I am a Practical, Dreamer who is a Realist and a Idealist (yeah some of those words are contradictory, but I often think people are a mass of contradictory drives that somehow work). I am an easy going down to earth guy with a live and let live attitude (although Love/Hate say it better) who calls things as he sees them and who trusts his instincts. I very often take the path of least resistance mainly as I often don't mind helping out, although if I am really against something I can be very stubborn. I am not perfect, what I am is flawed, imperfect, real and honest. I make mistakes but can discuss it and if I'm wrong I can admit it, apologise and learn from my mistakes. I really do believe that when I set my mind to things I can achieve just about anything I aim for, the last two years have been a period of great change and achievement for me physically, emotionally and academically and I am looking for that positive change to continue. I have just completed my retraining for an new career, which I am looking forward too. I am happy and content with my life as it stands and am in no hurry to change it, that said part of having a positive approach to life is being open to fortuitous happenstance.
I am just settling into my new job in the sunny Scottish Borders, which is awesome and getting used to living somewhere new. I spend a lot of time around Glasgow, Edinburgh, the Lake District and Northern England. So what am I looking for well initially I am looking for mates who might share some similar interests to go and do stuff with around the Borders with, as I don't know many people It can be a spot dull. Dating? yeah I am open to it but not really overly concerned by it at this juncture, I rather make friends and if something clicks then great.