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28 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 5
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Simply? I am a nerd. Very proud / comfortable with it. I generally don't drink and never do drugs (yes, I consider "soft stuff" like marijuana / cigarettes drugs).

Still reading? Awesome. Many San Francisco people do shtuff that I am not into. I think the above weeds em out :)

My MBTI is an ENTJ and OKC classifies me as a Mixed Messanger, both of which are probably accurate.

Ambitious would not be the first word that I would use to describe me, but I can see why OKC would. Logical... but passionate about the things that are important. Successful because I have the audacity to dream of what I could be, but firmly grounded in reality. Arrogant in that I spent much of my time functioning in the realm of things that I am good at, and am confident in my abilities. There is a long list of things that I am decidedly bad at. Generous to a fault. I think I walk a fine line of contradictions, but I have known who I am for a very long time.

I am very open about myself. Here is my completely public FB profile. Stalk away!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Tackling technical complexity.

There is a reasonable likelihood that you have seen some of my work!

The rest of the time, I lead an army.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
general nerddom, including computer games, teaching others foam-based medieval comabt, and relating nerd webcomics and the shows that my roomie watches in the backround to real life
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(statements in parens are my words, I asked around for the rest. I mean really, who knows what the first things others usually notice about themselves are without asking a few people?)

...that I have an out-of-this-world personality (I guess that's a complement? Imma take it as such)
...that I have *wonderful* cats (first impression when visiting my place)
...that I am very outspoken (anywhere in earshot)
...that I am easy to feel comfortable around (most recent OKC date)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Sword of Truth Series, Ender's Game, The Night Angel Trilogy (not vampires!) and a growing stack of math / physics / computer science writings.

Movies: Boondock Saints, Snatch, Shawshank Redemption, Schindler's List, Fight Club, the latest Star Trek, the Avengers, the Hobbit... gosh, there are lots more...

Shows: Really don't take much time for TV. When I did? Scrubs... I enjoy a UFC fight every once in a while. QI, but most people haven't heard of it, Fool Us...

Music: I have a very diverse palette :) I see no issue with playing Waka Flacka Flame, followed by Phantom of the Opera, and wrapping up with Glitch Mob.

Food: San Francisco turns everyone into a bit of a foodie. My favorite is fondue at the Matterhorn on Van Ness, followed closely by really good sushi, and a really fantastically-prepared steak. That said, I have yet to find a steak in San Francisco that I would recommend.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Oversized laptop(s)
2. Internet
3. My cats
4. Pajama pants
5. Car
6. Backpack big enough to fit an 18.4" laptop
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...any problem that has caught my attention, including but not limited to... games (and how to win them), philosophy, religion, software engineering, people, and math...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
50/50 chance that I will be doing some sort of exercise or hanging out at home with the roomies!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I spend a fair amount of time in self-reflection. Ideally, these hold true for you as well!

- I have no idea what it is to truly be "alone". I have always had multiple people that I could turn to in a pinch / get the perspective of.
- I trust easily. I have never had my trust abused to the point where I would no longer freely trust most people.
- I do best with E?T?. Slightly introverted or feeling is ok, but they keep me guessing.
- I have known who I am for a long time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are intelligent / can teach me something. are a modernist in your career, and are ok with a traditionalist in your personal life. I have alot going on. For balance, it might be best if you do too. That said, I love to pamper / open doors / pick up the bill. live a healthy lifestyle. I am not a fan of drugs / drinking, and do some form of exercise at least 2 times a week. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy consistent couch time too! Work out hard, relax hard.

Honestly, if you have come this far and are not sure if you should message or not... just do it :) long as it's not another 2-liner.