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GentlemanSaysHi

52 / M / Straight / Single

San Jose, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 5:29pm
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a young at heart 52 year old gentleman. Lucky to have Asian genes, I think I look a lot younger than my driver's license will tell you. I am a fun, laid back guy. A responsible businessman and father.

People who know me say that I am the "Nicest Guy Ever". I think that I am funny and fun to be around.

I'm calm, low drama and those who know me will tell you I'm like a big teddy bear. I love to make people laugh and I love to laugh as well.

WHO I'M LOOKING FOR

I have been richly blessed and have a great lifestyle, a career that I love and most importantly, 3 great kids and many great friends. What would multiply what I have is someone to share all of this with.

I think it's impossible to put down in writing any specific attributes for what one is looking for. I don't think picking a partner is like buying a car, I want this color and this many horsepower, etc... I would describe it more as "chemistry". When you meet that certain person, if the chemistry is there, you'll both know it.

I'd like to find someone to inspire me to be more that what I am now and I'd like to do the same for that special person - inspire them to be their best.

OK, by now, you've probably figured out that I'm a hopeless romantic.

If you think you'd like a person like me. Drop me a note. I'm really user friendly.
What I’m doing with my life
Raising my kids so that they can be the best that they can be.
Inspiring those around me.
Working on the next big Food trend.
I’m really good at
I love to make people feel and home and make people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I meet a lot of new people all the time, either personally or on the phone. The first thing that most people notice about me is that I am very friendly, helpful and fun to talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to listen to most types of music except for rap and heavy metal.

Some of my favorite movies:

Sound of Music
Toy Story (all of them)
Hunt for Red October
Santa Clause
Hook
Night at the Museum
When Harry met Sally
Joy Luck Club
and many more....
The six things I could never do without
God
Friends and Family
Good Health
Love my electronics
Yummy Food
My car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The next greatest thing
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or family.
Relaxing at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I may be convinced to tell all, but you'll have to get to know me first
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you're looking to meet a lovable guy with old fashioned values and a great smile.
If you'd like to talk with someone who can hold an intelligent conversation as easily as a silly conversation.
If you like my profile and would like to get to know me better. I'm super user-friendly :)