings, jazz, singer songwriter (Frank Turner), new indie stuff (my adult children keep me current).

Food: Everything from classic French & Italian (both of which I prepare well), to any ethnic cuisine, especially Vietnamese, Japanese, Korean; a Philly cheesesteak "wit", grinders; seafood, seafood, seafood, veggies, cheese!!
The six things I could never do without
Assuming basic survival needs are covered, then:

Phone - for staying in touch with my family
Wifi - for staying in touch with the world
True Friends - for their unconditional love
Travel - for satiating my wanderlust
Conversation - for my endless curiosity
Nature - for inner peace
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Conscious living
Compassion in action
The world around me
Why I bowl so badly
How to develop a better sense of direction
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm at the office, the workweek ends with a quick happy hour; then I may head into town for a show, out of town for some mountain camping or a seaside road trip, or simply head home to rest up for an early Saturday hike, community project, gardening or party at my home. Unless you have a better idea...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am Goddess to a high-functioning horde of garden gnomes. They are a bit mischievous, and sometimes cantankerous, but they do my bidding and serve me well, so I can't complain.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 44–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are grounded and stable, and looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship filled with adventure, laughs and love with someone who is loyal, honest, compassionate and passionate about life!