I am looking for a woman on a journey to authentically connect with her truth---her feelings, her desire, her fulfillment who is fun, smart, witty, verbally upbeat, and defaults to positivity and affection. You insightfully engage life with a playful humor. I tend to like a woman whose public demeanor is stylishly traditional and whose personality is broadly curious, sensual, and uninhibited. In private, you have a strong preference for an assertive man who uses the practice of Tantra, Deliberate *rgasm (DO), OMing (important-Google it -Orga*mic Meditation-see OneTaste site, view the "How to OM" video), surrender, sensual plasticity and disclosive communication to expand our frontier of pleasure and connection. There is one thing...........you must be an artful practitioner of kissing and holding hands 3.0. I want to feel tightly embraced in the cocoon of your feminine aura and personal integrity. You viscerally and intellectually understand the role of masculine-feminine polarity in creating and sustaining a juicy passionate relationship. Living fully in the moment, you joyously ride the wave of what life has to offer, like a surfer with the wind in her face. Touching and being touched is important to your happiness. Partnership is an imprecise description of the nuanced dynamic that will evolve between and within us as we develop our connection. At this point I am very focused on exploring energy, sensation (sensual scientist--I like the sound of it), surrender and intense regular pleasure via training, classes and experiences with the practices mentioned above and new areas of experience as I investigate more.
In the past I have placed the highest value on family, education, discipline, accomplishment, worldly experience and knowledge. Recently, I have seen and experienced great benefit to regular and routine extreme positive mental sensation and intense physical pleasure. It's probably good that I did not have this insight earlier in my life because I would not have been wise enough to manage the capacity for pleasure I have recently accessed. My challenge is to stay grounded in my familiar world while opening myself to unfamiliar settings, people and experiences with enough depth to truly determine their value in this context. The social construct of dating has it's place but so does connecting deeply and honestly as the best place from which to feel and see each other. Though my world view has spiritual aspects I am NOT religious and do not attend church. I know this path is the road less traveled, so I wrote this profile to be fully disclosive. Please take a moment to reflect on what you have read.
I am biased toward action. Practice informs theory. The possibility of growth trumps the comfort of the status quo.
In summary, I am experimenting with pleasure; focusing on pleasure; developing a broad physical, emotional, and communication skill set optimized to produce and leverage pleasure to the best possible result. My intent is to live my life giving regular physical pleasure a priority as a skill set, a practice and a way of building intimacy, sensation and connection in my relationship.
I own an urban B&B. I am a OneTaste OM trainer (see the "How to OM" video at the OneTaste site-2nd mention) and life coach, a hypnotist and a long term meditator. Please live within 30 minutes drive of downtown DC. It's a wonderful life.
“Just As the taste of all oceans is one taste, salt,
So the taste of liberation is one taste...Truth” Buddha
"Let yourself be gently pulled by the deeper desire of what you want." -Rumi