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Gerdef

29 M Roanoke, VA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm awesome, life is awesome, and you (yes, you whom I have not yet met) are awesome.

That's the important part. Here're the details:

I used to be a sheltered nerd, but now I think of myself as a reasonably well-rounded... nerd. I like getting out of my comfort zone and trying new things, but I always find my life revolving around games, media, computers, science, and absurd (awesome) discussions. I'm intelligent, funny, adaptable, practical, and really terrible at writing these. (Isn't everyone?)

I love games and puzzles of all sorts (card games, board games, party games, video games, logic puzzles, crossword puzzles, jigsaw puzzles, ...) and have my whole life. I like to think about them and discuss them too, though, not just play them.

I've lived here for two years now, after living in North Carolina my whole life prior. Although I have friends from work, I'd love to meet some new people and keep exploring the area.

Despite rarely playing it, my life sort of revolves around Magic: The Gathering. (It's a card game.) If you know what it is (or play yourself), great! If not, also great!

Life is about balance and having fun, and I cherish my ability to discuss serious ethical issues one minute and then laugh my ass off at a funny cat picture the next.

At first I was horribly nervous/embarrassed at the idea of using a dating website. And then I realized life's too fucking short to sweat the small stuff. I want to find someone that makes me happy, that I make happy, and we can both have a good time together.
What I’m doing with my life
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I worked at a TV Station for six-and-a-half years, but moved to Roanoke for my current job and I love it. It's extremely unique, but manages to combine my loves of games, media, and travel into one crazy, busy, & exciting package.

I have major interests in computers and other nerdy areas (math, science, games, anime, etc.), but my primary hobby is Magic. It's allowed me to travel, and the experiences, places, and friends have had a bigger impact on me than maybe anything else in my life. I never expected a game to help me grow as a person.

Lately I've also gotten back into computer programming, especially learning how to work with databases. (Which are awesome! :P)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Getting along with anybody.
-Adapting to different social situations. (I can be polite, rowdy, nerdy, silly or serious as needed. :) )
-Learning (most) things quickly. (As a male, I am sometimes rendered mentally incapable when the fairer sex is involved. I'm sure you're used to it, but I still apologize on behalf of my gender in advance.)
-Games ;) (Board, Video, Card, or otherwise)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-Did he just say "LOL" in person?
-Wow, this guy can't sing.
-At least he's trying to dance.

Once they get to know me a little better, I'm trustworthy, honest, rarely serious, very open, learn quickly, come through in a pinch, and keep quoting things you probably haven't seen.

Physically? I've been complimented on my eyes and voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Dresden Files, Ender's Game, The Enchanted Forest Chronicles, 1984, The Time Machine, The Invisible Man, Fahrenheit 451, Lord of the Flies, Watchmen, The Dark Tower, The Belgariad, Sandman, Harry Potter

Movies: Fight Club, Run Lola Run, V for Vendetta, 300, Ink, Franklyn, Cloverfield, Back to the Future, Iron Man, District 9, Scott Pilgrim vs. the World, Tron, Tron Legacy

TV: Futurama, Top Gear, Doctor Who, Torchwood, Star Trek, Mythbusters, Modern Marvels, Warehouse 13, Stargate SG-1, Good Eats, Simpsons, Family Guy, Robot Chicken, Harvey Birdman: Attorney at Law, Battlestar Galactica, The Daily Show & Colbert Report, Babylon 5, Big Bang Theory, Dr. Horrible, Dead Like Me, My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic

Anime: FLCL, Trigun, Gurren Lagann, Cowboy Bebop, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood, Soul Eater, Vampire Hunter D: Bloodlust, Dragon Ball Z, Samurai Champloo, Death Note

Music: Nightwish (Tarja), Linkin Park, Evanescence, Flyleaf, Paramore, Metallica, Disturbed, Staind, Three Days Grace, Sum 41, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Offspring, Breaking Benjamin, Apocalyptica, Darude, Daft Punk, Rammstein. I also enjoy some guilty-pleasure pop songs (Avril Lavigne, Lady GaGa, Rihanna, Britney Spears, Ke$ha, etc.) I have a lot of video game music and a few movie soundtracks as well. Oh, and I'll listen to anything with a good beat. Dance / Techno / Eurodance / House are all welcome to the party.

Food: I'll try just about anything and am usually not a picky eater. I'm not big on spice, though, and I enjoy simple foods over complex meals: Macaroni and Cheese, Pizza, Chicken Lo Mein, Tofu, Rice Pilaf, Sushi, Scrambled Eggs, Cereal, Subway, Pasta, Jersey Mike's (I love Sandwiches ^_^)

Games: Rock Band, Bowling, Halo, Zelda, Pool, ToeJam & Earl, Dominion, Settlers of Catan, Pandemic, Mario, Portal, StarCraft, Magic: The Gathering, Assassin's Creed, Ultimate Frisbee, Puzzle Quest, Call of Duty, Mirror's Edge, Ninja Gaiden, Katamari Damacy, Portal, Sonic the Hedgehog, DOOM, Bayonetta.

Webcomics: a softer world, Penny Arcade, XKCD, SMBC, Gunnerkrigg Court, Problem Sleuth
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Games (It could be card games, board games, party games, video games, whatever. But I'm a gamer, heart and soul.
The Internet
My friends
My iPhone
Sex - I like sex and I like people who like sex.
Chocolate! NOM NOM NOM
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the Universe, and Everything. Maybe not quite so grandiose, but my mind wanders pretty much everywhere.

Magic, Work, Friends, and if that perfect someone is really out there covers most of it, though.

Is the "real me" the kind, sensitive, thoughtful, hopeless romantic side? Or is it the cold, logical, arrogant, aggressive side? What about the goofy, fun-loving, impulsive side?

...Can't it be all of them?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In a hotel somewhere around the country, out seeing a movie with friends, or flirting on OKCupid and wishing someone as impulsive as I wanted to hang out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think sex and sexual behaviors are fascinating subjects, and will happily engage in open discussions about them.

Kink-friendly (but not kink-only) switch that leans sub.

If you've got a question, just ask. I don't mind baring my innermost thoughts, desires, and beliefs to a stranger on the internet. I think it's kind of fun.
You should message me if
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you want to meet me. Or talk to me. Or just talk to a guy about something you aren't comfortable talking to anyone else about. I'm a pretty open guy.

If you're an analytical/logically inclined nerd girl with a competitive streak, penchant for fun, and knowledge of just how awesome you are, you should definitely message me :D