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46 Oakland, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:24pm
White, Other
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Strictly other
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly), Vietnamese (Poorly), Thai (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Business owner looking for one beautiful girl who can accentuate all the positives in a relationship, good family values, likes to have fun.Someone who knows the meaning of class. Class isnt something you can buy, either you have it or you don't.
Into a healthy lifestyle. Organic everything from foods, drinks, herbal teas, right down to my toothpaste.

I don't want to know you been to a trillion countries unless your a newscaster from 60 minutes. If i told you I cleansed my body with the monks, have a free pass to heaven when I die, walled on fire, wrote a 11th Commandment and god approved, you think i'm nuts.

I don't settle for just a paycheck. A Met's game, yes I said Met's, and they are finally winning, Broadway, a Jazz club, fine dining, or the Met, I dress for the occasion.

I am not looking for endless dating. Meaningful dates with one leading into a relationship. Endless dates at 25 is understandable, but once you acquire some wisdom about life, you make it happen or move on.

I live in a crappy 5 bedroom house with my young son and have crappy neighbors, but I do have distance water views of the Ramapo River, not in flood zone, great sunrises and sunsets, too many bedrooms to clean, too many Lego pieces all over (10 thousand pieces),
lots of trees, birds sing every morning, and bugs i never seen before.

This song can sum me up, watch
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fixing people's problems and getting paid for it.
Curing cancer with lemons. Future wife hunting

I am adding a new section tell me "Funniest dating Story"

Was dating a Bonds broker for several months.
She was head over heels and very pretty
Her company Christmas party was at the owners mansion.
I wore black pants, Armani dress shirt, iridescent sport jacket , nice dress shoes. I looked good
She wore a very sexy skirt to show off her petite body
Met all her sales assistants, other bonds brokers, and her boss
The night went very well
She said I was perfect as she knew I would be
Monday night we met for dinner
She said I have something to tell you
Said to me 'not to make your ego any bigger than it is"
Nobody believed you were my boyfriend of 10 months
I asked what did they think?
She said everybody in her office said I was a paid escort
right down to my first name.
E-true Hollywood story.

A almost first date Marriage
Met very pretty blonde, blue eyed Russian girl
One 4 year old daughter
Suppose to live in Brooklyn
Spoke a lot on phone, texted pics.
live in Rode Island, Divorce Was Final In 3 Weeks
X moved back with mom
She wanted to move to Brooklyn, but told me New Jersey,
Sounds good to her.
I said I pay train/bus for her to come 3 day weekend
Meet, get to know one another.See if there connection.
She said on a Thursday she will buy ticket and come Friday.
Ask me how many closets I have in my house.
I replied I have 7 closets.
She said good, I have a lot of cloths and shoes.
I said your not moving in on first date.
She was upset. I said no.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling stories, kissing, listening, holding my own, stopping a bad situation before it starts, being positive, chess, jeopardy, organic cooking, being super neat & clean.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Tall and blue eyes.
How well behaved my 8 year old son is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: Dont sweat the small stuff, its only small stuff, the classics, steve job,Pizza Pat, one fish, two fish.The Blue Zones.The miracle of fasting by Phd Bragg.

Wizard of Oz, It's a Wonderful Life, Better Off Dead,The fabulous Baker Boys, karate movies, transporter, The kego movue, srar wars rebels, City of Angels, Family man, National treasure, Stripes, Ghostbusters, and you cant forget the original Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory with Gene Wilder. Wizard of Oz. The island.
Jeopardy, History channel, House, Blue Bloods, Rookie Blue, shark Tank, ancient aliens, tmnt, flipping Boston, Flipping Vegas, This Old House,
Modern jazz, Rock, indie, Dave, early Coldplay, Andrea Bocelli.
I am into Trumpet & sax players- Braun, Botti, Baker, Barbieri.
Bucky Pizzarelli, my old neighbor at Zeno's in the city, of course he made sure my dinnertable was front row. Might be called The Cutting Room now.

Boiled organic chicken, Homemade organic chicken soup, Broccoli, fresh spinach, arugula,egg whites, high fiber wheat wraps w/ flaxseed, fish, beans, avocado, pumpkin seeds,sunflower seeds,watermelon, garlic, apple cider vinegar, Goji berries, 1% organic milk, uncured all natural deli meats, organic wheat pasta, no BPA in canning tuna, organic blueberries, organic granny apples, organic celery, carrots.

Want to see Jersey Boys
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Insert one great girl here.
2. Fresh white sheets
3. A room in my house to go to and decompress.
4. A things to do list every week
5. Fresh air.
6. Cool people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why there so many single people.
When are The Met's going to win the World Series?
Do crazy people know they are crazy?

I just figured it out my GPS girl wants to marry me because she always circles me once around a church before I get to where I'm going.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your looking for something of substance and accentuate all the positives in your life. Positive energy.
You want to be in love !
You know how to shoot a shotgun when the Zombies come.j/k.

If you are great with 8 year old boys, can offer mothering skills since he doesn't really see his real mother anymore.

It said I lived in Oakland, California on my profile. I don't know why. I think I changed it .