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GentForALady0713

35 / M / straight / Single

Yorktown Heights, New York

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Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Average
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly), Irish (Poorly)

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I am Friendly & Caring, Spiritual, and Sexy.

My Self-Summary

Hello. :-) I'm Aly, a 35 year old gentleman, living in the suburbs of New York State.

I am a kind-hearted man, seeking to share my love and affection with a very special woman.

I am an open-minded and free-thinking man. I am open to non-conventional relationships (polyamory).

I consider myself Spiritual, but NOT religious. I wish they would add that as an option in the religion section. I know some consider my beliefs to be agnostic, but reading through definitions of agnosticism really doesn't fit what I consider myself to be. :-) Many of my beliefs tend toward Buddhism, but I don't consider myself Buddhist either.

I am very interested in tantric sexuality and tantric massage. I would love for my partner and I to enjoy this type of wonderful ecstasy together.

Yes, I am a hopeless romantic. I do believe in love at first sight. But it's more of a love at first "feeling". A knowing that you're just made for each other.

A recognition of my true soulmate is what would put me in love right away. And I will know she is my soulmate, because I will feel utter joy whenever we are in each other's presence, as well as thinking of each other whenever we are apart. That to me, is true love. It is what I seek, and what know in my heart I will find again.

I love to laugh and make people laugh.

I am definitely an optimist. I've found that if you consciously let go and let the universe bring into your life what you desire, that there's never a reason to fret.

I am a snuggle bear (seeking a snuggle bunny). I seek first and foremost honesty, good communication, someone who loves to laugh and be a big kid (most of the time) and be an adult only when necessary. And you can expect the same from me.

I tend to think outside the box more often than not.

I've never been into the bar scene. I enjoy spending time with my friends, or just catching up with them on the phone.

I believe in energy, manifesting, and synchronicity. I believe very strongly in allowing your soul to evolve, and in going with the flow of life, and projecting gratitude as much as possible.

I believe everything happens for a reason, even if it is hard to see it at the time.

What attracts me most to a woman is her warm smile, her eyes, her warm demeanor, and a warm and loving personality. I seek a genuine person, who I always know is being sincere with me. Emotional Intelligence is another big thing for me. Someone who cares about my feelings, as well as the feelings of others. I like a woman who is pretty to me, as well as adorable. :-) I consider myself to be adorable, and like someone in my life who is the same in this respect.

I seek someone who likes to be silly when appropriate, who appreciates this in me as well.

I prefer a woman who is petite (a little shorter than me), but also has nice curves. :-)

What I’m doing with my life

I am currently back in school to become a Licensed Massage Therapist, in Mount Kisco, New York. I graduate in December 2009. I'm so looking forward to my new career.

My practice will tend more towards energy work (I am trained in Integrated Energy Therapy IET, but will also offer other modalities of "bodywork"). I plan to run my own practice, along with a friend of mine in the Dutchess County, New York area.

I’m really good at

Loving someone deeply
Cuddling/Snuggling
Making Love
Being a Massage Therapist
Cooking
Driving on a racetrack

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, My smile, My calm and caring demeanor, my soft-spokenness.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I enjoy watching European Racing (Formula 1 and World Rally). This comes with being a classic automobile fan. :-)

I am fascinated with the culture of music, movies and tv. I'm always doing online research on my favorite songs, artists, movies, and actors to learn the history of how a song or movie came about, or the artists or actors. And the decade of the song or movie (be it the 1940's, the 60's, the 90's, or today) doesn't matter to me. I love them all.

My favorite movie, hands down is Bicentennial Man with Robin Williams. It is an extraordinary film to me.

But I do have many other favorites as well.

I tend to enjoy movies that don't stay in the theatre too long. I find these tend to be the movies with deeper meaning. What Dreams May Come, Contact, Chocolat, K-PAX, Martian Child, August Rush, for
example. I also like some classics, like The Time Machine, Casablanca, and Dark Passage. I love the sci-fi classics as well, Star Wars, Star Trek, Lord of the Rings, Babylon 5, and Quantum Leap, and I love LOST. :-)

I only like a handful of current tv shows. (Weeds, Californication, Family Guy, and South Park). I enjoy the Food Network now and then. But, I'm NOT into "Reality TV". :-)

Music is a HUGE part of my life. I couldn't live without it. LOL Like my movie tastes, I actually tend to like music from just about every decade of the last century. Classic Rock, Tom Pety, Led Zeppelin, Van Halen, 50's Doo Wop, 60's Rock & Roll, 70's, 80's, 90's, Enya, Loreena McKennitt, Sinatra/Connick Jr., Ella Fitzgerald/Ray Charles, Chuck Berry, John Lennon/The Beatles, Brian Wilson/The Beach Boys, John Mayer.

On the music note (pardon the pun), I recently got back into collecting vinyl LP's (records), after 20 years of collecting CD's. I love visiting garage sales during the warmer months to find classic treasures. I like keeping the GOOD things of the past alive. It gives me a warm satisfaction, in a world where the norm is to forget the good places we've been.

I love reading novels. I've been on a Nicholas Sparks kick lately. He's been a nice change from the Stephen King kick I was on a few years back LOL.

I love to read books about the metaphysical...The Power of Now, Conversations with God (NOT a religious book), The Celestine Prophecy, Kryon books to name a few.

I'm currently reading a spritual book on relationships called Wild Attraction, The Energetic Facts of Life (A ruthlessly practical guide to extraordinary relationship). It seems great so far, and I'm looking forward to learning from it.

I love all types of food. Italian, Chinese, Middle Eastern, Indian. I also consider myself to be a very good cook. But I also love going out to eat.

The six things I could never do without

Music
Love
Holding and being held
Cuddling/Snuggling
Making Love
Friends
The Universe
My Car (an '89 Toyota MR2 Supercharged)

(I know that's more than six). :-) Like I said, I don't really fit into a box.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life
Love

On a typical Friday night I am

Relaxing and taking it easy...

Spending time with my friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a little black dwarf rabbit named Licorice, and he's adorable. :-)

You should message me if

You want someone to truly love you for who you are.
You want someone to shower you with affection.
You like what I had to say in my profile.
You are spiritual, but NOT religious.
You are looking for someone who you can be yourself with.
You love kissing as much as I do.
You love to cuddle, snuggle, and make love.
You like to and need to be held, and hold someone too.
You love to touch and be touched. You realize how important
the touch of another human being is for daily comfort and well-being.
You are a Cancer or a Pisces (astrologically), who feels a lot of the things I mentioned in my profile. (But I'm open to other astrological signs too).
You love to be silly together, within reason of course.
You have an appreciation for classic cars, both foreign and domestic.
You are a curvy woman. (I love curves). :-)
You are polyamorous (or NOT). I am open to non-conventional relationships.