Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love life, and putting passion into it. I'm emotionally strong,
comfortable with myself and generally happy. I am in an ethically
I will take you at your word. I'm a bad liar. I return pens to
their rightful owners.
I will respect your privacy and personal space. I wait until you're
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in grad school for my MSW degree. One more semester! Bear with
me if I am slow getting back to you.
When not writing papers, I also enjoy:
riding my bicycle all over Chicago;
meeting friends for tabletop role-playing games
going to lots of workshops
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying simple pleasures, like a cool breeze on a hot day
Learning from others
Making people feel good about themselves
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really don't know; I feel like I blend in well. Perhaps my beard
and my bicycle.
I pretty much always have a couple of books with me in case I ever
want to sit down and read.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The novels and short stories of Flannery O'Connor and
William Faulkner; Whipping Girl; Bowling Alone;
Killing Rage; All the Names; Blindness; SAS
Survival Handbook; The Dimond Age; Screw the Roses,
Send me the Thorns; Delta of Venus
Movies: Raising Arizona; The Transporter; Shortbus; 28 Days
Later; Kill Bill; Shaun of the Dead; To Kill A Mockingbird; Muppets
Take Manhattan; Ghostbusters; Secretary; Bring it On; Aliens; The
Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
Music: Screaming Females; Fugazi; Belle & Sebastian; The
Smiths; The Pixies; The Specials; Ted Leo; Sleater-Kinney; Elvis
Costello; Sick Of It All; Le Tigre; Johnny Cash; Public Enemy;
Sonic Youth; Sinead O'Connor; Motorhead; Joy Division; Gang of Four
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
with swords and magic (even if I haven't had time to
read one in a while)
emotional and physical connections with others
late-night conversations with friends
SPF 30 sunscreen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the people I care about
how to live every day to the fullest
binaries and how to smash them
how to avoid getting hit by a car while biking in Chicago
where I should go camping
class issues and capitalism
escape routes from whichever room I am currently in
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
planning where my next bike bike ride will take me
at a party with friends
and listening to music
maybe all three in one evening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a fetlife account. I want to be more intentional about
exploring my kinky side.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am probably not available for intense emotional relationships
right now due to school pressures, but I am looking for friends
and/or physically intimate connections. Message me if you want to
meet up for coffee or something else.
I'm always looking for more people to ride my bicycle with, or to
do some climbing.
Witty conversation is appreciated.
Have a good head on your shoulders.
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