By day, I am a mild-mannered tech writer for a major metropolitan software
company. By night I entertain, amuse, and delight audiences near
and far, performing songs (many of which I've written) to help
encourage people to relax and imagine they're enjoying a cold drink
on a warm beach. In my “copious free time, I’m an organic gardener,
Reiki master, and
wanderer. I am learning to own and increase the amount of love in
my life, whether I'm with someone else or not. I'm neither a couch
potato nor an athlete - never was good at sports because I wasn't
quite coordinated enough, but I love to go walking.
I’m an introvert who plays an extrovert on stage, and
occasionally at parties.
I am a healer and occasional dancer between worlds. I listen to
the voices in my head. I am empathic, strongly so with a select
few. Maybe with you? I'm learning that I am the source of all of
the love in my own life, and it's...changing things.
I value honesty
and authenticity, creativity, humor, personal responsibility, and a
positive attitude. I keep any commitments I make – if I say I’m
going to show up at 2 PM on Thursday, I’m there somewhere between
1:55 and 2, barring exceptional delays.
Love is a verb, and intelligence is the ultimate
Emotional baggage is limited to one suitcase plus a carryon. No
I have been in monogamous relationships and in polyamorous relationships, with varying degrees of success. I think that both types can work or not, depending on the people involved. At this point in my life, I am primarily interested in finding someone I can go deeply with and co-create relationship with on all levels - emotional, spiritual, intellectual, physical. I have learned how to listen, how to communicate authentically, how to be fully present despite more than a bit of ADD, how to honor the Divine in my fellow beings, and these things I blissfully bring to the right partner. The level of openness of such a relationship is open to negotiation, but I wouldn't do well with someone is insecure or has difficulty managing jealousy, nor with someone who can't prioritize at least some reliable space for me in their life.
Being outdoors is good, but when it's really wet and windy, there is wisdom in watching it from indoors next to a welcoming fire.
I am authentic, humorous, creative, and cuddly