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32 M Queens Village, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:28pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a geek who writes stuff, and I study self defense. I hope to be teaching it within the next few months.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a published author. Look for an author named "Declan Finn" on Amazon. That's me. You can match up the author photo with one of mine.

I market myself as the anti-Dan Brown... basically, if Dan Brown knew anything about writing, history or theology.

So you can have a more up-to-date image of what I look like, I have a YouTube channel I post on every few weeks. I don't do mirror photos. And you can hear what I sound like. Enjoy
I’m really good at
Usually, anything I put my mind to. If you're willing to teach me, I'm willing to learn.

Currently, it's Krav Maga, the self defense system of the Israeli military. No, I'm not Jewish, it's just the best system I've found. Capoeira is pretty, but I'm as gymnastic as your average quadruped, so, no.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told that it's my blue eyes, or my friendly smile.

Most likely, it's the book I'm reading.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) I'll read anything that isn't nailed down. If it's been on the bestseller list, I've at least read the flap copy if not one book. It's a long, long list. When there was a "virtual book shelf" on Facebook (pre-Goodreads) I stopped when I hit 1500 books.

B) Does it have Cary Grant? I've watched it at least once. Based on a book (Die Hard, Patriot Games, Lord of the Rings)? I might own it. Hitchcock? Got it. Star Wars? Lord of the Rings? Die Hard? Got 'em. We could be here a while.

C) Music: All over the place. Classical, Nightwish, Cruxshadows, Dragonforce, most of John Williams' soundtracks, et al. My masters thesis was on Irish Rebel songs and history, so there's a list right there.

D) TV..... I miss 24, CSI: NY and Babylon 5. I currently watch NCIS, Castle, Mentalist, Joss Whedon products, Revenge, Criminal Minds, Hawaii 5-0, Royal Pains, White Collar; Dr. Who. Burn Notice (MacGyver for the dark side). Arrow.
The six things I could never do without
God, my books, my family, and writing. I know I'm two short, but I've forced myself to go without so much for so long, I've made do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing with a book, or the week's television on playback. Do you have a better offer?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll admit anything, but not to the general world. Just ask me.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're serious about meeting someone different.

Also, Catholics are preferred, but not required. (Seriously, 1/4 exes is Catholic, so...)