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35 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Jul 26
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Not at all
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Soft touch/ hardass seeking same for light-hearted fun.

I'm in an open relationship with Verialex13; we're both on here looking for friends and fellow travelers

Compulsive consumer of new information and have a love/love relationship with books and television.

I grew up in a large rowdy Philadelphia family and have the scars to show for it. While I've been lucky enough to get a couple of Masters Degrees and live all over the world, I'll always be a little rough around the edges.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking interesting turns. I worked or studied all over before landing here.

I'm an entertainer and entrepreneur at heart, and my side hustle is in music marketing, particularly working with the band listed first below in my favorites. The business is a little too feast-or-famine to do full time and I haven't quit my day job in finance (which I would love to do sooner rather than later).

Ultimately I'm working towards weaving all the amazing writers, filmmakers, musicians, comedians and hustlers in my life into an unstoppable force of nature.
I’m really good at
Organizing things at work. Disorganizing things at home. Making you laugh. Dancing. Reading. Living abroad. Sticking to yoga despite my complete lack of congenital flexibility.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 1493, American Nations, Debt: The First 5000 Years, Empires of the Word, Age of the Unthinkable, A Splendid Exchange, Time Traveler's Guide to Medieval England, A Brief History of Nearly Everything, 1491

Movies: I'm Gonna Get You Sucka, Royal Tannenbaums, Airplane, Bad Santa. Inside Job.

Music: Phobic Phuture, Alice in Chains, Scarface, Mozart, Tracy Chapman
The six things I could never do without
Fancy book learnin
My girlfriend
My guitar and keyboard
Family and old friends
New York City
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Systems. Cultures as systems. How societies collapse. Travel. Non-monogamy. What type of headspace 30 Rock's writers must spend most of their time in.
On a typical Friday night I am
It could go either way. Friday is really good wind down time.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You like like to dance, drink, or take obscenely long walks around New York.
You've outgrown monogamy.
You have an insatiable lust for knowledge...and for lust