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43 M Oakland, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:01am
White, Other
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Poorly), French (Poorly), Vietnamese (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Business owner looking for one beautiful girl who can accentuate all the positives in a relationship, good family values, likes to have fun.Someone who knows the meaning of class. Class isnt something you can buy, either you have it or you don't. Yes, I have to be attracted to the outside first. If I tell you I could pick my future wife out from just a picture and it's yours or If I tell you I could get use to waking up next to you every morning not only for one lifetime, but 10 lifetimes, you caught my attention. Gourmet cook, French, tall and yes blue eyes. I been to every fine dining place there is and my favorite is not even in this country. French-American born in states.Im in the construction business.
I dont settle for just a paycheck.Work hard, play hard, have the winters off. A Mets game, yes I said Mets, broadway, a Jazz club, fine dining, or the Met, I dress for the occasion.

Here is the most important thing in my profile to read. Some of you ask for alot and some of you don't ask for alot in your guy, If you wish for the perfect guy for you, like shooting for the stars, and u get the moon, but you get more than what u expected, I think sometimes people wish for something they want and there dreams come true, and they have a hard time dealing with what they wished for because they never had there dreams come true. If your ready, lets see what happens.

"You can't get what you want, till you know what you want"
joe jackson
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fixing people's problems and getting paid for it.
Curing cancer with lemons.
wife hunting

I am adding a new Category on this site
Tell me your funniest story about dating

Was dating a Bonds broker for several months.
She was head over heels and very pretty
Her company Christmas party was at the owners mansion.
I wore black pants, Armani dress shirt, iridescent sport jacket , nice dress shoes.
I looked good
She wore a very sexy skirt to show off her petite body
Met all her sales assistants, other bonds brokers, and her boss
The night went very well
She said I was perfect as she knew I would be
Monday night we met for dinner
She said I have something to tell you
Said to me 'not to make your ego any bigger than it is"
Nobody believed you were my boyfriend of 10 months
I asked what did they think?
She said everybody in her office said I was a paid escort
right down to my first name.
E-true Hollywood story
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Telling stories, kissing, and chess

Fixing mostly anything on a house, being super neat and clean.
Jeopardy, twister and a great chess player.
Cooking gourmet!!

In my 20's
Trying to outrun The police in my Porsche and only getting a speeding ticket 36 in a 25 and $12,000.00 bail cash only in my freaking town. E-True Hollywood story
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make things happen. I am tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book: Dont sweat the small stuff, its only small stuff, the classics, steve job,Pizza Pat, one fish, two fish.The Blue Zones.

Wizard of Oz, It's a Wonderful Life, The fabulous Baker Boys, City of Angels, Family man, National treasure, Stripes, Ghostbusters, and you cant forget the original Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory with Gene Wilder.
Jeopardy, History channel, House
Modern jazz, Rock, indie, Dave, early Coldplay
I am into Trumpet & sax players- Braun, Botti, Baker, Barbieri.

Boiled organic chicken, Homemade organic chicken soup, Broccoli, fresh spinach, egg whites, high fiber wheat wraps w/ flaxseed, fish, beans, avocado, pumpkin seeds,sunflower seeds,watermelon, garlic, apple cider vinegar, Goji berries, 1% organic milk, uncured all natural deli meats, organic wheat pasta, no BPA in canning tuna, organic blueberries, organic granny apples, organic celery, carrots

Want to see Jersey Boys
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Water
2.Organic food
3.The wintertime off from work
4. I was always super healthy, but Dr. Oz makes my list now
5. My stupid not so smart note 3.
6. A romantic night


1. Your a world traveler and you want kids. Kids take all your time up in the beginning of there lives......Really.
2. I'm back on OKC again.
3. You have kids from more than one Father and want more.
4. Your location is NYC area, but your living in a different country now.
5. You went to AA for 3 years and don't have a problem drinking now and you say let's meet for drinks.
6. You have pics of your boobs hanging out, say your not into one night stands, hate shirtless pics and start sexting me naked pics of you after a few days. Not good.
7. You want a serious relationship but you forgot to tell your live in boyfriend your on OKC looking.
8.Your married and the future X still lives with you
9. A couple extra pounds overweight does not mean 50 pounds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. If your phone doesnt work all the time, why do they call them smart phones?
2. Where can I get a real Tony Stark getup?
4. How come there is so many college educated people in retail?
3. Do crazy people know they are crazy?
4. Invent or discover something, retire, play golf everyday
5. My daily "Things to do list" and my master things to do list
6.When am I going on Jeopardy
7. If House was really a real doctor, would cancer be cured?

Word of the month: Analize
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Can be out if there is something good to do.
Solving the world's problems, but everybody too busy to listen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I take the fifth
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to be in love!
You can name 5 things a good wife does for her husband?