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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29-49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Not at all
Catholicism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Life's too short to not live to the fullest. That doesn't mean be self-destructive. But take chances, explore, follow curiosity, and get outside your comfort zone.

I don't want emotional rollercoasters. I want to have fun, meet people, and see what life has to offer. Let's start by talking. Talking is good. I love live music. I love sushi. I'm as big of a movie nut as you'll ever meet.

I want a girl and a woman in the same person. We can act like teenagers one night yet be there to comfort or help each other after a bad day. I think this is a good thing to want.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on a movie on which I'm Associate Producer and Co-Editor. Reorganizing my apartment (no joke). Writing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analyzing. Empathizing. Looking at situations from different points of view and contexts. Bringing intellect to strong emotions with definite structure while hopefully letting be completely truthful. And obviously, enticing you to want to know more about me. ; )
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair. My t-shirts. I’m open and real.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: I have a list of 100 for your edification. It was here for a long time but people would run into a huge wall of text and stop reading. I will merrily send it if you want.

Music: Rock-n-roll with an Alternative bent, Techno in a pretty broad definition, Jazz—Miles and Coltrane especially. I’m sort of restless in wanting new music, both brand new music and old music I haven’t heard. There’s not enough good new HARD rock. This immediate instant I’m listening to Neon Indian’s Era Extrana album. It’s seriously good.

Stuff I've listened to this past week: DJ Terry Mullan mix, Sasha/Digweed mix, Buzzcocks, Ramones, Bob Dylan, Courtney Barnett, Black Moth Super Rainbow, Beck (new album), Unknown Mortal Orchestra.

APHEX TWIN: I've been a huge fan for years. I'm blissfully swimming in the 16 plus hours of previously unreleased achieved music he made available for free. Love Syro.

Shows: Penny Dreadful, Shameless, House of Cards, Fringe, Breaking Bad, Fargo, True Detective, Game of Thrones, Ray Donovan, Last Week Tonight with John Oliver. All-time classics: Twin Peaks, Battlestar Galactica reboot, Star Trek:TOS, The Sopranos, Dexter, Monty Python’s Flying Circus, The Prisoner, the orginal Not Ready For Prime Time Players SNL.

Books: Primarily genre fiction. Sci-fi, Fantasy, Horror, Crime. Outside of that, it tends to be writers who are viewed as transgressive, at least they were in their time. Some poetry. I adore getting lost in a book like few things in life. But I've been concentrating so hard on writing lately that, in my mind, I edit anything I read. This profile? Every sentence in it has been combed over at least a half dozen times.

I LOVE sushi. Obviously there’s more food I like, but going out to sushi with someone cool would be great. I drink lots of tea.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being creative
My Family
The Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A writing project in progress, sociological/generational patterns in the United States, movies—from many perspectives, how I like art as a whole, how amazing technology is while it also drives me nuts, writing, what concerts I should go to, having some kind of girlfriend (it is why I’m at OKC after all), what my priorities should be, where the best sushi is, what to do in a zombie apocalypse (see below).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a concert, at a movie, or at home doing some combination of being on the Internet, watching something, or writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I went to an all male high school. We had cheerleaders from the student body. I was a cheerleader Senior year for basketball season only. Yes, I was a cheerleader in high school.
You should message me if
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Come down here.
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A little further.


Okay. I think we’ve gotten rid of all the lame people. Thank you for reading this far. I’m glad you’re here.

If what you have seen and read in my profile appeals to you and you’d like to get to know me better, then please message me. I’m trying to let it all hang out so there are no false perceptions. I want truth. Only truth. I hope you’re passionate, smart, and want to take a chance on meeting someone genuine. Or maybe we’ll just have fun and some laughs. Or maybe you just want sushi. I’ll take all those reasons.


Someone recommended I do this and it seemed like a good idea, not exactly romantic but...

WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future.

Bonus: For those who to have read this far, I’m really lucky you’re here. Warning, I get a little serious, but I bet you don’t find the following thoughts on many profiles.

Reading through profiles, many others mention thinking about the zombie apocalypse. One person asked, “Why are so many thinking about this?” Here’s my theory. The geo-political world stage is unstable right now. I think many would not be surprised and are afraid World War III could break out any time. It would probably start in the Middle East. The situations in the Ukraine, Israel, and Syria disturb me. Could the violence spread into something else? Also the economy is bad and many are hurting. So how do we as a people deal with these fears? We think about the zombie apocalypse. Through the fantasy of zombies we cope with our fear. Then we can go on with daily life. This is why the zombie apocalypse is mentioned in so many profiles.

Extra Extra Bonus, for those who just can't get enough! I wrote this on one of the questions. It's about profanity. I'm putting it here for fun.

I swear more when I'm angry, frustrated, or upset. That's typical of most people, I suppose. Sometimes it can be fun though just for its own sake. Shit, yeah. George Carlin is the once and future zen master of swearing. If you listen to him, he generally does it for maximum effect. If you fucking say fuck every other fucking word then the fucking shit just gets fucking old and who gives a fucking fuck. But if you say, "The evening was delightful and pleasant. I was thoroughly engaged by our conversation and laughed so much. It was a crazed night that nonetheless felt stable and safe. Zestful, marvelous, scintillating, like harvest moon sunsets with the promise that you'll be up until dawn. Oh my God he was such a hot fuck!" See. Isn't it better if used with maximum punch? Shit, yeah. Someone who never swears and doesn't want me to swear around them, it is highly unlikely we'd be a match.