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28 M San Francisco, CA

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Last Online
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Middle Eastern, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Judaism, and laughing about it
Working on space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am way too enthusiastic about just about everything. That includes filling my profile with way too many things!

I'm an often too-long-winded pedant with a penchant for inappropriately large amounts of honesty. I try to live a life of enthusiastic whimsy and fill my world with joys, and I consider myself imperfectly socially progressive and an eternally flawed, self-improving ally; I try to acknowledge my privilege and do my best to listen to people instead of just projecting my life experiences onto them.

Speaking of honesty, I have multiple partners, none of whom I am In A Relationship with. If this bothers you, please don't waste your time preaching at me.

I don't believe that the Laws of Thermodynamics apply to love or affection. I give unstintingly of my affection, and then have more still to give than I started with.

I'm a geek, I'm a nerd, I rock out to Vanessa Mae and look like a total dork in the process and I'm not ashamed of it. I think that internet humor is hilarious and believe the Onion to be among the best examples.

I told someone once that her thermal equilibrium was noticeably higher than ambient temperature. Perhaps relatedly, I have been described as "someone who could dull a drawer full of prescription narcotics".

I like sitting around in cafes talking about books and the nature of humor, and exploring steam tunnels and buildings that used to be munitions factories. I like playing video games and used to be almost competitive in skiing.

I'm a QA Engineer with a focus on blackbox testing. My job is to break peoples' code, and I love it.

I consider all parts of the Bay Area that can be reached by some combination of Caltrain, BART, and Muni to be local to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a QA Engineer (or looking for work in same, between contracts). Occasionally managing to make useful progress on editing my novel, or one of the several other side-projects (mostly video game related) that I have on the backburner. Reading books both old and new, and learning how to cook new foods (I wonder if I could make a citrus-infused chili? That sounds tasty).

Trying to lose weight and get back in shape. With my family's history of diabetes and heart/cholesterol problems, my current state of physical health is apocalyptic.
I’m really good at
Being really enthusiastic about everything. Laughing, emergency medicine, verbal sparring, cooking, enjoying peoples' company, video games, making (terrible) puns, watching das cursorblinken, cuddling and all sensual endeavors, and not knowing what's trendy, in no specific order.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have long hair and I, unconsciously, obfuscate in a polysyllabic fashion occasionally. I'm bouncy and grin a lot, and I giggle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything by Terry Pratchett or Lois McMaster Bujold, among a host of hundreds of other authors. Recently finished re-reading Wildbow's Worm, an absolutely amazing urban-grimdark superhero web serial.
Movies: Firefly/Serenity, Spaceballs, and The Princess Bride, again, among a host of others.
Food: Stir fry, preferably homemade. Or really good sushi.
Music: Apocalyptica, Tom Lehrer, DragonForce, Jonathan Coulton, Shostakovich... and Vanessa Mae. She is to most music as sensual, explosive lovemaking is to random fucking.
Webcomics (Come on, it's relevant): xkcd, Schlock Mercenary, Girl Genius, Order of the Stick, Dresden Codak, Guilded Age. A few others, too.
The six things I could never do without
Sarcasm, good company, shelter, knowledge, sea-spray off a sailboat's bowsprit, and carbon - hey, it may be relatively inert, but you just try and model an ecosystem without it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Computers, all the amazing things we take for granted in our society, sex, kink, music, TVTropes (it will ruin your life!), questioning the nature of society, how awesome it is that companies are making sex toys that are actually well-engineered, rather than shitty novelty items. Why anyone would ever want to meet a potential friend for the first time at a large, mostly-hostile gathering in a bar. The potential reasons for why a particular person does or does not reply to emails written one way or another. The best way to ask "what is your preferred gender pronoun" without turning it into a referendum on gender signalling and identity; how much I enjoy arguing about signalling and identity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having Shabbat with my family. I don't practice much in the way of Judaism, but Shabbat has always been a family tradition sort of thing, and it's an excuse to spend time with my parents and siblings.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hold no personal secrets. Unless there's privileged information (other peoples' secrets, NDA'd information), I will answer absolutely any question in full and with complete honesty. It's a conscious quirk, and one of the cornerstones of my moral compass. Don't believe me? Try me.

I'm quite kinky, though in an "in the bedroom" rather than "lifestyle" kind of way.

I have a deep and abiding love of certain genres of music that I cannot explain. Why do I love acapella covers of pop songs? Stratovarius's cover of Depeche Mode? I don't know.

I'm polyamorous. More shamefully, I see nothing wrong with mixing Greek and Latin roots.

I get a full STI panel every three months. Clean every time, but why be uncertain?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you want to build a railgun with me at Double Union (or elsewhere).

... you want to watch some show together, or go to new food-places, need a workout buddy, or just want company for mundane things in extraordinary places or extraordinary things in mundane places.

... you're interested in discussing the troubling implications of adopting a consequentialist paradigm of decision-making.

... you would never expect me to lie.

... you think "Whenever I see you, you set all my inodes aflutter. So how about we cd to your homedir and fsck all night long." is a hilarious pickup line. (via krasnotron, RIP)

... you think the distinction between strong gender or sexual identity and functional-descriptor weak identity is an important one.