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31 Joliet, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:59pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm anything but perfect but hopefully I'm also very real. I can be a hopeless romantic when the mood takes me or a cynical misanthropist when it goes the other way.
I tend to over think, but I'm still fairly down to earth. I like tons of geeky things, but I'm not obsessed with any one thing. I can be awkward sometimes but a girl once called me "the sweetest guy in the world."
I'm a study in contrasts. I can be ridiculously awesome sometimes other times I just wanna relax and be boring. I can talk theology/philosophy and I can joke around like I'm back in high-school. I can cheer on my sports teams. (Here we go Cardinals!) and I can geek out about RPGs and video games. I like to think I keep life "balanced." I really like to do new things but barely get to. (this includes meeting new people, hence OKCupid.)

I really care about living honestly. You have to be real, please no fakers. I hate being lied to and feel bad when I have to hold things back. I know that pouring your heart out and sharing deeply isn't always the right thing to do, but hiding the truth is wrong.

I'm a believer in Christ and that is important to me, but I try not to be a jerk about it. It's not like anybody listens to belligerent people anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently working for a large well known corporation but what I want to do is become a professional novelist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing. (I think) Devil/Flower Sticks, but not compared to really good people. Listening. Reading. Board Games. Being Meta.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a goofball. I think too much. I'm kind of a Geek/Nerd/whatever.

Physically it's my "sea blue" eyes and dark hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of Fantasy novels. I pretty much grew up on Lord of the Rings. I love the Original StarWars Trilogy. My musical taste is pretty varied everything from classical to techno. I like too many things to explain this well here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Faith, Friends, good books, the internet, a sense of humor, pants (think about it.) and those are in order going from necessary to humorous.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
way too many things: faith, philosophy, games, writing, life the universe and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends, unless I'm working. I might be playing a game or watching some form of visual media and if all this falls through I'm reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't live up to my own standards. I often fail at doing what I know is right.
You should message me if
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Your a geek and a Christian. We'll probably hit it off.