Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Currently updating my profile, so if it looks jumbled that's why.
Hopefully I'll have it finished soon. Thanx. :) Not quite sure
where to start. I'll try to be done over the next few days.
I recently started seeing a polyamorous woman, and I guess I'm
technically polyamorous myself. I'm also kinda with a woman in the
Baltimore, MD. area for the last 3 years. (11/21/2013)
I was told I should change this because I sound whiney. I don't
care! Its how I felt at the time, and I still feel this way. I'm
not going to hide my feelings to get friends. First what kind of
friends am I getting if I have to pretend? And why do I want to
bother if I can't be myself? If you don't like me the way I am, its
your loss, not mine. I don't need 'friends' who can't deal with the
way I really am. I make a great friend. I won't expect you to
change at all. I may expect you to explain and justify the way you
are, but that's just because I care enough to understand.
I'm just me. I'm tired of others trying to define me. I am what I
am, regardless of what others think. Opinions don't change what I
am. I try to live up to my nature. Its not always easy. I try to be
a good friend, but some think I'm no good at it, even though I've
always been there when they ask me to. What more can you do? I hate
losing friends, but it 'takes 2 to tango'. I can't make things ok.
Some say I don't listen, but if getting them to talk means pulling
teeth, is it my fault? I don't know. It hurts to lose a friend that
meant so much, over something so minuscule. I don't know what to
do, but it doesn't really matter I guess. Sorry, kinda depressed
atm. Losing good friends isn't easy. better yet, I wonder if we
were ever friends to begin with? Who knows?
My Wife left me (11/06/2011), and its turned my life upside down. I
miss her and my daughters so much. I never knew what Hell was like
till now. *sigh* I would do anything to have them back. For the few
months after she left I cried more than I ever had in my life. But
after almost 2 years now, I'm doing a lot better. I'm not even all
that upset over the whole situation anymore. I'm still not happy
with it. *sigh* But life goes on. I have a new job I really like
(8/27/2013) and life is looking up. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
What I want. Pursuing my Purpose.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Many things, just ask. *eg*
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Its often not good. But I guess I grow on a lot of people though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Matrix Reloaded
The Matrix Revolutions
Star Wars: A New Hope
Star Wars: Empire Strikes Back
Star Wars: Return of the Jedi
Adam Lambert (just discovered him, he's awesome)
-If I had You
-Whataya want from Me
-Paid in Full
-around the world
-why oh why
-I'm in heaven when you kiss me
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Spirituality - Life Purpose
2) My 3 Daughters (and my girlfriend (11/21/2013))
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Exactly. It doesn't matter what, I spend a LOT of time thinking.
Usually about weighty and consequential things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at work or turning in early to be at work for 6am. *sigh* I
really love my job though, so its ok. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know its cliched, but if you want to know my private life ask. If
I'm comfortable, I'll answer. Oh, so here's one. I'm a Libertarian.
I support a minimalist Federal Government. I think that most of
what they do exceeds the bounds of the Constitution and are
therefore illegitimate and illegal.
You should message me if
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I'm looking for several kinds of people. Friends - Anyone really;
New Age types - My spirituality matters deeply to me. If you have
an interest in a close-knit bunch of people, that's what I want. I
need to be part of something bigger than any one person; Anyone
else looking for a true friend - I can't rule anything out.
If this sounds remotely interesting, drop me a line. I do my best
to respond to all messages. Sometimes it just takes a while. :)
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