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Gaspar6

39 M Long Beach, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:57am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Irish (Poorly), Maori (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
"One regret that I am determined Not to have when I am lying upon my
death bed is that we did not kiss enough" –Hafiz

"♫ It's Only life after all.."
loosen up a bit, I tell myself at times, when needed.
That's from a song & is coming from this atypical Virgo.. so that's a bold statement.

Headline reads: George Burns type seeking his Gracie Allen...
(you Know about these two ??)
(classic love story entrenched in comedy... amazing)

Update : ...But even beyond the romantic scene, I would like to talk with new interesting folks with fresh outlooks and ideas.. it can get a bit stagnant up here sometimes.. sooo we Can talk & be easy...

...Stay Golden Ponyboy...

OK, here it goes...
I Am Solid, Loyal, Dependable, I can keep a secret, I'm a true confidante, an Earth sign..grounded...
Honest... anyone In to that anymore?
I will NeveR play any games with you...
and I Expect the same.
Originally from the Midwest... raised on the shores of lake Erie in Ohio to be exact... awesome place for water fun and woodlands in the spring and autumn seasons...
Spent a few years working with some Very high end music clientele in Nashville, Tennessee... I didn't want to dedicate my life to that mostly shallow (yet rather exciting, at times) industry anymore, so I transitioned from there to Sonoma State for my Experiential Education degree... now teaching & working on living the dream up here in Sonoma county.
I Can be a little shy at times..but then... you'll wonder where I've been all your life... ;} (I'll be wondering that about you too)

I'd like to have a family with the Right person.(sounds simple?) I used to think that I wasted time in the wrong romantic relationships but now I believe that I was supposed to be there and learn...and to teach my partners what they needed to know, too. I'm currently working a lot and not finding much time to meet new people; so here I am on the interwebs. I will definitely slow down to spend time with my partner-- I look forward to that.
I'm spiritual but not dogmatic. Though I do follow philosophical path-works on my journey.
I have been seeking out inspiration in this ol' world; give me something to dream on...

Tender words we spoke to one another are sealed in the secret vaults of heaven. One day like rain, they will fall to earth and grow green all over the world. ~ Rumi

So I hope that you find whatever it may be that you are seeking... and Remember to Breathe and Relax...
Life is indeed what you Choose it to be...
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching...and....
working on a better me >W.I.P. work in progress.
One day at a time.. one life at a time...
...trying to stand my ground..while I'm semi-patiently waiting for Her..(you?)... and eventually ...that look in her eye... when our souls blend together and the whole world fades away...
Ever have That feeling??
That is where I come from... hope that it's not too real.
I love deeply...
a blessing..
or my curse? ha
...but let's keep it loose for a bit...
I’m really good at
Listening, teaching & teachable moments, keeping kids of all ages closely connected to the natural world, being a solid friend, holding hands, kissing, big spoon, making fun of Caucasian people...
...You ever just need a soft place to fall? I'm That fella... strong enough to hold us both up at times.
( But my mental health cannot afford to deal with any crazy shit anymore… Those other girls done used up all that part) Only selective fun crazy from now on…
...Going the distance... I'm usually the last one standing. I'm from the heartland; I'm of Irish/Swedish descent.. we're Hearty & dependable.
The first things people usually notice about me
Warm smile? Towering presence?
Some say that I look like a Viking? I Am Swedish...
You like big man with strong arms to hold you tightly and keep you safe? yeah, me too
... and use adverbs properly?
( I Know... total package, right?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books/Authors: Tao Te Ching !! Rumi, Hafiz, Sufi writings, Bill Bryson is fun, Mark Twain, environmental lit: Ed Abbey, Mary Oliver, Aldo Leopold, Philosophers! : Buddha, Lao Tzu, Padmasambava, Seneca, Nikola Tesla, Plato, etc ,beat poets, biographies, history, etc. I love to read quality.. will add other authors soon. Miller, Steinbeck, Hesse - Siddhartha, some Hemingway.
I'm ready to watch and read Gone with the Wind again..with an adult perspective....

Movies.. ohhh I don't know: Crouching Dragon, Grizzly Adams, the Outsiders, Crazy Heart,Comedies, docs, and yes.. (dirty) Dances with Wolves ( best thing he ever did-- a classic),
Waterworld-- just keeding. ET, Bridge on the River Kwai, Goonies.. truffle shuffle, son, clerks was fun. comedies, John Wayne.. a good western, mystery, Spartacus (wth Kirk Douglas), Cleopatra, classics.

Tele: that one show with the witty intellectual humor...nature channel, Park & Rec, Parenthood, Alf, MASH, 60 Minutes - stay current, Always Sunny, Smurfs, Muppets,.. We do have a tv(no cable) in the front room, but I sometimes watch shows on the net.

Musica:FuNk, world beat, AfroBeat, rock, jazz, bluegrass, newgrass, Americana, Grateful Dead !! llet's dance...Doc Watson, Earl & Randy Scruggs- Lester Flatt too, Hardly Strictly Festival, blues: electric, Chicago, acoustic, delta.., folk, Railroad Earth !! , JJ Cale, Drive By Truckers, Dylan, Robert Hunter, , Gordon Lightfoot, Bruuuce Cockburn, Darrel Scott! Rusted Root, JIMI !, Richie Havens, Paul Simon, John Denver, Good country,..et cetera... fun talking points...

Food: yes. sometimes no...veggy based, fresh & healthy..please.. mostly.
kale!!
The six things I could never do without
My soul
Love-- in its many forms,
Family,
Nature
Music! (LIVE, recorded,etc) & my vast record collection!
PUnKINS.. and their gourd cousins.

gourmet bbq! & Irish whiskey & Waylon and Willie. John Cash & Kristofferson. Garcia & Hunter !!

Festivals!-- all kinds ...., love letters, my acoustic guitar (not too awesome on it yet.. working on my own songs though), good books, fine bourbon, decent vino, disc golf, frisbee tossing, holding hands, Annie's Woodstock dressing, coins from foreign countries, accents, clean socks with style, kites!, cedarwood oil, my maroon colored pick (for my trimmed rad beard), my big Lake Tahoe blue beverage cup with bears and pine trees on it, sage, sweetgrass, random facts, feathers, et cetera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...How I can continue to positively affect my global community, myself, and Mother Nature, too!
Tell people that you LOVE them... they Or you may not be here tomorrow .... think about it!
play from the heart ... the world needs that.

MUSIC, nature, science, truth, light, grammar, love, geology, art, Records, ... exploring, ...

"Every atom in your body came from a star that exploded. And the atoms in your left hand probably came from a different star than your right hand. It really is most poetic thing I know about physics. You are all stardust."
---Physicist Lawrence Krauss
Always go deep...
"♫ We are stardust.. we are golden..." - Joni Mitchell

Her... if she may be thinking about me, too..
If She is sweet.. like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEiMQ9w3t3o&NR=1&feature=endscreen

devotion: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oP_CwMr7yvc
On a typical Friday night I am
Sipping fine bourbon, listening to records, dancing to live music, counting my blessings, Wild Kingdom with Marlon Perkins reruns... whatever clever...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I Think that Stevie Nicks was playing when I surrendered my virginity. jajaja
I'm on my Second career path. It feels fairly set. Now I'm ready to do this whole thing Properly... It can be a bit daunting but more so exciting! My chronoLogical age doesn't reflect my passion for this sentient lifetime...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You carry yourself with a sense of EASE......
meaning also that You are Not pushy! (That will Not be tolerated)
You ARE Patient, Trustworthy, open to a LTR, emotionally available & secure- I really need that from my partner.
You Got Soul-power! u funky, like to Dance, an optimist, love Aretha, we are both working on healthy minds please...

you are spiritual and sensual,
intuitive, creative and grounded,
doing something good in the world..
blend of book smart And a little street smart too

I'd love to meet someone who knows who she is and what she wants out of life, preferably with a sense of adventure and a sense of fun! If you have a good heart, are kind and intelligent.. then send me a message! Maybe we should go out sometime.... that Is why we're on here.

You get this: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html?awesm=on.ted.com_8rGQ&utm_campaign=brene_brown_on_vulnerability&utm_content=ted.com-talkpage&utm_medium=on.ted.com-twitter&utm_source=direct-on.ted.com