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41 Atlanta, GA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:12pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a simple guy and it doesn't take much to amuse me or keep me entertained. While I like to "cut up", I definitely know when it's time to get serious and go after my ambitions. I'm a team player. I'm ultimately looking for the elusive LTR with someone who feels a mutual physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual attraction to me. The only way to really know this is through honest and open communication. I'm a 100% believer in this type of communication though I realize most men can't handle it. I prefer to get to know someone and build on a connection before picking out the drapes and china. Summarized in one word: Chemistry.

I'm looking for someone who's easygoing, funny and smart. Sarcasm and wit are big plusses! I'm not bent on the whole masculine/feminine thing, but to me there's nothing more sexy than a "masculine man" with a great heart who's also quick to smile.

So there ya have it. Say hello if you've made your way this far. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a meteorologist my education and have always been somewhat of a weather geek. I'd love to work in the field, but life is not playing that card for me right now. Right now I'm working as a Learning Project Manager for major global Energy company and enjoy it. Other than that I'm playing sports, working out (I'm always my own big construction project) and spending quality time with friends. Making friends first is always my priority, not instahookups nor instahusbands. Gotta put in a little work before you get either of those. I believe I'm worth it. Just sayin'...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh and making people feel comfortable. For some reason people bear their souls to me without me even asking them. Blessing and a curse! I'm a great listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Either my shaved head, my weird green eyes or my smile. Been told I have "pretty teeth".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: The Karate Kid, Dreamgirls, The Color Purple, Ferris Beuller's Day Off, Braveheart, Rent, First Knight, The Pursuit of Happyness, The Count of Monte Cristo, Bruce Lee, Shawshank Redemption, Latter Days, By The People: The Election of Barack Obama, Welcome to Macintosh.

TV Shows: Big Brother, Original, NerdTV, Reality, Discovery Channel, TLC, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, Modern Family, Real Housewives of Atlanta, Designed to Sell, Top Chef, Cash Cab with Ben Bailey, Storm Chasers, CSI: Miami, Without a Trace, The Ellen DeGeneres Show, Food Network, The Mentalist, The Brady Bunch, HGTV, Dexter, Official Law & Order Page, So You Think You Can Dance, HISTORY, How I Met Your Mother, The Amazing Race.

Music: Lee Dewyze, Gary Barlow, Lady Antebellum, UAB Bands, Tesla Band, Jennifer Hudson, Alanis Morissette, Carrie Underwood, Latin Hip Hop Reggaeton, Anything 80s, Classical, Michael Buble, Christopher Cross, Russell Watson, South African Gospel, A Cappella Vocal Music, Rent, Air Supply, Garth Brooks, Old School Hip Hop, ♥ Jill Scott ♥, Whitney Houston, Barry Manilow, Michael Sarver, Sade Adu, Urban Music Direct, DJ Six10, Kenny Williams, Ben Lee, The Killers, Rob Costlow, Beyoncé, The Cavaliers, Savage Garden, Imogen Heap, Michael Jackson, Coldplay, Justin Utley, Earth, Wind & Fire, Dierks Bentley, Cheap Trick, Whitesnake fanclub, "Led Zeppelin", Lady Gaga, Metallica, Rihanna, Sade, Dave Matthews Band, Nickelback, Josh Groban, Maroon 5, Straight No Chaser.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Water
2. My phone
3. Air
4. Laughing
5. Friendship
6. Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being independently wealthy. Not having to work for "da man" anymore and generating wealth and personal wellness on my own terms. I also spend a lot of time thinking about traveling to the many places in the world I haven't been to yet, but would like to visit. Being authentic, encouraging, funny and generous to other people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually ready to chill after typically long work week and want to do something very low key. The fewer decisions that have to be made the better. I do enough of that at work all week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty much an open book. Ask and I'll most likely tell you if I feel like I can trust you. :-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Anything I've said rings your bell. If you're not hopelessly attracted to "bad boys" (I'm not one and you can't make me one). If you like to laugh. If things like loyalty, honesty, sincerity and realness are important qualities to you. If you have sexy eyes, legs and/or a killer smile. (Ok I thought I'd sneak that in there!) Salt-n-pepper hair too? Great kisser?;-)