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GWARQueen

25 / F / Straight / Single

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly kosher
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Military
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
READ MY PROFILE BEFORE YOU MESSAGE ME! Apparently this message isn't getting across to people. -.-

Must know: I am getting out of the military and moving down to Texas (San Antonio) in the next 3-4 months. Keeping my profile the same as I plan on using it down there but only looking for friends until I move.

My name's Janette. I'm stationed at Tinker AFB. I'm looking for friends, preferably female! If I was to date I'd like a man who will be my best friend and my lover. I drive an 07 Mazda3 and a 2013 Kawasaki Ninja (old one in the photo, gotta post the new one.) I'm active duty in the USAF. I enjoy playing video games, shooting pool and going to concerts. I also enjoy fishing, camping, bowling, movies, swimming, traveling and walking around in new places. I'm adventurous but not into drama or trouble. I don't mess with drugs but I do occasionally drink. I'd love to find some fellow street bike riders. I like zoos, aquariums and amusement parks. I like going to the gym and prefer doing it with a friend/boyfriend. I love all music except rap. I admit that I am a jealous person and actually like guys who are jealous. Oh yeah, and I like guys with nice teeth, lol. Not that I don't care about people's vehicles and junk, but please have pictures of you not just your toys! Face shot and body shot required. Honestly, a guy having an attractive face is more important than his body to me, can always go to a gym and get in better shape but can't really fix someone's face. That does not mean I don't want a guy with a nice everything but having a handsome face is a must! FYI I really don't want to talk about work when I'm not at work.

I want to meet people fairly quickly, I don't wanna spend 2-3 weeks messaging just to meet and realize we don't get along! My profile is a mix of what I am looking for in friends and IF I was to date what I would expect. I took a lot of time on my profile, so if you aren't willing to take the time to read it I probably won't talk with you. The reason for me being upfront about everything in my profile is to save "your" time. There is no point spending days/weeks/months getting to know someone only to realize their relationship views/wants conflict too much with "your" own. I am looking for a SERIOUS Long Term Relationship. So if all you want is short term dating or messing around please don't waste my time! Call it silly but I mean soul mate, rest of my life kind of thing. Sorry but if I wanted a booty call I could go to the bar and pick up some random dude. XD

Something I should add: I know it's old school but I think the man should drive for the first date. I don't mind meeting up somewhere, but I will not drive across town to pick him up or hang out at his place. Part of that whole chivalry thing. XD

I see myself as the all in one package. I have great credit, financially stable and some level of college completed, I'm in the Air Force currently as an E4. I have no debt and no criminal record. I have never been married nor do I have any children. I'm in great shape and continue to work out regularly. I have been told and think myself to be intelligent and willing to learn. I'm compassionate and understanding yet I am not a wimp and will stand up for myself and those I care about. I live my life as honest as I can and expect the same from others. I do not use drugs. I drink occasionally and control myself when I do. My only pet is my cat Wanda. My family is distant and my mother, who I'm closest to, is open minded and accepting of me. I like doing a lot of things that most men ask for in a woman. I have had a limited number of sexual partners. I consider myself to be a very attractive female both physically and mentally. I do not have a bunch of friends who are endless drama. Because of all this I am looking for a man who is also an all in one like myself. =D I have met plenty of nice guys who are just physically unattractive and I have met plenty of attractive men who end up being "dawgs." I am looking for that guy who is attractive AND nice.

I'm open and honest so if you want to know anything else just ask. Please talk with me before giving/asking for phone numbers, I am not just gonna hand my phone number out to someone who has not even introduced themselves with their name, thanks.

For my info/pics my Facebook is----- www.facebook.com/janette.jablonski ---- do not send me a random friend request, send a message first or it will be declined.

Note: I quit smoking a few months ago, I now only use the electronic cigarette/vaporizer. :D

I have been cheated on, lied to and just plain out taken advantage of physically, financially, even putting my career on the line! I am done with the nonsense and drama. I will admit upfront I have trust issues, so if you can't deal with that I'm not who you're looking for. When I say trust issues I am being blunt, I mean the type of girl who is probably gonna look through the guy's phone if he has been acting weird or shady, who is gonna ask what the the guy was doing in his free time, etc, if you can't deal with this don't waste your time messaging me. I have nothing to hide when I am with someone and expect the same from who I am with. I haven't dated a guy yet who was faithful and actually kept promises.

In the section below I have my preferences for dating, but I am open to anyone who wants to just be friends. :)

For dating yes I am picky, but I am looking for a man who is my equal, I am not asking for anything I myself do not have/provide/etc beyond the obvious like I'm a woman looking for a man. :p
What I’m doing with my life
I am an E4 in the Air Force stationed at Tinker Air Force Base in Oklahoma. My specialty is Ground Radar Technician. I am also pursuing certifications and more education while I am serving in the military.
I’m really good at
Hmm, video games, pool, writing, I dunno basically whatever I really wanna put my mind to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hmmm, I love reading, don't get to do it as often as I'd like to but I'm a big fan of everything from fantasy to romance and movies I like action like 300, Gladiator, and The Last Samurai. I love music in general everything from metal, rock, alternative, country, classical, techno, classic rock, and more. And food... Well I like eating a lot of little meals like 3-5 times a day lol. I'm just a big food fan in general. I really like the TV shows Bones, House, Awkward and House Hunters. My favorite colors are Green and Purple even though I love Red and Black.
The six things I could never do without
Hmmm... My Cat Wanda, Video Games, Concerts, Basic living needs (Air, water, food, etc.) I dunno probably some other junk I am not thinkin' of. Now there's plenty of things I don't WANT to live without lol.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things to do. Places to go. And people to meet. Well, I'd like to say that's it but I think a lot, too much sometimes. =O I think about things I want and where I want to be in life a lot. I'm definitely an analyzer and I really enjoy coming up with ideas.
On a typical Friday night I am
At a concert, shooting pool, or playing video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ummm... I like "dirty" talk... Lol.
Please do not think this is like an opening to send me a message in relevance of this. I just answered the question and it was the only really "private" thing I found amusing and worth admitting lol.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
-Dating details- Do NOT ignore this list, if you don't like what I am looking for don't waste my time.

HONESTY is mandatory, no excuses!
I do NOT want children now or ever.
I'm looking for someone who wants LONG-TERM commitment/marriage.
I like some sports but I don't want "the game" to dictate every day's schedule.
I'd like to meet a guy who isn't crazy, if you still think highschool drama is cool then please don't bother me.
I absolutely do not participate in "casual sex." Sex for me means we are exclusive and together.
If you live more than 100 miles away I might not respond.
White men only.
If you are under 23 or over 32 I might not respond.
I'm looking for a guy who will do all those little things and stick to his word.
COMMUNICATION is mandatory!
Dark straight/short hair, no beards, minimal to moderate body hair, I don't like HAIRY guys.
Please be between 5'7 - 6'3.
I prefer guys who are muscular.
If you're fat or super skinny I'm not interested.
If you have children do NOT message me.
If you have ever been married do NOT message me.
No/minimal criminal record.
I accept people being religious but don't push it on me.
Absolutely NO illegal drug use, this is an instant fail. This includes marijuana.
Must have a job unless you're wealthy and must be financially responsible I am tired of shouldering the bills/dates for guys who blow all their money on drugs or other stupid stuff.
If you don't have a license/vehicle do NOT message me.
If you have pets they must be well taken care of and well behaved. No HUGE dogs.
Chivalry is a must.
I love piercings, tattoos and brandings.
I want a guy to play video games with, gaming is one of my favorite pass times so if you won't game with me don't bother messaging me.
If all your friends/family are drug heads/convicts/drama starters do NOT message me. I actually would prefer a guy like myself who really doesn't have a huge social circle, "bros" always cause so much drama, sorry but its true. Also, I put my relationship FIRST and I expect the same, so if you can't live with that don't message me.
Must be willing to spend a LOT of time together.
I've had enough of the "secret" messages/drama with guys exes/flings. Absolutely NO contact with exes/flings.
I will not put up with my guy flirting with other girls in any way, shape or form!
Cheating is an absolute NO, if you can't/won't be faithful do NOT message me.
I expect PDA.
Must be willing to take/post pictures of us together.
If using any social websites (facebook/etc) once in a relationship I expect statuses to be updated and public. I will not hide my relationship from anyone and expect the same.
Last but not least, treat me how you want to be treated, don't ask for anything you aren't willing to give, and know what you want.