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40 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:54pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Spanning the pages of the guy that I've turned out to be, I've learned to love unconditionally, forgive and sometimes forget and remain loyal to friends that respect and consistently teach me something new each day. I'm independent and pray that one day, I can relinquish the reins with the hope that someone comes into my life and remind what a real kiss feels like. I love my job immensely and when I tell people what it is that I actually do for the government... smiles come to the forefront and the conversation ensues. I consider myself a great guy with an awesome personality, a little bit of neat freak and solitary at times. I have an active lifestyle that requires a lot of dancing, outdoor activities and deep sincerity. I would like someone to make my eyes light up when they enter a room. Someone who I can be proud of and root for no matter what the circumstances.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am on a career path of retiring from the government with my hearing intact, physically fit and my family proud of my accomplishments. I recognize the importance of maintaining great friends and forgiving family for their short comings. Being the oldest of four, I've been thrown into the fire pit as the voice of reason...sometimes it sucks, but in the end I love my siblings. They make me laugh at the trials of life that they've encountered. I set a goal for myself three years ago to start saving for a home.. and .... I finally MADE IT HAPPEN!!. OAKLAND resident now!!!! 2014 is starting off just fine if you ask me. I'm satisfied, smiling and blessed. I've learned and cried. I've become stronger and have come to the conclusion that life repeats itself and once you get the hang of's easy!!!!

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being a great friend and supporter of peoples dreams. I listen like no other and appreciate my friends confiding in me with honest and truthful conversations. I also love conversations that stimulate discussions...even if I don't agree with the house majority. Im REALLY good at SCRABBLE and would never turn down a game with anyone. They could be 6 years old or 80. I AM GAME. LOL!!! However, if you got me in a corner and asked me what I'm really good at, I'd tell you making an awesome pomegranate martini!
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my smile, stride and confidence during first meetings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book so far this year has been Steve Harvey's "Act like a lady, think like man." Witty and funny all from a comedic stance. Loved it.!!!! "Love Actually" and "Away We Go" are two great movies that I can't get enough of. Those story lines really get me. I love KBLX 102.9 and hip hop music. There is nothing like a great love song or better yet, a show at Yoshi's as Mint Condition hypes up the crowd. Mexican food or for that matter, any food is awesome to me. I love to eat!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Burt's bees lip balm, hand lotion, a call from mom, clean sheets, strawberry ice cream and HGTV.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend time thinking about which project on my home to start first
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am at home relaxing and having a nice beverage and or movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is that I have a thing for guys with large noses. Some people like blue eyes. I like large noses...what can I say!
You should message me if
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Message me if you
1) Cut the baggage of you past and have learned from it so that your future can be brighter,
2) Have a great sense of humor and can laugh at yourself.
3) You like to try new things.
P.S. I'm looking for a "boyfriend". Someone who I can take home to my mother and introduce to my friends. I AM READY. It's time for that game change.