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Well Hello There assorted OKcupid peoples. I have just moved to
Middlesbrough and I'm hoping to make some friends here :) I've just
graduated and so, no longer being a student, I don't have geeky
student societies to rely on for friend finding any-more!
I love my cat. I wish I could have brought her up here with me, ah
I've just started my first job as a Support Worker.
I have feminist and socialist values and I'm learning to have a
whole lot of fattitude! Oh and there's the vegetarianism. I also
have several geeky pursuits...
Scifi and fantasy TV series are one big love. Webcomics another. I
haven't had much opportunity to do table top gaming but I've
enjoyed the little bit I've done. I would count myself fangirl:
make of that what you will...
I'm looking for local friends, or online buddies.
(I'll leave this here for when I am looking to date:
A disclaimer upfront: I'm polyamorous. It's the love/relationship
style that suits me. I do it with lots of communicating, honest
informing and consent. I live with one girlfriend and have a long
distance relationship as well (I hate long distance but the person
in question is worth it!). You can go spy on their accounts:
TeacupBalrog and Stelliferous.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working as a support worker, and planning for postgrad as I'd like
to train as a speech and language therapist. Otherwise watching a
lot of netflix, reading webcomics and all that jazz.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I would say I am compassionate/empathetic. Creative. Aspects of
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably that I'm fat- it's like having bright pink hair: kind of
hard to miss. Also a bit like bright pink hair (I imagine... I've
never actually dyed my hair) it's a part of myself I'm happy being
bold and noticed in.
They probably notice that I'm friendly and enthusiastic if I feel
comfortable, and maybe a bit shyer if I'm more out of my depth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Ok I'll try and give you the shorter version.
Things like... Buffy the Vampire Slayer (and anything by Joss
Whedon), Warehouse 13, Star Trek, Yes Minister, Community, Black
Books, things with stephen fry, hugh laurie, tim minchin. Avatar
(the last air bender), ouran highschool host club, kousuru
boukun... erm, Hustle, Glee, White Collar, Orange is the new
Black... Only reality tv show I watch is World's Strictest Parents.
Some musicals like chicago, Wicked (saw it live, amazing!), Joseph
and the Technicolor Dream Coat.
Couple of radio sit coms- Cabin Pressure, Old Harry's Game and
Harry Potter is favourite childhood book, I grew up on the audio
versions read by Stephen Fry.
I read a fair bit of fanfiction, predominantly slash. And I love
webcomics, such as Sfeer Theory, Dumbing of Age, QC and Sorcery
101. I occasionally read an actual novel (all though equally
occasionally I read a non fiction book).
Food I like probably chinese best- and also some japanese (more
wagamama's, less sushi). Indian is good. Pizza/italian is
Music is quite varied, some acoustic, some old rock, some jazz...
not too much modern pop... some soundtracks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think I'll go for the genuine if overused ones:
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to love myself and others, how our culture works, the future...
And, you know, kinky slash ships... obviously.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with a cuppa and a new tv series or maybe with friends with
a cuppa talking about... buffy the vampire slayer or something...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess that I'm still learning. And that learning takes
Also that there's this whole thing where I'm going to take over
your world in a bid to be the Overlord Emperor King of the
You should message me if
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