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59 Los Angeles, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 56-70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please take a few minutes to actually READ my comprehensive "About" page, before sending me a nice message. There's much to be said for good social skills. Do more than just look at my pictures and write a superficial note, only saying Hi, or Hey, asking me how I'm doing, or complimenting my outward appearance. That gives me no incentive, whatsoever, to establish communication. I simply don't have any interest in responding to guys too lazy or shallow to read a woman's profile and too unimaginative or inarticulate to initiate an intelligent, coherent conversation.

My work, as a freelance photojournalist, has taken me on many fascinating adventures. I was, also, a nightclub singer - in Chicago - back in the day and some of my work is featured on SoundCloud. I'm semi-retired, now, and not into the bar scene, or being "fixed up" by well-meaning friends. So, it's my hope to find an easy going, humorous, compassionate companion, with similar sensibilities, ideologies and good character, via this venue. (beguiling smile)

I'm a fun loving and fairly open-minded woman, who enjoys good jazz, relaxed company and stimulating conversation, over a nice meal. Engaging in athletic and intellectual pursuits, with a fit, bright counterpart are very pleasant pastimes, too. As far as love goes, those of you with discerning tastes will understand that in order for a good woman to be turned-on and passionate, toward a man, she needs to feel something special. We do not share or surrender ourselves indiscriminately, but prefer to reserve our bodies for a man who treats us with respect and admiration. Needless to say we need to feel that way about a man in order to want to share his body, too. Sex is a very intimate act and I consider it the ultimate bonding experience, not just a recreational sport. If that isn’t your viewpoint, please move on to the next profile.

Ideally, I would like to take leisurely strolls around town, hike, shoot pool and play tennis, etc., with a simpatico neighbor/partner, who lives in my immediate vicinity. I avoid the freeways like the plague and am disinclined to drive more than about a 5 mile -surface street- radius around my general 90046 zip code location, which is just adjacent to Hollywood and WeHo. So, please don't contact me if you live outside of the U.S., outside of California, or more than a couple of miles outside of my above mentioned radius.

For mutual attraction purposes please have at least one picture posted, be 56 or older, height/weight proportionate, Unattached and have no relatives or roommates permanently living with you. Also, please be a non-cigarette smoker (occasional 420 is okay) and stand 5'9" or taller (I adore looking up to my mate, both literally and figuratively). Oh and No bisexuals, please. Kindly respect my criteria and refrain from contacting me if you don't meet it. Thanks! (winsome smile)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, let me see now, my life -at this stage- is one of ongoing self discovery. I need not answer to anyone, as I'm my own boss, which is a freedom earned after many trials & tribulations. In the past, life's ups and downs kept me busy overcoming obstacles, for quite a while. Creative expression is more focused and a sense of serenity soothes my spirit, since necessary moderating elements are finally in line......... If this resonates and you can relate to it, then we'll probably get along very well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...being myself. I'm the devoted type, who takes good care of her mate, always endeavoring to make him happy. I've been a widow, for several years now, but previously enjoyed a successful 27 year marital track record...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...are my laughing eyes and warm, sweet smile...
Also, I look like my photos. Please look like yours, too. The pictures with the pixie-cut hair style reflect my -True- self. The one wearing a bobbed cut is not recent, nor are the ones in the little black dress, but I haven't changed too much since they were taken. Staying fit, living an active, healthy lifestyle, without much alcohol and no tobacco, apparently has its advantages... ♪★♫
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
[Books] The Joyous Season, What Makes Sammy Run and too many bios & autobiographies to enumerate.
[Movies] The Black Swan, Run Lola Run, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo w/Rooney Mara, Night of the Iguana, 7 Faces of Dr. Lao, Children of Paradise, Jacques Tati's - Mon Oncle, The Music Man w/Robert Preston, Joy House w/Alain Delon, 5 Fingers -aka- Operation Cicero w/James Mason, Auntie Mame w/Rosalind Russell, Sweet Smell of Success and 1960's version of The Time Machine w/Rod Taylor & Yvette Mimieux.
[TV Shows] Hot in Cleveland, Cold Case, Monk, Eleventh Hour w/Rufus Sewell, Wings w/Tim Daly, Alfred Hitchcock Presents, The Avengers w/Diana Rigg, Secret Agent & The Prisoner w/Patrick McGoohan.
[Music] Beatles, Billy Holiday, Nat "King" Cole, Tim Buckley, Van Morrison, Bill Evans & Linda Ronstadt w/Nelson Riddle's orchestra.
[Food] I like most types of cuisine that are commonly considered scrumptious, such as: American, Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Mexican, French and Italian, but prefer Alfredo and Bearnaise to Marinara sauces.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Food - which includes Chocolate (silly smile), Comfortable Lodgings, Good Friends/Recreation, Music, Dancing and a Loving Man to enjoy them all with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...the ironies of life, in correlation to the wonders of the world and universe...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...relaxing after an eventful week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To admit something that is private I would need to feel comfortable with and trusting of the person who will be sharing such a confidence.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. meet my basic criteria, outlined in the self-summary section, and are seeking a casual friendship that may - when built upon mutual truth/trust - blossom into something more intimate. No pressure should be involved. You'd be inclined to agree that nothing should ever be forced or rushed... As the late, great Mae West once said: "Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly." ;-)