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52 Nottingham, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 25
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
English, Spanish, Italian, French

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My self-summary
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Sociable and friendly in person, though in photos can look surprisingly moody. Fortunately, am allegedly much better in real life, honest guv. Meeting someone attractive, considerate, funny and wise would further enhance my current enjoyment of life.

Love places like Valencia – mixture of modern and historic architecture, sea and parks (just like my native city). More interests I could talk about but will restrain myself for the moment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working to improve other people while trying to sustain my own development. My long term workplace has changed beyond recognition in recent years and it's perhaps now time for me to consider my own changes. Selective about TV but love Wallander (Krister Henrikson), Montalbano and The Bridge. Holby City!

Reading a book or two is a great escape from the demands of work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not the easiest of questions for anyone at all reticent who tends to hide their light under a bushel in classic conscientious Virgo mode.

Enjoying the use of a substantial vocabulary. Speaking Spanish fluently. Eating healthily and keeping fit. Developing other people's literacy skills, motivating reluctant or unconfident learners to succeed surprisingly beyond their previous achievements.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A friendly, warm smile which isn't always apparent in photos.

People who are perceptive of light accents may detect the distinctive tones of my home town.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Recently developed a liking for books and films about the flawed but inspired fictional detectives Montalbano (a colleague flattered me by likening me to him, in appearance not detective skills!), Morse, Rebus and Wallander (originals). Enjoy films like The Lives Of Others, Tell No-One, Green Mile, Shawshank, and for unfeasible secret agent skills Bourne films, Taken & The Transporter (played with dry humour).

On TV I seem to live in Manchester, not Coronation Street but Jimmy McGovern's other The Street and the factory-based dramas of Clocking Off. Add in some Cracker and it sounds like am living in the Nineties!

Love the writing of Tim Harford, the way he makes unfamiliar subjects become clear in a thought-provoking way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books and other things to read.
Regular exercise - physical and mental. Mens sana...
Honey broccoli spinach yoghurt 70% cocoa chocolate, not usually all on the same plate.
Interesting conversations.
Music to distract and uplift.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the meaning of life, what it's all about, modern life and its strange materialist and appearance-based excesses (may need to rein in that Victor Meldrew tendency), how best to motivate myself and others.

Moving from thinking to action... keep in shape by regular exercise playing badminton, tennis, swimming or frequenting the gym – like that seductive combination of exercise, music and TV. Must confess that have often lost track of time watching whole episodes of Holby City on the cross trainer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In or out depending on the mood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Soy una persona a quien le gusta pensar bien las cosas, me gustaría ser filósofo quizás, pero con un propósito muy activo y práctico.
You should message me if
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You find any of the above at all appealing. Especially if you're a friendly and likeable woman looking for someone just like me to add to the general entertainment of life.

If you’ve read up to here that’s quite promising, so I’ll let you into a secret, slightly disguised: Sigo mi viaje de descubrimiento vital, me gustaría un día conocer a alguien con quien podria entablar la última relacion de profundidad duradera, alguien a la vez amable, graciosa, pensativa y sabia. Quizás, quién sabe, eres tú la misma persona que estás leyendo mis palabras! La vida es muy quimérica a veces, juntos la podremos afrontar con una confianza absoluta! Te doy este reto!