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Gatefold_Cover

46 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:31am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it matters a lot
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Technology
Income
$150,000–$250,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If I read another profile that explains you like or are good at "kissing" I'm going to throw up.

I'm usually pretty reserved and quiet up until that time I decide to say something which makes those around me go "...woah that was intense...".

I'm a Designer at a startup. I really love my job and am grateful for it.

I do not own a TV.

I just bought a drum set - so, that happened.

I love cardamom pods and the smell of old LPs and train whistles. And buoy (navigation aid) horns.

KCRW fan. Not a burning man fan (although I've been in '94, '95 and '96) It's great if you like Burning Man but it's a bit of a story why I don't go and I'm happy to share it.

I like randomly starting chat sessions with OKC-ers... you have been warned.

I find this funny:
http://foaas.com/

I'm an INFP on the Meyers Briggs, and a cancer-monkey if you care about Chinese astrology.

I have four planets in Cancer which I feel makes me intuitive to the point of being psychic. This may unsettle you or make you comfortable.

I volunteer at SFJAZZ to keep the faith ;) although I'm not religious in any traditional way.

I'm fascinated by bathymetric maps and underwater topography - like what the bottom of the east river in NYC is like.

I'm articulate and painfully self-aware. I like going sailing. My parents are still together. I am the oldest of 3.

I don't have any tattoos. sorry.

I'm a great cook but rarely follow a recipe. Not a big manual reader either, just lemmie at it and Ill figure it out.

I'm basically trying to make myself a better person all the time and this has it's highs and lows. And I don't like vegan ice cream at all.

Let's remember none of us are perfect. We're works in progress, and this is an inaccurate and often funny process.

I'm sure we all try to polish up some image of ourselves to appear as some ideal but usually after some time of getting to know someone you discover a slightly different reality... and while we get there it's just a process of discovery we need to be devoted to maintaining in an openminded and hopefully loving and humorous way.

I guess I'm just looking to chat a little bit, and maybe make a few friends here, and hope that the door opens for more for me at some point off in the future. I'll write more here as I figure out what I want to say.

I'm also seeing there is a difference between meeting someone on this site, for example, and genuinely "attracting" the right partner into your life. The former can be self-centered and self-serving, the latter requires a different kind of mindset - I'm trying to act to draw the right partner to me, rather than merely acquiring one on a site like this. Wish me luck :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm trying to be of more service, figure it out, be more balanced, be responsible, have good boundaries, and be happy.

Volunteering.

Trying to go to the gym or yoga more.

Trying to play the drums more.

Being shit scared!! I kind of like it though. I feel like if I'm not shit scared I'm being extremely safe. Maybe that's an anxious approach to life but I would argue otherwise. I think most of my fears , warranted or unwarranted are like oars I can steer my life with. And if you're scared of something and do it anyways, the effects are exhilarating.
I’m really good at
Sleeping. And walking. Self observation. Laughing at myself.

Picking what record to put on next.

Spilling Coffee

vacuuming

juicing lemons

wasting time

handshakes

sewing buttons

whiteboarding

doing laundry

fiberglass reconstruction

tieing bowlines

humming

dreaming

sarcasm

breakbeats

grinding salt

using strava

cleaning records

lexulous

stargazing

perturbing
The first things people usually notice about me
My nose. My green eyes maybe. Good teeth? That my sarcasm doesn't fit my warmth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I mainly read magazines... Metropolis is a fave.

Records, records, records. I love me my hi-fi. Lately I'm liking these:

Husky + The Head and the Heart + Cave Singers + Sleepy Sun + The Lonely Forest + The Middle East + Jesse Woods + Fleet Foxes + Oliver Nelson + Cayucas + Red House Painters + Heartless Bastards + a whole lot more old and new.

I can generally find something in any piece of music that I can map back to a part of my life somehow.

Even more stuff I like:

low roar
yukon blonde
memoryhouse
john fullbright
Nick Drake
Terry Callier
Beastie Boys
Pavement

shit like that...
The six things I could never do without
Meaningful connections with people. Music. Fresh basil. Lint roller. Record cleaner.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My Career. Relationships. How to improve or understand myself. How to quit living in my head too much. Mentoring.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm at the movies, or home listening to records while blasting through QuickMatches ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have never seen breaking bad.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 28–60
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are up for making a friend, getting coffee, having a real conversation. Be sincere and able to deal with just about anything.