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40 M Lansing, MI

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Leo, and it matters a lot
Graduated from two-year college
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Currently updating my profile, so if it looks jumbled that's why. Hopefully I'll have it finished soon. Thanx. :) Not quite sure where to start. I'll try to be done over the next few days. (10/25/2013)

I recently started seeing a polyamorous woman, and I guess I'm technically polyamorous myself. I'm also kinda with a woman in the Baltimore, MD. area for the last 3 years. (11/21/2013)

I was told I should change this because I sound whiney. I don't care! Its how I felt at the time, and I still feel this way. I'm not going to hide my feelings to get friends. First what kind of friends am I getting if I have to pretend? And why do I want to bother if I can't be myself? If you don't like me the way I am, its your loss, not mine. I don't need 'friends' who can't deal with the way I really am. I make a great friend. I won't expect you to change at all. I may expect you to explain and justify the way you are, but that's just because I care enough to understand.

I'm just me. I'm tired of others trying to define me. I am what I am, regardless of what others think. Opinions don't change what I am. I try to live up to my nature. Its not always easy. I try to be a good friend, but some think I'm no good at it, even though I've always been there when they ask me to. What more can you do? I hate losing friends, but it 'takes 2 to tango'. I can't make things ok. Some say I don't listen, but if getting them to talk means pulling teeth, is it my fault? I don't know. It hurts to lose a friend that meant so much, over something so minuscule. I don't know what to do, but it doesn't really matter I guess. Sorry, kinda depressed atm. Losing good friends isn't easy. better yet, I wonder if we were ever friends to begin with? Who knows?

My Wife left me (11/06/2011), and its turned my life upside down. I miss her and my daughters so much. I never knew what Hell was like till now. *sigh* I would do anything to have them back. For the few months after she left I cried more than I ever had in my life. But after almost 2 years now, I'm doing a lot better. I'm not even all that upset over the whole situation anymore. I'm still not happy with it. *sigh* But life goes on. I have a new job I really like (8/27/2013) and life is looking up. :)
What I’m doing with my life
What I want. Pursuing my Purpose.
I’m really good at
Many things, just ask. *eg*
The first things people usually notice about me
Its often not good. But I guess I grow on a lot of people though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Animal Farm
Atlas Shrugged

The Matrix
The Matrix Reloaded
The Matrix Revolutions
Star Wars: A New Hope
Star Wars: Empire Strikes Back
Star Wars: Return of the Jedi

Adam Lambert (just discovered him, he's awesome)
-If I had You
-Whataya want from Me
Sonata Arctica
-Paid in Full
-around the world
-why oh why
-I'm in heaven when you kiss me
The six things I could never do without
1) Spirituality - Life Purpose
2) My 3 Daughters (and my girlfriend (11/21/2013))
3) Family
4) Friends
5) Music
6) Wartune
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Exactly. It doesn't matter what, I spend a LOT of time thinking. Usually about weighty and consequential things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually at work or turning in early to be at work for 6am. *sigh* I really love my job though, so its ok. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I know its cliched, but if you want to know my private life ask. If I'm comfortable, I'll answer. Oh, so here's one. I'm a Libertarian. I support a minimalist Federal Government. I think that most of what they do exceeds the bounds of the Constitution and are therefore illegitimate and illegal.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
I'm looking for several kinds of people. Friends - Anyone really; New Age types - My spirituality matters deeply to me. If you have an interest in a close-knit bunch of people, that's what I want. I need to be part of something bigger than any one person; Anyone else looking for a true friend - I can't rule anything out.
If this sounds remotely interesting, drop me a line. I do my best to respond to all messages. Sometimes it just takes a while. :)