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29 M Kirkland, WA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:58am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
English (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
It is difficult to summarize myself as I am constantly in flux, I change my thoughts and views from day to day. A fickle beast, if you will. I spend a great deal of time helping my son with school and then doing stuff with him, I work a lot, like 50+ hours a week, I do Karaoke almost every week, many times by myself.

I am an introspective extrovert. I think about the Universe and how insanely large it is, how incredibly insignificant we are. I can be extremely observant, and can generally tell a great deal about people I meet within a minute or two of talking to them, it is a skill developed to live up to my namesake no doubt. (Holmes is my last name) Sometimes I am incredibly confident, sometimes I am racked with anxiety, and mostly I am just trying to not take anything seriously enough to experience either.

I am a father, a gamer, an idealist, a dreamer, a bleeding heart, a conservative… I am really bad at maintaining friendships, I tend to not talk to people for weeks then when I remember, I feel like it is weird now to try to talk to talk to them again. (Man there was a whole lot of to’s in that sentence.)
What I’m doing with my life

(My eight year old told me this himself. Well not in those exact words, he doesn't swear. Which is surprising given my mouth.)
I’m really good at
Work! I own meetings! They are totally my bitch yo.

DAD JOKES! I am told I'm quite (p)unny!

Parenting! I can convince my eight year old of ANYTHING! I mean, he does think I am a MOTHA FUCKING SUPER HERO!
The first things people usually notice about me
I have wild blue eyes. They are like steel blue yo...

Blue Steel! (Super intense gaze!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lemme break it down for ya now:

Books: J.R.R. Tolkien, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, The Walking Dead, Textbooks, (Especially computer related ones, I love books about new programs, and books about development languages) “The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, the Trilogy of Five”

Movies: Pulp Fiction, Akira, Dark Knight… I’m sure there are lots more, but I honestly don’t think about movies often enough to have a good list of them as my favorites.

Shows: Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Hunter x Hunter, Tosh.0, Stephen Colbert, Attack on Titan, House of Cards, Cosmos.

Food: Pretty much anything foreign is great. I am not a huge fan of American food because I grew up with it, so it feels kind of old hat now a days.
The six things I could never do without
My son, he is the light of my day, and the, uh, reflective light of the night?

The Internet - I am addicted... Bad... Please help me... I NEED IT IN MY VEINS!!!

I am a social butterfly, so I start to go real crazy when I have no one to talk to. I tried to go camping by myself once, I lasted for a day and a half before I was talking to sticks and shit... True story.

MUH GRANDMA! She is so awesome, I actually talk to her like every day...

Reddit... I really love that site... It's to good.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
EVERYTHING! (I had 42 here before which really summed it up, but now I will elaborate)

I think about my job, day to day activities, video games, lots of other banal stuff… Then within 30 seconds I am thinking about how hard it would be to calculate the statistical likelihood of other intelligent life being out in the universe. Whether it is our moral obligation to help our fellow man, whether it is our fiscal obligation as well. How I can improve myself as a person, how I can help others improve themselves, whether or not to spend a bunch of money on various things, my car, my computer, my entertainment system, the bum begging for my money on my drive home, shirts, pants, (Though not really pants… Aliens don’t like wearing pants!) my appearance, my future, my sons future, the future of society, the future of our planet, the future of our universe. Whether or not humans will figure out immortality before we destroy ourselves. Whether downloading yourself to a computer is immortality, (Seriously though, do you think we die when our body dies? If our persona lives on do we? How would that experience feel?) or just a replica of yourself. How to make the world a better place, how to make it a worse place, whether humanity is even worth saving from its inevitable fate. What it would be like to go into a black hole, what the person in front of me thinks of me, what the person beside me thinks of me, what the person a few doors down things of me. Does the planet have a consciousness? Does the sun have consciousness? Will we be able to explain everything about the universe from within the universe, or will we have to detach ourselves from this world to bring about that level of knowledge.

This list can go on, but the stream of consciousness that just spewed from my head probably gives a good idea of what I think in a given five minute period of time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually I am singing Karaoke. I also will sometimes stay home, and occasionally I’ll go down to Cap hill to do some barhopping with my city friends. This is really boring because I lead a sadly boring life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I cry every time I hear Carl Sagan's speech titled, "We humans are capable of greatness."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are similarly thoughtful. I don't care for people who don't care to have interesting conversations. If you think about yourself and your personal image as much as you think about the health of humanity as a whole, and as much as you think about the realistic chances of getting to see another planet, chances are we will get along in spades.

Also! Yes I am a dad, and no it shouldn't matter to you, I am not the kind of guy who is going to introduce you to my kid. Honestly I would prefer to keep my parenting life and my romantic life as far apart as possible, so if you are looking to be someone's mom, I am not the right guy, but if you are scared of the responsibility, he has a mom and she does her job well enough.