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Let's see how bland I can make this... I am 5'9", healthy, active, teddy-bear stocky, drug- and disease-free, a very light drinker and complete non-smoker. I sing, I Scrabble, I bicycle, and all my bills are paid! I'm a techno-geek and a goof-ball, but I also play a little piano (and a little less guitar). I am currently IT Manager for a TV movie company in mid-town Manhattan, and living in Battery Park City. I love working and building with my hands, and I love the outdoors--water, grass, sky, breezes, animals (especially dogs!). Let's sing a song, spell a word, bike a mile, toss a frisbee, surf the internet, and quote '80s movies at each other. Who could ask for anything more?

I play at working. I play at living. That is, I play at working for a living. Frankly, I've always felt that I'm just pretending to be an adult 'cause it's easier than getting stared at all the time. I'm a technophilic, musical-loving, occasional professional singer and full-time computer geek. No, I'm not gay. Yes, I'm sure. I spend my days maintaining and administrating the computer network systems for a television movie company. Mostly I just enjoy the expensive toys. The "working at it part" almost takes all the fun out of it (almost). I spend evenings and weekends in a variety of activities depending upon mood and season. In the spring/summer/fall I bicycle into Central Park and sing with a guitar friend by the row-boat pond. When it's colder I enjoy movies, theater, and TV, whether at home or out. I also play a bit of piano and guitar, and sing at home quite often. I read action/adventure, mostly science-fiction, and historical fiction.

Science and technology-- I'm extremely handy, able to repair/install/build pretty much anything around the house--appliances, audio/video, furniture, etc. Plus, of course, computer expert, too. Singing-- Occasional pro singer and musical theater performer (member AEA). Way back in the day, I toured the US several times performing in musicals. I can harmonize with practically anything. You can view my old performing resume and hear a little singing at http://www.Dimarc.com. I also regularly sing with David Ippolito, "That Guitar Man from Central Park" (http://www.ThatGuitarMan.com). Scrabble-- Good enough to scare lay-people, but not quite good enough for tournaments. I enjoy playing opponents from around the world on the internet, but prefer in-person. I'm certainly competitive, but always take defeat lightly. (Hey, it's just a game!) Bicycling and outdoors-- I love to bike along the Hudson and through Central Park. There are year-round, twice monthly 10pm moonlight rides that are wondrously beautiful and quiet, though the colder months are definitely more for the fanatics (in us all). I love the outdoors, and have a special affinity for Central Park. A sunny afternoon in Sheep Meadow with a frisbee never gets tired...and when it does, just collapse in the grass.

It must be something weird, 'cause no one has ever told me. Personally, I don't think there's anything that initially stands out about me. I think it's more about realizing how diverse and eclectic my interests are as someone gets to know me. (If I'm singing, that's what people always notice).

BOOKS-- Caleb Carr, "The Alienist"--Wonderful descriptions of 19th-century life in NYC. Douglas Adams, "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy"--Great marriage of science fiction and British drollery. Laurel K. Hamilton, Anita Blake series--Dark, sexual, brooding, playful alternate reality writing about defeating every monstrous evil imagined, while learning to live with people that only annoy you. MOVIES-- I'm definitely one of those people that can watch movies that I enjoy countless times. Classic favorites include Dave, The American President, When Harry Met Sally, Sleepless In Seattle, Witness For The Prosecution, Serendipity, Roman Holiday, Breakfast At Tiffany's, Always, Grand Canyon, and the list goes on and on and on. (Yes, I can quote '80s movies with the best of them.) MUSIC-- For me, music is very much about what's fun to sing, so I often don't know popular music by artist or even lyric so much as melody. With that said, favorites that have sunk in include Eagles, Doobie Brothers, Enya, James Taylor, and much more. There's far too much musical theater to begin to try to pick favorites there. Again, it's often just as much about what's fun to sing as it is the meaning in the song. I'll also mention that I generally go to sleep listening to Enya's "Watermark". FOOD-- I love seafood, Japanese, Italian, Chinese, and classic American diners.

Music. I'm definitely one of those "would prefer losing my sight to losing my hearing" kind of people... A big bed, preferably a four-poster. A piano. TiVo. E-mail. Hope.

I spend a lot of time thinking about what I want. Do I want to buy a condo in the city and happily take on that mortgage, or should I just sell everything I own and live out of a backpack wherever I land? Do I want to continue to work in computers, or go back to professional performing? Do I put myself up on an internet dating site like a piece of cured meat, or just leave it to fate that I'll round a corner among 8,274,527 people and suddenly meet the woman who's been looking for me?

I work hard, so I'm usually relaxing at home after a long week's work. If I go out I might head to a piano bar or karaoke.

I was once arrested... for speeding. Rather embarrassingly lame and stupid, as arrest stories go. Even the cop was embarrassed.

You should message me if you enjoy laughter and laugh easily, or you like being goofy, or you love to sing, or you love old and new movies, or you like tinkering with things, or you like biking, or you like the outdoors, or you like animals, or you couldn't care even a little less about Lindsay Lohan.