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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 1
Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Wants kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm your only friend, I'm not your only friend, but I'm a little glowing friend, but really I'm not actually your friend but I am!

I write music.

I try to live a life that doesn't hurt other beings. All beings have an equal right to live.

I like People with joy in themselves. People who loves kitties. I am one of those people who loves cats, even to the point of spending ... some time looking at cat memes. People who are great! Being able to sing would be a plus. Also a big plus if you like animals a lot, also if you are not into eating animals. (Actually that's not a plus, it's a must. I can't share a heart with someone who knowingly hurts animals.)

I edit audiobooks.

I released an album.

I'm working on another one.
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting settled in Portland ... Maybe I can get a new kitty soon. Playing shows ... sometimes.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Whatever it is I've my mind set on! Right now it's getting back into Max/MSP. I love manipulating signals and sound files! Been doing this avant guard thing lately. I'll post it soon.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my personality(really empathetic, like's animals, creative, kind, loving) actually, how can I know what people notice about me, those are just what I'd notice about me I guess. Oh my hands, I have great hands, I notice peoples hands a lot, no idea why. Actually people probably notice that I'm nice and laugh a lot. I've been told I have a disarming smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This is who's in a playlist I'm listening to at present:
Massive Attack, Susan Sundfor, Kishi Bashi, Squarepusher, Daughter, Plaid, Lusine, Alfred Deller(really big influence on my own music), R.E.M., Here We Go Magic, SBTRKT, TV On The Radio, Radiohead(my favorite), Plaid, something called Jackson And His Comoputerband(no idea who that is), some Pumpkins, Flaming Lips, Grandaddy, the Bird and the Bee, Grove Armada, Mirwais, Daft Punk, Ben Folds(Five), The Zombies, David Bowie, Brian Eno, Tears for Fears, Pixies, Aphex Twin, Nirvana, Ramones, Flying Lotus, Sugur Ros, Jone Biaz, Beck, Wagon Christ, Tune Yards, They Might Be Giants, Tori Amos, Ray Lamintagn, INXS, Adam Again, Ian and Silvia, Paul Simon, First Aide Kit, ...

Wind in the Willows, Snow Crash, Ender, Ishmael ...

I loved Fringe, Synecdoche New York, ...

I love Mexican, Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My nephew and brother and sisters

My guitar

My laptop

My asthma medication


My close friends (I have two)

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about a lot of different things. I like thinking about superclusters and quasars. I dream of living on a farm. I like writing music. What is behind a person's eyes, not their brain, but ... what? What are people. Why are people. There is not why, so why are people? Cats (yes I think about cats when I'm not around cats). My nephews. Patterns. Chord progressions. I actually spend a lot of time thinking what it would be like to be a human 100,000 years ago. It must have been horrifying right? But won't they think that about us in 100 years? Will there be another hundred years? Wondering if anyone else gets hung up on things like that. I was 5 when Halley's comet was last here and I'll be 82 when I next see it. Lamenting the fact that I might not be cut out to live on a farm. Annnnnd cats :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing music, or watching a show, or nothing. Mostly the first two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a secrete to tell, from my electrical well.

I have seen every Star Trek and Stargate in every iteration multiple times.

I lost about 5 years to to sickness and had to start over, so I'm a bit behind in career and things like that. Learned a lot though, and gained a lot of strength and understanding from it.
You should message me if
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Let's be friends! No need to rush things. Coffee or drinks, that's what me thinks.

While I can get along with, oh say, 90% of people? I really like people who are animal lovers, people who like children, people who have good and deep hearts, people who care about the poor, people who care and feel for other people. Any combination of those things is great!

Honestly if you don't love children and animals, and care deeply about what's going on in our earth home. And if you think slavery is ok for our fellow earthlings and it's somehow ok for humans to think this place belongs to us, then I don't see us having any common ground :-/