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36 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
If you asked my best friends about me, I think they'd tell you I'm adventurous, fun, funny, and easy-going. I love life. I'm back from 7 years living/traveling in Asia, and now I'm ready to put down roots in Seattle. I've started a career with an amazing company that I love, which I'm so so lucky for. I have a stellar group of friends since childhood to hang out with, and now I'm looking to get out and meet some single ladies.

I really enjoy going out with my friends to shows and bars and wherever, but I'm totally over the game of "hitting on" women at bars. It's just not a venue designed to really get to know people in a quality way.

So I'm interested in using OKCupid to meet women to make friends, and then see if anything feels right to turn into dating. I already have a really fun life with amazing people in it, but just not a significant other yet.

I also think that people can describe themselves in a profile, and some of these criteria will help to match up people who will possibly be a good fit, but you just have to get together and hang out to see if you really jive and there is any chemistry emotionally, mentally, and physically. So if any of this is resonating with you, shoot me an email and let's get a coffee. =-)
What I’m doing with my life
1) Starting a career
I've started my professional career by landing a job at a company that I literally could not be more happy with. I am SO lucky. Work life balance, super intelligent and quality people, challenging work, supportive/collaborative atmosphere. I haven't had one day that I've watched the clock or wished it was closer to Friday.

2) Enjoying my friends and family.
Save for short visits, I have been away from them for a long time. It's so nice to be back!

3) Exploring the PNW like I was on vacation.
Growing up here, I never did a lot of research on local areas to make sure to see all that this area had to offer. This was home. I reserved that kind of diligence to times that I traveled. Now I'm back from 7 years of constantly exploring new places, and I realize that I have a whole new playground of Washington/Oregon to explore. (I've never climbed Mt. Rainier. It was right there the whole time!) I'm so excited that, during this time of focusing in on a new career, I have so much natural beauty so close by that I'll get to enjoy exploring on weekends and short vacations.

4) Getting back into the dating scene.
I mentioned that I'm totally over hitting on girls in bars. Hence, OKCupid.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh, relating to people, communicating, adventuring/exploring, telling stories, analyzing things, figuring out why things happen and how stuff works.
The first things people usually notice about me
My humor and confidence. And I'd like to think my smile. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV Shows
The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Breaking Bad, Walking Dead, House of Cards, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Community,Game of Thrones, Archer, Family Guy, South Park, Parks and Recreation, the office, workaholics,eastbound and down,

Fight Club, Snatch, Pulp Fiction, Shawshank Redemption, City of Lost Children, Amelie, Flatliners, Train Spotting, Brazil, American History X, EVERY Cohen Brothers Film, Tropic Thunder, 40 Year Old Virgin, Knocked Up, Tenacious D and the pick of Destiny, Nacho Libre, Blade Runner, Devils Advocate, Groundhog Day, Boogie Nights, Zombieland, Natural Born Killers, Good Fellas, Dazed and Confused, Most Terrantino Films, Adaptation, Crouching Tiger, American Psycho, American Beauty, Twelve Monkeys, I could go on and on... So many good movies...

Most Tom Robbins, Most Malcolm Gladwell, Talent is over rated, Stiglitz, Friedman, Any Historical fiction or non fiction, any travel books, ALL Hunter S Thompson, Most Chuck Palahniuk, Ken Keasey, Carl Hiaasen, others
The six things I could never do without
Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All kinds of stuff. Too broad a question.
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends doing something. Dinner and then movie night. Hanging out at someone's house playing board games/talking. Going out to a concert or bar. Going bowling. Mini-golf. Camping. Etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've had Steve Winwood in my Spotify rotation recently.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
...if a lot of what I've written here sounds good to you.

And if you like my pictures. If you don't think it's really funny teaching a hill tribe woman back in the mountains of Guangxi that flipping off white people is how you welcome them to your village, let's just end this right here. ;-)