I'm an educator, medical scholar, pianist, intellectual, athlete, and lover. My entire life is devoted to my future career, a medical field which we can get into at a later date if you're interested. I'm automatic.. robotic in my pursuit of my future which is all very clear and calculated in my mind. I push on where most people give up or don't bother to venture at all, thus I excel in pursuits where the more effort you put in, the more successful you are. Love isn't like that. It works or it doesn't. Wanting someone more than anyone else isn't enough. Feeling more desire for someone than they can even imagine does not suffice to make things work. Putting in more effort to court someone than anyone else does or would may in fact have the opposite effect of what one intends. So I'm successful in most things I do but the same aspects that make me successful in these endeavors are the ones that women simply cannot handle without being overwhelmed when it comes to romance. My mind is fast and deliberate. I am hard to handle and hard to keep interested. If I could fully summarize myself in a few sentences, would I really be the kind of person you're interested in?
I teach fulltime and when I'm outside the classroom I'm studying medicine. This makes it tough to meet women. I'd love to find a unique confident woman who's seeking someone special and can sense what I have to offer. Someone who could call me in the middle of the night because she can't get the last time we touched out of her mind. The kind of woman who understands my time commitment to my drives and passions but shares a constant overwhelming desire to steal a few hours alone together on some adventure, our lips barely parting. I'm torn about this site. My female friends get a ton of obnoxious or boring messages and Id rather not be a part of that crowd. As such I don't really send out messages. But maybe you found me for a reason. Drop me a line, and be yourself. I am a hopeless romantic optimist and I have also been cursed with an insanely high sex drive and blessed with Casanova-esque natural... sensual intuition so here I am looking for women seeking the kind of strong, intelligent, respectful bloke with whom to share passionate fun while time is on our side.
I have to reiterate this so you know what you're getting into. Call me an old soul but I am of the belief that if one wants to do something truly great for our human race in this lifetime, that one lifetime is too short to also fit the full amount of fun most people want to have. Certain reasonable sacrifices must be made and that point seems to be lost on a great many of this individualistic "YOLO!" generation. As such I put 70-80 hours a week into my present and future careers. No matter how much we want to, I won't be able to see you more than once a week, spare perhaps for a random night in between that I absolutely have to press my lips to yours and steal away to find you in the middle of the night so we can just be together for a few moments. But I'm a very busy man. Unless I find a particularly mesmerizing woman (as in actual hypnotic mesmerism) sooner, I plan to marry between the ages 32 and 35. At that time I'll have added to my already extensive life experiences and I will have been practicing in my field of obsession a few years and will very much have my stake in the ground. So in the mean time I seek mainly intense companionship with a fun activity partner. The form of the friendship will of course vary. Maybe it means taking you to the beatiful/interesting place I happened to find a few days prior, or trying something you like and I've never done before. It might mean spending a night together in the throes of passion showing eachother all the primal feelings, emotions, and sensations that we've conjured while missing eachother for the few days since we last reunited. Whatever it ends up being it must be something real between us that we both long for in most of the seconds that we are apart. Maybe we'll happen upon something that lasts and I won't be able to deny you. Maybe we'll share some mind blowing passionate fun and I'll be nothing more than a man you remember longingly after you meet your husband and settle down. Maybe you'll decide I'm an asshole. There's only one way to find out.