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34 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:42am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm new to Portland ... kinda, SOMEONE SHOW ME AROUND!

Hi! I love music, kitties, my nephew, my family … I like my job so far. My adventures are writing songs and playing them for people and recording them. You know … just like everyone else around here. And recently, film making.

Oh and I love the beach

I edit for Audible for a living so work is strange, and I need quiet while I'm editing. (I fix the actual audio) I'm no bookworm, and I stay in my head a bit, but I'm all about good conversation, good people. I'm very extroverted. I'm just me, I'm strange. ("Actually strange" as a friend of mine put it, "not the stylish Benny and June strange. The actual weird kind of strange. yet not creepy, and very endearing, life must suck for you.") ... yeah, thanks for like 1/3 of that, lol. My life doesn't suck in the slightest, by the way. :)

I've been alive for thirty five years, I don't give a damn what anyone says, the world is not a terrible place and life is not a horror (special circumstances withstanding), the world is canvas which has only recently been soiled, and we've got the wash and the colors to make it whole again, and life is how you live it, it doesn't live you, you are life. so I'm happy (even when
I'm miserable) and I think the world is beautiful and your life is your choice for better or worse, but it's all you have. Make a choice for grace.

P.s. I don't like horses, but that's ok, 'cause they HATE me (chomp!)
What I’m doing with my life
Making music, and editing audiobooks. And getting settled in Portland ... Maybe I can get a new kitty soon.
I’m really good at
Whatever it is I've my mind set on! Right now it's getting back into Max/MSP. I love manipulating signals and sound files! Been doing this avant guard thing lately. I'll post it soon.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my personality. I love meeting people :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really loved the Ender series (movie kinda destroyed it, but it's still fun) ... a lot. Oh, and Snow Crash. Big fan of sci-fi and sci-fact ... My favorite movie of all time is Synecdoche New York (I think). Music: I really love electronica, stuff like Aphex Twin and whatnot. Yet I play folk, so I do love some folk music :) I also grew up on Radiohead so I'm a big fan ... like everyone else, I know. Food isn't that big of a deal to me (Bad food allergies), but I do enjoy a great meal if I can keep it down. Tacos, I can keep tacos down.
The six things I could never do without
My nephew and brother and sisters

My guitar

My laptop

My asthma medication


My close friends (I have two)

I really wanna hold someones hand and walk into the ocean!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time trying to be calm and enjoy the life I have.
What I'm going to do next.
If I'll ever enjoy a true connection with someone. (I get along with most people but I mean the dream person most of us look for)
On a typical Friday night I am
Ever since I moved to Portland about 8 weeks ago I have no idea what friday or any day holds for me, kinda floating on the wind at this point.

"And the elephant sings in the forest deep, the elephant sing from an endless dream, of a deathless star and a painless peace ... but no one can find where it is."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have seen every Star Trek and Stargate in every iteration multiple times ... does that make me a nerd? I hope so. Also my penmanship has gone to hell thanks to typing. I just may have a bit of a penchant for cursing ... can keep it under wraps around children :)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
I demand that you write me! ;)