LOVE IS POSSIBLE!!!! Read no further if you don't believe it, are not emotionally available, haven't dealt with your demons, or aren't ready for a real relationship. I need intimacy, deep and strong, on every level. Don't say you want long-term when you don't have the ability to do that. I seem to fall in love with men who cannot love me back. Please make sure you are open to love.
I make a man my priority. I will not be his option.
A girls plays with your mind . . . a woman explores it. Think of me as say, a modern day Lewis and Clark.
My desire is to find the love of my life. Partner, friend, lover. The person I cannot wait to get back to at the end of my day.
I am equal parts angel/devil, Saturday/Sunday, a multi-faceted gem, from a small town in Nebraska. A self-sufficient, independent woman who is looking for love, real love and all it entails. A very out-going person who loves to meet people . . . I am real, I don't believe in superficiality . . . am not perfect and therefore like to do whatever I can to improve the person I am and don't expect anyone else to be perfect either . . . am passionate about anything I undertake . . . believe in blooming where you are planted . . . sometimes you just gotta do what ya gotta do . . . don't make excuses, find solutions . . . don't like negativity . . . want to work to make the world a better place whether it is helping kids, people, animals or the environment (no, I am not a greenpeacer or animal rights nut). I love to learn. I am deep, loving and committed. Surprise me with your affection and passion and be prepared to touch. Don't be shy, I'm not.
It matters not whether I am on a beach or at the mountains . . . I love being there . . . outside. Thunderstorms make my favorite evenings and sunshine makes my best days . . . cozy, romantic evenings in or having fun out, it's all good . . . am happy when working hard, sweaty and dirty in jeans when digging in the dirt and yet love dressing to the 9's. High maintenance and being a relational drama llama is not my style. I enjoy life stories, as the experiences of others cannot but enrich my own life.
My family and friends are special and are a high priority with me, especially my sons who although are basically grown are still very much front and center in my life, but they are not my entire life. Amazing friends also grace my life and are vital to my happiness as I hope you have healthy relationships with friends and family also.
Communication and honesty are imperative to a successful relationship. To encourage one another and build each other up. Let's reach our ultimate potential, together, and have a blast doing it. I love a confident, independent man who can be strong yet sensitive, and decisive without being controlling. A man who has a sense of humor but can be serious, not always joking. Sarcasm is inane, I had enough with my teenage sons :-)
To save you the trouble of contacting me and finding out we aren't on the same page, I want you to know when I responded to the question about God's place in my life, I wasn't taking it lightly. God is extremely important in my life and I long for the man in my life to share that same principle. For me, if you don't, it just won't work. I can compromise on many, many things but that is not one of them. It is important that I be upfront with you and save you any trouble.