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I've come to the realization recently that I'm incredibly happy with who I am. We're only as free as we allow ourselves to be, and the less you tie yourself to, the more you can experience.

I'm good hearted and compassionate but able to dish out the insults with the rest of them. I can flirt it up but still keep it respectable.

I spend a lot of my time either working on some kind of interactive visual project (such as personal websites or 3d graphics), and the rest of it either hanging out with friends, or hanging out a bar or club just for the atmosphere.

I get along well with just about anyone, whether I've known them 1 minute or 10 years, and I don't think there's any better way to live life than just to live.

Currently I'm working an IT technical support job but I'm always looking to move back into the fields I really enjoyed such as graphic design or Web design/development.

I've had a lot of personal events that go a long way towards discovering who you really are as a person, and I'm working on enjoying life and finding myself again.

Graphics, Design, Singing (so I've been told, though that's mostly Karaoke), giving advice, Helping others, getting others around me to enjoy themselves (whether because of who I've surrounded them with or because of what I'm doing to/with them)

I've also been told that I'm a good friend and listener, a great dancer (at least if you're into nightclubs, especially 80's, Synth, or Goth ones, anyway)

I'm good at cooking if I feel motivated to, and on occasion good at acting

It always seems to be eyes... I've been told all of my life that they change color regularly between blue, grey, and green.

I would be lost without my eyes... part of being an artist to me involves being able to take what I see around me and be inspired both in life and artistically.

My computer is a necessity as it has become a major outlet for my creativity in the form of graphical design... I enjoy 3d graphic art too much.

Music, in all of it's various forms, is essential to life. You can take away video games, television, plays, literature, etc. and I'll be upset, but without music I think I'd lose complete touch with reality.

Companionship is needed, in the right doses. I don't think I could ever be fully whole if I was living as a hermit in some cave someone without anyone else around. This includes friends, family, and lovers, all are necessary to a degree.

Going along with that, while I can sometimes only take them in small doses, my family is a necessity... They all live miles away from me, but I do enjoy having them in my life to an extent and when I don't manage to get to see them around holidays especially I find myself missing them quite a bit.

Sexual and physical contact is also a necessity in my life, and goes hand in hand with companionship... sexual expression can release a lot of what we have inside and inspire and thrill us in ways that many other things never can.

I'm not going to lie like many guys would, I do spend a lot of time thinking about sex... after all it's only natural to do so.

When I'm not thinking about that it's usually thinking about life or spirituality, or lately about how fucked up the political and economic state of this country is.

Trying to forget the fact that I have work in the morning... and usually ignoring it altogether and just having fun anyway. I'll do anything from shoot pool, catch a movie, go to a club, sing Karaoke, or even just hang out with friends and chat or coffee (if we're in a diner) or grab some beers and joke around.

First off if you've read my profile and not decided I'm some kind of jerk... in fact, if you have decided that I'd love to chat anyway.

If you share any similar interests and would like to talk about them.

If you're not afraid of who you are inside and are comfortable meeting new people (no I'm not just looking to chat online... I think internet communication and text messaging has taken the personality from too many aspects of life, and for someone to really know one another you need to be able to meet them face to face.)