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40 Dumfries, UK Man


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  • Ages 18–99
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Last Online
Today – 5:25am
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Who am I? Well, I am a very laid back extensively travelled (My good friends often refer to me as the Littlest Hobo) Scottish Biker who has lots of Goth/Rock influences. I can be loud and sociable but am equally capable of being shy and not saying much and I tend to flit between these two extremes depending how comfortable and in place I feel. I have a wealth of common sense which is often given days off for dancing, parties, drinking and playing maffball on a Yorkshire beach in November! ... as you can guess I don't take myself or life too seriously. I do have a sensible side, but equally I like to ride fast motorbikes, run with scissors and play with fire so it doesn't get too boring.

I am a Practical, Dreamer who is a Realist and a Idealist (yeah some of those words are contradictory, but I often think people are a mass of contradictory drives that somehow work). I am an easy going down to earth guy with a live and let live attitude (although Love/Hate say it better) who calls things as he sees them and who trusts his instincts. I very often take the path of least resistance mainly as I often don't mind helping out, although if I am really against something I can be very stubborn. I am not perfect, what I am is flawed, imperfect, real and honest. I make mistakes but can discuss it and if I'm wrong I can admit it, apologise and learn from my mistakes. I really do believe that when I set my mind to things I can achieve just about anything I aim for, the last two years have been a period of great change and achievement for me physically, emotionally and academically and I am looking for that positive change to continue. I have just completed my retraining for an new career, which I am looking forward too. I am happy and content with my life as it stands and am in no hurry to change it, that said part of having a positive approach to life is being open to fortuitous happenstance.

I am just about to move to Dumfries to start my new full time permanent job, I am quite excited. I spend a lot of time around Glasgow, Edinburgh, the Lake District and Northern England. So what am I looking for well initially I am looking for mates who might share some similar interests to go and do stuff with around the Dumfries.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being happy to have a job that earns me real money and still getting used to not being a student and being able to afford to do stuff again :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
At being a friend, apparently I am a very good listener, friendly and very easy to talk to I've been told. I guess I am also good at change, I've lived with it so long in my life its just second nature now really. I am a not bad motorcyclist and manage rather well but I keep learning each year. I don't like to be off my two wheels for very long. I am reasonably good at building websites though I really lack any real motivation for all that tot these days and I can usually fix most computer problems if I put my mind to it. Alternatively I seem (recently at least) to be awful at going to sleep, must practice that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probabaly my fairly outgoing nature and the fact i can be very chatty. I've been told its my friendly nature that people first notice about me; Which to be honest rather pleases me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading wise mostly its been academic books article recently, I am not a huge reader but I do tend to read certain SciFi, Fantasy and rather a lot of factual books. I have a pile of books waiting for me that I started buying during my Degree course that I'd like to work through (that said I appear to have picked up some horror and period classics that I forgot about).

I like most movies from B-Movie Classics right up to indepth character pieces. I am not keen on gangster films but thats it's. I like romantic comedies, yes I am a man and I like romantic comdies there is no law against it. I like all the other standard stuff SciFi, Action Films stuff that makes you think and stuff you can just switch your brain off too. Though I do love a film with a clever plot that catches you off guard. My Tv Viewing is pretty much the same as my film viewing though I am a massive Dr Who fan Classic and Modern, Red Dwarf, Black Books, Spaced, Blackadder, Chewin the Fat ... I could go on but you are starting to get the picture.

Music again is very varied I am mainly into Rock/Goth Music though edging more towards rock these days on a daily basis. I listen to classical sometimes daft stuff like the Wurzels, rock, Metal and a little bit of pop on occassion just a wee bit of whatever I like which is bits of everything really. I have recently started listening to a little more older music since wanting to start Lindy Hop/Swing dancing but my life needs to settle a little first.

Food, I used to be as a child a terribly fussy eater, that however is no longer the case. I love going out and having a good meal I really love Mexican Food but like most kinds of food and "Love" eating out. I also rather enjoy cooking, I am not amazing but I can follow a recipe and cook a good few meals from scratch. I also find cooking very relaxing (the glass of wine while cooking may assist this relaxation) and find it a good wind down post work.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've moved so many times it often suprises me what I can do without but I'll try for 6.

1) Friends & Family
2) Motorcycles
3) Internet & Computer
4) My Bed (its utterly ace, money well spent)
5) Having Fun in it many varied forms
6) Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything, I sometimes over-think things coming at them from every direction before making a decison. I often think about the direction this country is taking, Where I am going to buy a house and settle, how my mates are doing and how I am going to afford that 11k 2.3 Litre Triumph Rocket 3 Roadstar.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies widely from a quiet night in with a nice meal and a film to attending a bike rally, music festival, beer festival, Chilli Festival, driving half way across the country to see friends and go to a odd club I don't know the name of. My weekends do tend to vary very widely between insanely busy and very quiet. I try to ensure I spend at least half the weekends in any given month in the city I live, as I could if left unchecked easily find myself in a different uk city every weekend. essentially there is no typical friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can be at my core quite shy, that said I am generally very outgoing in everyday life. A dichotomy you say? why yes, thank you i am ;)
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