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Gabriel_Ratchets

37 Evanston, IL Genderqueer, Man

Genderqueer, Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:23pm
Orientation
Queer
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love life, and putting passion into it. I'm emotionally strong, comfortable with myself and generally happy. I am in an ethically non-monogamous relationship.

I will take you at your word. I'm a bad liar. I return pens to their rightful owners.

I will respect your privacy and personal space. I wait until you're done talking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in grad school for my MSW degree. One more semester! Bear with me if I am slow getting back to you.

When not writing papers, I also enjoy:
riding my bicycle all over Chicago;
eating doughnuts
meeting friends for tabletop role-playing games
going to lots of workshops
exploring coffeeshops
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying simple pleasures, like a cool breeze on a hot day
Learning from others
Being awkward
Creating memories
Making lists
Listening
Kissing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really don't know; I feel like I blend in well. Perhaps my beard and my bicycle.

I pretty much always have a couple of books with me in case I ever want to sit down and read.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The novels and short stories of Flannery O'Connor and William Faulkner; Whipping Girl; Bowling Alone; Killing Rage; All the Names; Blindness; SAS Survival Handbook; The Dimond Age; Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns; Delta of Venus

Movies: Raising Arizona; The Transporter; Shortbus; 28 Days Later; Kill Bill; Shaun of the Dead; To Kill A Mockingbird; Muppets Take Manhattan; Ghostbusters; Secretary; Bring it On; Aliens; The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Music: Screaming Females; Fugazi; Belle & Sebastian; The Smiths; The Pixies; The Specials; Ted Leo; Sleater-Kinney; Elvis Costello; Sick Of It All; Le Tigre; Johnny Cash; Public Enemy; Sonic Youth; Sinead O'Connor; Motorhead; Joy Division; Gang of Four
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

fantasy novels with swords and magic (even if I haven't had time to read one in a while)
emotional and physical connections with others
late-night conversations with friends
20-sided dice
my bicycle
SPF 30 sunscreen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the people I care about
how to live every day to the fullest
comic books
gender and other binaries and how to smash them
how to avoid getting hit by a car while biking in Chicago
where I should go camping
class issues and capitalism
sexuality
survivalism
escape routes from whichever room I am currently in
sex
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
planning where my next bike bike ride will take me
at a party with friends
playing video games and listening to music

maybe all three in one evening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a fetlife account. I want to be more intentional about exploring my kinky side.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I am probably not available for intense emotional relationships right now due to school pressures, but I am looking for friends and/or physically intimate connections. Message me if you want to meet up for coffee or something else.
I'm always looking for more people to ride my bicycle with, or to do some climbing.
Witty conversation is appreciated. Have a good head on your shoulders.