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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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5' 8" (1.73m)
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Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Space camp
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
These are generally totally ridiculous I have found, my own included. I don't really spend a lot of time analyzing myself, but if I had to give you a basic idea of what you are getting into if you meet me, here goes:

I am very clever and tend to speak quickly. I drink a lot of wine. I am a loyal friend. I kind of wish it was still the 90s before everyone was addicted to their cell phones. I've traveled all over the world. I sometimes get concerned that humans don't do enough to help each other out. I like making art, I like to dance, I like to swim, I do yoga. I also like meeting up to ride bikes like I am still 10 years old when it is nice outside. I try to do it all with passion, but grace. Pretty much everyone I have ever dated has told me I am the most fun person they have ever met, so you are in for a good time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a lawyer working in social justice. No that's not an oxymoron.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Knowing what people are going to say before they say it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My confidence and my green eyes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lists! Because everyone else is doing it...

Books: The Great Gatsby, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, anything by Gore Vidal, Truman Capote, or Margaret Atwood.

Movies: I like nostalgic movies--80s high school John Hughes, Almost Famous, old movies, foreign movies, interesting movies. I could sit and watch Saturday Night Fever if my hair was on fire, I love that damn movie so much.

Music: New Wave, punk, old school hip-hop, metal, industrial, anything played on Little Stevie's Underground Garage. If it has a beat and I can dance to it, we are in business.

Food: I actually really like cooking for myself, and I am very good at it. Ask me about my cupcakes. Ordering or cooking for myself I show a strong preference for vegan food, but I won't waste food if someone else has cooked for me or if the kitchen makes a mistake.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm...I could probably do without most things, but life sure would be a bit of a bummer without good friends, intense conversation, a decent bottle of wine, music, laughter, and MAGIC!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can help--people, the planet, the arts. I get quickly invested in "causes" and try to give them my all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical, could be in bed by 10 after a yoga class or out till 4 doing rock and roll nonsense. It all depends on what is interesting enough to hold my attention that night!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No, I'm bad at this...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are smart, funny, and sexy...but mostly, mostly sexy...mostly funny? Just be equal parts all three.

I like guys who are tall and have long hair, generally speaking.

Here's maybe some more important information--when NOT to message me:

1) If you already have kids. Sorry, I'm sure they are awesome, but I don't want them to be a part of my dating life.

2) If you have cats. I am highly allergic to them, and because of that, I really don't like them. It's not going to be fun if you have to keep your pets away from me every time I go to your place.

3) Please be able to speak in full sentences! I get lots of messages--"Hey sexy, how r u" is gross and an automatic delete. I hate to have to put that out there, but c'mon, this is a dating site. Put your best foot forward. Also, I'm getting REALLY frustrated with people who send one line messages. It's like the OKC equivalent of a catcall. Please tell me a little bit yourself. An introduction with your name can't hurt either.