I'm a recently single guy who is looking for good people to spend
time with. I can be quiet at first but I enjoy life and am having
fun exploring the opportunities it brings. I'm a good listener who
cares about being there for the people in his life, especially when
they're in need. I'm honest and straightforward, I don't play mind
games. I've got a job I love and a great group of friends... what
more can I ask for?
My personality is resistant to classification. I've got some preppy
professionalism mixed in with a healthy portion of geeky
quirkiness, a little jock competitiveness, and a dash of urban
swagger.
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Ethnicity White
Height 5' 10" (1.77m).
Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes No
Drinks Sometimes
Drugs Never
Religion Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign Gemini but it doesn't matter
Education Graduated from college/university
Job Medicine / Health
Income $60,000-$70,000
Kids Likes children
Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
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My self-summary
What I'm doing with my life
I'm an emergency room nurse. Like I said above, I love my job and
couldn't ask for a better place to put my skills to work. It's hard
work but it's good work that challenges me in different ways every
day.
I'm really good at
Listening, making people feel comfortable, making fun of myself and
my friends, cuddling, giving back rubs and massages, and having
fun.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me
I can be slow to warm up, especially in group situations, but
one-on-one or in groups of people I'm comfortable with my
personality comes out and never goes back into hiding.
I also like to think I have a nice smile. I tend to smile with my eyes more than my mouth. I think that's a remnant of having braces for such a long time when I was younger and didn't like showing them. But I still tend to use my eyes extensively for non-verbal expression.
I also like to think I have a nice smile. I tend to smile with my eyes more than my mouth. I think that's a remnant of having braces for such a long time when I was younger and didn't like showing them. But I still tend to use my eyes extensively for non-verbal expression.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I love listening to hip-hop, especially more socially conscious
artists like The Roots, Common, and Mos Def. Recently TI and Nas
have crept to the top of my playlist. Stuff that's serious
musically with a message beyond money, rims, and violence.
When I'm in the mood for something more subdued I generally turn to reggae or the blues. Sublime and Jill Scott are definite favorites.
Books? I don't read often anymore but when I do it's a fairly wide variety of authors. I find reading fantasy and sci-fi books to be a good break from the real world every once in a while. I've read some great Buddhist texts recently too.
I used to spend way too much time playing videogames of all shapes and sizes but have cut way back recently. No more 24 hr gaming sessions for me, though I still can break out the 360 and Wii when all else fails.
Food - I have a massive sweet tooth and could eat anything with too much sugar in it, though I've been able to avoid doing so lately. I would love to have the willpower to be a vegetarian because I don't like the idea of eating other beings, but that's not going to happen anytime soon. I like a wide variety of foods including Mexican, Thai, sushi, Italian, and good old American cuisine.
When I'm in the mood for something more subdued I generally turn to reggae or the blues. Sublime and Jill Scott are definite favorites.
Books? I don't read often anymore but when I do it's a fairly wide variety of authors. I find reading fantasy and sci-fi books to be a good break from the real world every once in a while. I've read some great Buddhist texts recently too.
I used to spend way too much time playing videogames of all shapes and sizes but have cut way back recently. No more 24 hr gaming sessions for me, though I still can break out the 360 and Wii when all else fails.
Food - I have a massive sweet tooth and could eat anything with too much sugar in it, though I've been able to avoid doing so lately. I would love to have the willpower to be a vegetarian because I don't like the idea of eating other beings, but that's not going to happen anytime soon. I like a wide variety of foods including Mexican, Thai, sushi, Italian, and good old American cuisine.
The six things I could never do without
I'm pretty sure there's nothing I couldn't do without, short of
water, food, & shelter. There's plenty of things I'm happy to
have though, like good music, good friends, and good company.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What comes next. I used to spend much more time thinking than I do
now. I tend to act more spontaneously and decisively without
concrete plans because I find living life without preconceived
notions to be more rewarding.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's a 50% chance I'm working, on the other 50% I'm out with
friends. Sometimes it's over to someone's house for a quiet movie
night, other times it's out to New Haven for entertainment.
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here
I'm a cuddlewhore. I could lay and cuddle all day with someone
whose company I enjoy. Does that make me less masculine? I don't
care, it feels good!
You should message me if
You're looking for someone fun, straightforward, and honest to talk
to or spend time with. Or you just think I'm irresistibly sexy.
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