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38 • New York, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 31–41
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 11:21am
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Graduated from masters program
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), German (Okay), Italian (Poorly)
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a friendly
guy with a critical mind
and a will to
. I was born in Ukraine and have lived in New York
since I was a teenager (except for some travel around Europe and a
year recently spent in Paris
). I used to work in technology
and now teach
but have become more interested in modern &
, critical &
, and decentered history
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
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talking about critical theory
, political left
, and architecture
. I have other talents
as well, but alas, they are too numerous to list here.
...Je parle bien Français, ...aber ich spreche noch nicht sehr
gut Deutsch, ...e parlo solo un po 'italiano.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot (and listen to
lectures while working out
). I like some films and TV, but do
not watch shows
more vapid than the commercials that interrupt them
, Oryx and Crake
, Call Me by Your Name
, Suite Francaise
, Extension du
domaine de la lutte
, Seven Ages of Paris
Du côté de chez
, Jonathan Strange
and Mr Norrell
, The Swimming-Pool
, Special Topics
in Calamity Physics
, many others...
Movies: Les Chansons D'Amour
, Marie Antoinette
, Les Adieux à
, Love and Death on
, Hedwig and The Angry
, many more...
TV Shows: Colbert Report
, True Detective
, Game of Thrones
, Mad Men
, Boardwalk Empire
, Don't Trust The
Bitch in Apt 23
, Downton Abbey
, some others...
Music: new wave
, but also
and some classical
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
, critical rigor
, and dialectical
in all aspects of my life, especially in the bedroom
and at the
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
scrambling to fill my social calendar
for the rest of
You should message me if
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