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21 Bellingham, WA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–28
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 17
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Don't try to wrap your head around my heartful of free will
I'll shake you up, I'll tear you down, do my worst and give you chills."- SJ Tucker

There is a shortage out there. We haven't enough words in the world to describe every concept in the complex manner that people think of it it in. I want to say that I'm free spirited, but who would truly understand what that phrase means to me.

Besides... words are simply lies. Sounds that come from our throats, shaped by tongues, teeth and lips. They mean nothing unless they match the intention and thought behind them.

"You wanna know more, more, more about me...
Gotta know reverse psychology.
I'm the reason why you can't get to sleep.
I'm the girl you never get, just quite what you see. - Skye Sweetnam

I find myself following the Gemini nature, being a walking contradiction. While I'm out/easy going, I can just as easily withdraw and become shy. I do embrace my zodiac, having found that many things of the Gemini things fit my own personality. The number one (as I like to think) is being easy to like, and good company. But this is just as easily contradicted by my love of delving deep into intellectual conversation, analyzing people and the dynamics that swarm around them. It often uncovers uncomfortable truths, and in this sense it can sometimes make people avoid me. it makes me avoid others at times for the same reason. I play the Fool card more often than not, and don't like when people reveal to me my own foolishness. But this also is what give me the willingness to ask questions that others avoid. So I suppose it is all worth it in the end.

"There is no one soul that will swallow me whole
and let me out shining and beautiful, no.
In love there is loss of control
but like the rivers I roll,
are you in for a ride?"-SJ Tucker

So, since it's best to be completely open, I need to shift how this is. To let you all know, I am Poly. For those of you who don't know what that is, please, look it up. Here have a link.
If you cannot handle that I am able to have more than one loving relationship in an open style as this, please, don't try to pursue me. I'll make friends with anybody, but if you're looking for more in a monogamous style, I'm not the girl for you. I value trust and honesty and have managed to find it in this part of the world.

"Storytellers never die." - SJ Tucker

I love to feel the wind in my face, and feel a deep connection with the earth and nature. The rain cleanses, and the wind scrubs us dry. Sunlight is a gentle caress of love, and breezes whisper secrets in my ears. So far, my greatest love has been one with the earth, with her creatures and animals and trees. I have yet to meet somebody who I connect with on a level that is so deep and intense that I am able to lose myself with them and find myself all over again. Being deeply spiritual, I feel drawn towards those that are also spiritual and can connect on that level as well.

"Time to do the work while my bones and blood are wild
with lessons learned and secrets shared ." -SJ Tucker

I write almost constantly, either just my thoughts or the stories that come into my head. Being an author has been my dream since I was very young. I constantly carry a notebook and several pens simply to be able to write down ideas, funny things people say, thoughts that I have or really anything that comes to mind. I hope one day to be able to simply work as a hobby and not because I need to. I want to spread color and light into everybody's world, and provide to somebody else what so many authors provided to me: a safe haven away from this world and in another... My inspiration is what drives me on, and I feel that I can change the world, if I can only get heard.

"Just when you think
you got me figured out
the season's already changing..." -Meredith Brooks
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm working towards my goal of being an author. Always, always continuing towards where I want to be. Life is an amazing adventure, and I plan to be amazing and enjoy it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...writing, reading, and other academic skills. I've been told I give amazing hugs and I love to help people. I like to at least think I'm good at that. I'm great at singing and not as good at dancing, but good enough. I've played piano since I was 7, so I'm decent at that as well. I believe that I'm amazing at life, but that's a harder one to judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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From what people say, either my smile or my eyes get noticed first.
As a random add on, recently I had somebody get shocked by my handshake, so apparently, that's noticeably different than most peoples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I could never pick a favorite book, there are far too many good books for me to choose any above others.

My favorite movie is Black Beauty.

I don't watch tv much, but NCIS, White Collar, Burn Notice, and similar shows are interesting to me.

I listen to almost all sorts of music, though I avoid most that I can't sing along with (such as screamo). I was musically inclined all of my life, and so I love to sing, dance, and simply listen, as well as perform occasionally. I'm open to new suggestions.

I love good food, and I eat healthy(er) than most people ever will. This leads me to try a lot of things that most people wouldn't ever think of. I'm convinced that bacon is the only real reason I'm not vegetarian. And butter is the reason I could never go vegan. >.>
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Notebooks/pens: I carry them with me everywhere. Sometimes, I don't touch one all day, other times, it's as if I can't stop the ink from flowing onto the paper and forming words. Plus, people say some amazing things, and if I don't write them down, I'll forget. Being so much of a writer, I can't not write my ideas down.

Books: They're my escape to other worlds. Without them, I'm sure I would have died years ago of boredom if nothing else. I read very fast, so am constantly finding new books, and often re-reading old ones.

Music: It's like the expression of my soul, next to writing. Without music, it's as if there isn't as much color in life. With music I can express things that can't be said in words. Plus, who doesn't enjoy singing in the car? I'm musically inclined because of how much I was exposed to music when I was little. it's a constant in my life. I write to it, I sing it, I listen, I dance along. It'd be strange, as if the world had fallen silent.

People: I'm really social, and so without people, I'd just about go into a hole and become a crazy hermit who talks to her cat. I love to talk to people and hang out with people. It's not that I can't be alone, but many times, I'd prefer to be around some one, even if we're not talking at all. It's the company in the area that really can sometimes make a difference.

Cats: I suppose I could live without cats. But I would be crazy. They keep me sane. My cats aren't the aloof, standoffish beasts most people end up with. They are loving, and demonstrative. Sometimes, annoyingly so. But they keep me sane, and help me heal from emotional wounding. They love me as much as I do them, and it is that, that is necessary. I need cats to keep myself sane.

Horses: Yes I know I just put two animals on here as things I couldn't live without. But seriously. Horses are my inspiration, they are the representation of ultimate freedom and complete power. They're the best comfort I've ever had. I've never felt more at peace than when I sit in the middle of a barn or a pasture, surrounded by horses. The scent, the feel, the very nature of being around animals that are so large, and powerful, and gentle frees me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...everything. I think about so many things all the time, that half the time, I can't untangle it enough to figure it out until later. I spend a lot of time thinking about how to improve my own world, and life, and probably even more trying to understand everybody around me. I think about books a lot, and try to fix plot holes, and storylines as well. I tend to write down a lot of my thoughts, not only about people but about stories, events, and sometimes just whatever is in my head at that moment. Thoughts play a heavy part in my life.

Also. Ambushes. I blame it on my gaming career, but I love to spot a good ambush area. places to jump from or shoot from, that sort of thing. muahaha. Evilness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
To be completely honest, I'm usually online, curled on my bed with my trusty netbook upon my lap. I occasionally find myself at a good friends house, curled up with good conversation or a movie, or even just curled up for affection.

I wish I could say I went out and did something fun on Fridays. But, recently I've been a homebody.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm secretly paranoid. Like, in the sense of walking into a house, instantly looking for exits and entrances, including windows. I look for the best hiding places, easy areas to cache weapons/supplies, and the best spots for an ambush, and the places that are likely to be ambushes.
What can I say? It was only made worse by gaming. GM loved ambushing us all.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You want a new friend/chat buddy/good conversation.
- You enjoy deep conversations about everything
- You're a fellow writer who loves to talk stories/books/plots
Warning: I love to have long, intense, deep conversations with people I don't know. But if you message me 1-3 words, I will message you back with the same. Good conversation, no?