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25 Rutherford, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-24
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

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Asian, White
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Catholicism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hello everybody! My name is Gerard. I'm a 24 year old young man who appreciates the simple things in life and can have fun doing anything. Umm other than that, I'm not really good at what else I should add on here. Each time I think of something, I worry if I might sound like I'm bragging too much because that's just not me. I've always been a BIG believer in the saying "actions speak louder than words" so with that said. Instead of talking about qualities that I believe are my strong points, I guess maybe I'll talk about what my close friends and what random people told me as far as what makes me unique since this might be the closest thing to a reflection of my actions and personality.

So what are a few things that make me unique? The first quality my friends have mentioned about me would be my spontaneousness. To elaborate, I'm the kind of guy who can do something fun on a moment's notice such as a mini road trip (love road trips!) or any other kind of random adventure. My friends have even called me the "go to guy for random adventures." However, the one quality that random people and friends have associated with me the most is genuiness. According to those who have met me and have known me for a long time, I don't pretend to be someone I'm not and say certain things just to get approval from everybody. What you see is what you get. And what you ask about me, I answer truthfully because I want people to respect me for who I am; not for someone I'm pretending to be. Now, if I had to explain why I'm like this; I guess my best answer for whoever is reading is because I want to attract and surround myself with people that I get along with where I can be myself and respect who I really am. Because if you pretend to be someone you're not, they're only liking your "other" you. Not the "real" you. That's not a real connection.

In the end, I guess you can I am a young man with a big heart that can be both your best friend and boyfriend. I admit I do have my flaws as well. For example; my friends have told me that I can be shy at times (especially with "new" people), I take myself seriously at times, and that my jokes suck sometimes lol. But who doesn't have flaws? No one is perfect.

Lastly; as far as why I am on OkCupid, I'm not looking for some one-night stand or something short term. I'm on here to find something long-term. I want to find someone to talk to, start off as friends first, and then see where things go from there. :)

Well if you liked what you have read (and I apologize for my long intro), feel free to message me and find out what else is there to the mystery of "Gerard". :)
What I’m doing with my life
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I just completed my Bachelor's Degree in Nursing and I'm looking forward to working as a psychiatric nurse right after graduation.
I’m really good at
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Being a good listener and staying genuine and true to myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, dimples, and glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: Just to name a few; The Romanov Prophecy, The Choice, anything by Dan Brown, The Fault in Our Stars, Paper Towns

Favorite Movies: Minions, Despicable Me 1+2, Fight Club, Titanic, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight, The Dark Knight Rises, Inception, Star Wars movies, Mean Girls, Forest Gump

Favorite shows: Sleepy Hollow, American Horror Story, Supernatural, The Following, Orphan Black, The Blacklist, 24

Favorite music: I like to listen to every type of music, but I like rock music the most. To be more specific, I like listening to rock music from bands like Blink 182, We Are The In Crowd, Story of the Year, All Time Low, Maroon 5, Sleeping With Sirens, Bon Jovi, The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus, OneRepublic, Skillet, LostProphets, Taking Back Sunday.

Favorite food: Filipino, Italian, Chinese, Japanese (I LOVE LOVE SUSHI!!!), and Mexican food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Family
2) Friends
3) My iPhone
4) Minions
5) My Car
6) Sushi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on my mood. I'm either hanging out, traveling, or staying in and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll save this one for the conversation. Why spoil the mystery?
You should message me if
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