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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:16pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Judaism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), C++ (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm very excited about my first San Diego winter. I mean, a winter without snow? Without bitter cold? Sounds like joy. I may actually give up walking in favor of skipping for the entirety of it.

Lived my whole life on the East Coast. Was in Rochester NY for over 12 years. It was about time to try something new.

To summarize, I'm a geeky Jewish network engineer.

I wouldn't call myself a traveler at heart, but I do have some appreciation for it. I've been to Australia ten times (considered moving there) and have plans to check out Japan in the next couple of years.

My biggest hobby right now is prop and costume design. I have an entire room that has been taken over with tools, parts, and pieces.
There is just so much to learn!
If you know how to sew, how about showing me a thing or two?

I'm also a big fan of games. Board games especially. Though I do enjoy the occasional video game.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a Network engineering, which is a career that can be rather hard to explain. But suffice it to say, I help create, maintain, and improve the infrastructure that gives you the Internet.
You're welcome.

Adding more vacations to my life.
For me, that means Conventions. I do love an excuse to Costume up!
Also love the idea of taking a cruise (Themed cruises sound pretty awesome. Just read about a Steampunk one).

Plus the endless struggle to keep myself motivated for fitness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh; It's true, I'm pretty hilarious.

I have also been told that I have more charm than I give myself credit for.

Kitchen skills; Though my interest in it comes and goes.

Finding the positive side of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They don't.
I am like the wind, the shadow, or... that, uh, other sneaky thing.

How should I know what they notice about me? It's not like I give out surveys.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
1) The Anita Blake Series (by laurell k hamilton) was the novel series that got me into reading, but has since lost it's appeal... but i do still credit it for my love of reading.
I would also recommend anything by Anne Bishop, Kim Harrison, Jim Butcher, Robert Jordan, Brandon Sanderson, Peter V. Brett, Mercedes lackey.
There are likely several more i could mention, but let's just say that i really like fantasy novels.

1.1) I started reading comic books again. Starting with Suicide Squad, Harley Quinn, Deadpool, and The Flash.

2) Avatar, Scott Pilgrim vs The World, The Avengers,Wreck-It Ralph, and The Cabin in the Woods are some of the favorites.
Plus animated movies. All of them.

3) It's easier for me to pick favorite shows than movies. Some of the top ones are Firefly, Farscape, Buffy, Angel, Wonderfalls, Special Unit 2, Stargates SG1, Dexter, Community, a few of the Star Treks, Game of Thrones, Archer, Family Guy, Sealab, Once Upon a Time, Big Bang Theory... Oh, and a few dozen Anime.
Joss Whedon may very well be my deity.

4) I like music, i have music playing most of the time, but I don't consider myself a music person. So giving you a list of bands wouldn't really tell you much about me.

5) Breakfast.
Italian food, Deli food, Bread, several Chinese and Thai dishes, a few things from an Indian or Mexican menu, and Brownie Sundaes.
I do not enjoy sea food.
I'm not at all a foodie. I will try new things. But I prefer to keep my food simple. Philosophically, I fall in the eat-to-live camp.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Books: I love the feel and smell of a physical book. But digital is winning in terms of convenience.

-The Internet: There is just so much knowledge to find! Just check behind the porn.

-Computers: Also know as my shrine. What? Don't judge me!

-Friends: Everything is better shared... well, almost everything.

-Privacy: Oh thank the gods, I'm so sick of those people.

-Games: Video, board, card, table top.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about possibilities a lot; both real and absurd ones.

And I'm always thinking "What's Next?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not wearing pants, that's for damn sure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Alright, I admit it.
I'm not a real person, I'm just a very unlikely series of key strokes created by a cat walking on a keyboard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Ideally? You'll challenge me to be better than I am.

You don't need or want a guy to "take care of you".

You can bring some positive energy with you. I could use some more happy "let go do something!" people in my life.

And how about sharing my hobbies and interests. That would be just great.