Not sure what I expect to get out of this at this point. Way too many of you strike me as the same. Not sure if there are just that many fake profiles or if there's just aa dissipation of originality, but something is off with all these profiles containing the same style photos, same cliche description, similar unoriginal username. And for 90% of the profiles....ladies, stop ridiculing dudes for have shirtless mirror pics and ab shots when most of you have an equally embarrassing, pathetically desperate clevage accentuating selfie or 3... you truly need to get over your chests. What you think is subtle, suggestive and tasteful more times than not just comes off as obvious, blatant and outright whorish. If you don't present yourself as having anything more to offer, why are you surprised that you only get bombarded by creeps just looking to hook up... Haha. You're feeding the machine of the objectification. Also, I have become quite annoyed with nearly every profile making a point to "pre-reject" any short initial messages just saying "Hi". Why is there some great expectations for an elaborate effort filled intial message for some stranger that will likely be determining a potential response soley on profile pics anyway. We aren't some breed of rainforest bird with extravagant mating attraction rituals. Pack up your egos and stop expecting strangers to jump through hoops just for a chance to chat with you. I don't see what is so wrong with the most basic social standard in history of simply saying "Hi" to someone you wish to converse with anyway.
I'm looking for a unique, cute, calm, genuine, warm hearted girl with an open mind, self respect and substance. Someone who marches to the beat of their own drum and hasn't been molded into today's societal standard with a desperation for attention even by the means of self degradation. I'm interested in honest, intelligent and individualistic people that have a solid sense of humor, may share some of my interests and perhaps have some sort of regard for health/exercise or an active lifestyle.
I've been told that I'm the scary or intimidating look with the sweet teddy bear personality, which I'm not entirely sure about, but I am definitely much deeper than then what some would simply presume is summed up as a delinquent meat head that lifts weights. I thrive on intellect and creativity. I live by the golden rule. I advocate honor and integrity. I'm perplexed by this era of insecurity where everyone is starved for attention and in such dire need of acceptance. I loathe the growing selfishness and lack of OR fake compasion in people today. I desire someone who observes and questions...someone who carves their own path instead of conforming to follow the trail they "ought to".
Be true to who you are instead of what you think people believe you ought to be and you'll find what you are really looking for.
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I’m really good at
Being open minded.
I am also pretty solid at Mario Golf and Mario Kart on N64. I know,
just stole your heart didn't I. haha
I also can cook some and I make a mean salad.
The first things people usually notice about me
You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Shows: Family Guy, The Office, The Simpsons, Curb Your Enthusiasm,
Seinfeld, South Park, Criminal Minds, Dexter, Sons of Anarchy,
Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Ted Talks
Music: Too many to list
Movies: ^^same^^ (includes documentaries)
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, Society, the Psychological, The philosophical
You should message me if
You live by the golden rule and realize there is more to consider than simply your own desires...that's a good starting point.