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54 Portland, OR Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 45–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English, Spanish
My self-summary
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What a beautiful and mysterious life. The ways of love are also mysterious, aren't they? I often think...really? How can this work better than somehow meeting face to face, but then I remember that I live on a small mountain in a very small town. (I actually live in Corbett, not Portland)..... So, here goes: I am in a time of radical change. I have cleared my plate....sold my home, cleansed my relational palette...taken time to reflect and am opening to the newness of the next phase of my life. My time in the last couple years in more natural environments has really shifted my own Spiritual definitions. I now sense that pretty much everything is much more simple than we make it. Though I still rely on daily practices, I imagine a sweetheart of mine would have a similar path....very very connected to "Spirit" but perhaps not naming it or at least, not needing to push a specific definition on anyone, but available and interested in sharing that connection and even accessing that connection through intimacy.

For fun, I play, work, dig in the dirt, dance, love, laugh, cry, meditate, pray, sing and hang out with plants and people. I am generally empathic and use that skill in my work along with nutritional and herbal counseling, film making, massage and farming.
Compassion and kindness tend to be fairly easy for me, but I would also say I have a nice edge to me to round that out.

As for my personality, I am an introvert. I need a good deal of time on my own to hear my own voice, but I also love a lot of together time. I prefer one on one or small gathering of friends over a larger party. I am not, however, shy. In broader circles, am also the sort of person that can talk to anybody and am quick to laugh. I am happy to kiss you in public, dance with you in the store aisles or forest, climb a tree, muck in the dirt or enjoy something more refined like a wander in the Chinese garden, a night at the opera, dinner in a fabulous restaurant, or time at home with healthy food that is also fabulous! (due to culinary training by Chefs that humored my ravenous desire to learn to cook and taught me all kinds of tips).
I have the range and playful personality of a Sagittarius and the love style of a Capricorn. Meaning, I am open and friendly and fiery in general. But it is important to know that romantically, I am slow and deep and love the sense of the day to day. But fear not, though I like to take things slow, things just get better as we get to know each other. Unlike the normal Sag. I tend to be able to commit to you and just you, as my lover, and am not easily bored. Connection and presence is sexy to me. Sensuality a must and clear, open communication is the best spice there is.

As for you? Are you kind? Are you also a spiritual and spirited man? Are you emotionally intelligent? Are you perhaps a sweet, earthy, dirt diggin' artist who cleans up well? Do you feel that you are part of a larger circle of life? Do you play an instrument that would blend well with the cello I am trying to make my way back to? Are you powerful but peaceful? Do you take the time to sit quietly? Are you self reflective? Have you investigated your shadow have you gone through some darkness and come up shining? Are you a grounded mystic? Do you communicate well? Do you collaborate well? Are you a masculine " bridge brain? "Are you still in touch with your wild authentic nature? Are you still reading? If so contact me! Surely, we can find each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I seem to really be focused on the Natural world these days. Getting crops in is high on the list. Deepening friendships is also pretty important.
I am exploring new freedom. I have grown kids that blessed me up by entering my life when I was but a kid myself.
I am a massage therapist/ herbalist, nutritional/coach/ intuitive/Artist/Film maker/Farmer....
I am getting to know the new farm; studying,collecting and processing a lot of herbs. Expanding my knowledge of folk medicine. Treating clients. Striving for balance. Wondering how to satisfy my fire sign tendencies with my earth sign slow moving heart and nervous system. Listening deeply. Getting to know my shadow. Escaping the city. Dancing. Laughing. Writing. singing. Getting to listen to some amazing music often played in my living room but not usually by me. (but in my mind I play at least 10 instruments!) Paying attention. Enjoying my world. Learning to take my time. Eating some off the hook food and sharing it with friends. I have some really swell friends.

I just began working with tuning forks with surprising results...notice the wild holster in the pics I made for them...ha ha.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to the body and following instructions. Reading between the lines. My thumbs are pretty verdant green. Compassion is pretty high up there. I have a certain type of courage. I am fairly steady. Pretty good at finding something worthy in any situation. I am a good combo of Artistic but grounded. I have scary good intuition that I sometimes ignore. Most likely I can make you laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmm, perhaps that I listen? I am not afraid of eye contact but I don't burn a hole in your retina. I notice things. Possibly the way I could exhibit fantastic grace followed by uncanny dorkiness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh. So many. I love Kurosawa, Almodovar, Miyazaki, Greenaway, Miranda July, Sofia Coppola, and so many more. (I am not above watching some really kinda stupid stuff too,) Books: I am reading The Good Life, I loved Jump off creek, The dirty life, read a little Philip K Dick recently, but mostly I am wallowing in farming and herb books which make me giggle these days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
ability to turn the wifi off!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Community. Interconnectedness. Authenticity. What it really means to unconditionally love someone. I am also thinking about how it sometimes takes a while for the true nature of something to reveal itself. Pondering Chinese medicine, I never tire of it's depth. And is mysterious....I am a life long student, for sure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
As of now....there is no typical anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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well, almost anything under the right circumstances.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You feel some kinda spark.
You want to be known and you are interested in knowing.
You like taking your time.
You are happy in your skin.
You know how to be a best friend.