I really enjoy going out with my friends to shows and bars and wherever, but I'm totally over the game of "hitting on" women at bars. It's just not a venue designed to really get to know people in a quality way.
So I'm interested in using OKCupid to meet women to make friends, and then see if anything feels right to turn into dating. I already have a really fun life with amazing people in it, but just not a significant other yet.
I also think that people can describe themselves in a profile, and some of these criteria will help to match up people who will possibly be a good fit, but you just have to get together and hang out to see if you really jive and there is any chemistry emotionally, mentally, and physically. So if any of this is resonating with you, shoot me an email and let's get a coffee. =-)