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39 M Sacramento, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:11am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
***I've been answering questions here for several years and it feels like my feelings/understanding of life is evolving - to that end I am deleting my questions and retaking them as I have time***

I grew up in Pacific North West on a wee island with no electricity. My skill sets are very diverse. I know many irrelevant facts and love to teach things to interested people. I can get caught up in a story and before I know it I've taken on different accents and mannerisms.

I have an obscure car that I love to take on weekend drives. Anytime I have to take a trip I always look for the twistiest route. If you enjoy weekend drives, I'm the "guy" for you.

I'm a deep thought nerd who enjoys at all things car, computer, knowledge, and food. I play catan, and any other game that comes my way. Love cribbage.

I herd cats (doctors) at work. A friend asked me what I do, I stick it to the man. It's kinda fun.

I listen to NPR, read slashdot, Fark, The Oatmeal, and Savage Love. I'm fond of the Oxford Comma. The Onion
What I’m doing with my life
Working for The Man's in-laws (UC). I enjoy my job. Several non-profits have rencently encouraged me to participate on their boards. This is a wonderful new twist. Both are working for intersex rights.

I am a shop steward, organizer, and tireless advocate for workers' rights.

Loving my midtown appartment. Looking for twisty roads. Being of service.
I’m really good at
Listening, procrastinating...

Driving fast, fixing stuff, computers, random facts, cribbage, massage, cooking when I have someone to cook for. Thinking outside the box. Working on my car. Letter writing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a big "guy". Super curly hair during the winter. In the spring I shave my head for St. Baldrick's fund raising.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Currently reading: Packing for Mars - Mary Roach.

Books/authors: Shulgin, Pratchett, Hitchens, Plait, Roach, Heinlein, Lovecraft, Dawkings (sparingly). The Onion. Anything related to Intersex Activism. 5 Very Good Reasons to Punch a Dolphin in the Mouth, Lovelock, Shapin, Freakanomics

Magazines: Car & Driver, Scientific American: Mind, Popular Science.

Movies: Cloud Atlas, Warm Bodies, Life of Pi, Fight Club, Lord of War, Memento, and many others. I'm fond of gritty dramas. Anything Coen. Serenity.

Shows: I do not have cable TV and haven't watched broadcast TV for several years. Breaking Bad, Stargate, The Wire, Firefly, IT Crowd, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Walking Dead.

Music: currently listening to a blend of 90s hard rock, DnB, and ambient trance/techno. I enjoy most kinds of music except christian rock and soprano sax smooth jazz - like Kenny G.

Food: I like food and am omnivorous. My theory about trying new things is that food poisoning only last for a couple of days and I will lose weight. Food poisoning sucks, I don't recommend it.
The six things I could never do without
Sense of Humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Medical ethics, how to approach people on OKC, cars, computers, sex, buying a house, intersex activism, social justice, sex, driving twisty roads, planning drives that take the windiest roads, sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends at coffee shops. Playing Catan, MTG (yes I'm a nerd), taking a random trip out of town. Reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm intersex. I'm not terribly fond of the boxes society tends to need. To that end, I sparingly call myself pansexual and monogamish.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 33–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you like to talk, dream, explore, and can write a decent sentence. If you are interested road trips, the best conversation comes during these excursions. Trying new foods. Exploring Sacramento's coffee scene. The "I'm looking for" section is woefully inadequate. A note on 'casual sex': it is not what I am looking for, but if it happens...ok.

I am involved with a wonderful person. My libido is super high and my SO encourages me to seek additional romping.