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Gerard

47 / M / bisexual / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am alternative, brainy, and communicative.

My Self-Summary

I'm a walkin', talkin' contradiction in terms. I'm an outgoing introvert or a shy extrovert. I love outdoors and nature and I love city life. I'm a lover of writing and music and ideas and people. I love sublety and sarcasm and self-definition. I love anything which is new or different or alternative or breaks from "tradition", however you define it. I love architecture and design and engineering and art. I like politics and philosophy and current affairs and history. I love travel and communicating and seeing the world. I'm trying to get into being less of a consumer of life and more of a creator whether that be through creating photography or video or writing or the eternal learning process or whatever shape it takes that I can't define just yet.

For those of you who believe in such things, Keirsey / Myers-Briggs says I am an INTJ.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now, I work full-time and I am taking classes part-time. Mostly business classes right now. I am toying with the idea of doing an MBA at night or on the weekend. If I do that, though, I am trying to find a program that would closely match my values, not focused on corporate business but more focused on sustainable business, alternative business concepts, or even mixed with international business.

I’m really good at

listening, intelligent conversation, thinking, knowing lots of minutiae and trivia, being a friend, being easy-going, scheduling and/or being on-time

The first things people usually notice about me

a big smile, my eyes (intense), a quick, sarcastic wit ... Also I often hear how people feel calm or comfortable around me

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(A) Books: Leather Daddy and the Femme; Guns, Germs and Steel; Collapse; Paul Krugman; Michael Pollan; many other books; I read many magazines, too. (B)Movies: generally, alt movies, "art house" movies, international films, Almodovar, Monty Python, "Secretary", "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind", "Being John Malkovich", "French Twist", "Casablanca"; (c) Music: alt rock, punk rock, trippy, dippy, trancey music, jam bands, international music; (d) Foods: yes

The six things I could never do without

Food, Water, Air, Sunlight, Friends, Lovers, My Brain, My Senses. Oh, wait! That's more than six.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

politics, the state of the world, traveling, my future plans, friends, relationships, polyamory, sex

On a typical Friday night I am

going out to a show, to a movie, socializing with friends, eating at a restaurant

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Not much about me is all that private. Just ask. I'll tell you if I won't give you a straight answer or don't want to talk about it. I'm sometimes radically or painfully honest.

You should message me if

You think we'd be interesting to each other, in any way from discourse to intercourse, even if the stats or the tests don't.