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GerardofAmber

30 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Alexandria, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), Latin (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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I am affectionate, honest, and forgetful.

My Self-Summary

I've had a profile on here for a while, but time has passed and I have changed and outgrown not only the profile, but the username. It is impossible to summarize yourself in a few short paragraphs, so instead, I'll do it in one sentence.

I am a geek, a well-rounded geek, but a geek all the same.

Any more questions? See below.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm a contractor and I get to travel a lot. So far all of my visits have been stateside, but I'm looking forward to when I get to go international. I just started taking kung fu and that's a lot of fun. I'm starting to pick up dancing again. I'm studying for advancement in my job and getting to chill with friends a few times a week.

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I’m really good at

Massage, math, listening, being a good and loyal friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

After polling friends, I've come up with some results.

Physically, it seems to vary. "Blue eyes" "Broad shoulders" I even got a "Sense of style"

Other than that, apparently it's a resounding, "Your intense personality"

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A.) Fantasy or sci-fi novels or things that touch on the human spirit. Some Authors of note: Terry Pratchett, Tamora Pierce, J.K. Rowling, C.S. Lewis, Tery Brooks, Neil Stephenson, Neil Gaiman, James Clavell, David Weber, David Gerrald B.) 300, Equilibrium, Fight Club, Moulin Rouge, Monty Python's Holy Grail, The Princess Bride, Seven Samurai, stuff with robin williams in it. C.) Alternative and '80's stuff, but I'll listen to most things at least once. D.) Lately I've been on an Indian kick, but I like all kinds of food: Italian, Irish, Japanese, Phillipine, Mexican, etc..

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The six things I could never do without

Affection, patience, time, goals, space, interesting subjects.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

Pretty much everything. Brain's always running. ex. I wonder what the watt requirement is for that hard drive. A woodchuck would chuck as much as a woodchuck could chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood, but what is the arc of that chucking. My character is working on plan A and contingencies B, C and D. Why do I forget so much stuff and where does it all go. Maybe V had it right, Politicians using lies one way, writers using lies the opposite way.

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On a typical Friday night I am

You never know. Dancing, chilling with friends, sleep, hiking, comedy club, studying, whatever.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have an odd aversion to Noodles and cheese being in the same dish. I like spaghetti and metaballs, just no grated cheese on top. Yeah, I know, I'm a freak.

Also I'm allergic to cats. I like cats and I'm not very allergic, but I can't be around them for more than a day.

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You should message me if

the sky is falling!

you're looking for a dance partner (swing, waltz, blues, polka, tango, etc.).

you want to watch a buffy/angel/firefly marathon.

you need some advice.

you feel like it.