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32 Ithaca, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Mar 30
Lesbian, Gay
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), Italian (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me: I'm in a positively lovely monogamous relationship and currently looking for friends only. I'm a cartoonist, a needle felter, a plush creature maker, a writer, a poet and a tap dancer. I'll make you laugh a lot and my sense of humor knows few boundaries. I'm a diplomat. I'm a big kid and a responsible adult rolled into one. I have always been guided by a love to learn, my intellect and genuine wonder and curiosity about the world. I'm a constant self-improver. I'm a big softie, a cuddler and a huge animal lover. I'm left-handed. I'm introspective and well aware of who I am and what I want. I'm happily myself. I've been told my personality's so big that I don't seem as short-statured to people as I actually am.

What I'm looking for: As said before, I'm only in the market for friends but I love the idea of adding new ones to my life regardless of one's gender, orientation, etc. I prefer friends who are intelligent without being pompous, passionate without being a zealot and most of all, light and funny. Double points if your brand of humor could be characterized as deranged, irreverent, sarcastic or, as my older brother would put it, "Delightfully f@#$ ed up."
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides juggling a pretty swell job wrangling Slinkies and stuffed cheetahs at a local toy shop, I'm in college at SUNY Cortland for a B.A. in Professional Writing. My ultimate goal is to be a grant writer, even though I'm sure it would make many of my professors happy if I pursued a career as a novelist. In an ideal world, I'd opt for something more creative, but I'm tired of a history of my paychecks being most useful as material to burn in a trashcan hobo fire to keep warm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the best in people (admittedly to a fault at times), introspection, being little spoon, being big spoon, winning stuffed animals from claw machines and carnival games, using chopsticks, getting belongings and clothing caught on mailboxes, running into door frames and walls, foreign languages, putting together care packages, rugby tackles, experimenting with spices, finding four-leaf clovers, falling asleep during movies, helping loved ones feel better, losing at solitaire, winning at Scrabble and Trivial Pursuit, befriending wild baby birds and remembering a zillion little bits of trivia in my "sponge brain," as my friends lovingly call it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I always hope it's my big, brown eyes because I inherited them from my Dad and they happen to be what made my Mom fall for him. More than likely, though, people first notice that I'm short. I've heard every obnoxious short joke in the book since I was a kid.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: "In God We Trust, All Others Pay Cash" by Jean Shepherd, "Bossypants" by Tina Fey, "Braindroppings" by George Carlin, any compilations of poetry, "This is How You Lose Her" by Junot Diaz, "Lover's Dictionary" by David Levithan, "Bread Givers" by Anzia Yezierska, any big books full of small facts for my "sponge brain," books on true crime or forensics

TV: Archer, Bob's Burgers, Daria, It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, Law & Order: SVU, Strangers With Candy, Monty Python's Flying Circus, Forensic FIles or any true crime/forensics show

Movies: Memento, A Charlie Brown Christmas, A Christmas Story, The Invention of Lying, Snatch, Bitch Slap, Shaun of the Dead, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Nosferatu, Fargo, The Maltese Falcon

Art (why not?): Edward Hopper paintings (especially Chop Suey), 1920s advertisement art (especially by Leonetto Cappiello)

Music: Radiohead, Bjork, Billie Holiday, Amy Winehouse, Ella Fitzgerald, Edith Piaf, Rosemary Clooney, Nina Simone, Frank Sinatra, Bing Crosby, Vaughn Monroe, Postmodern Jukebox, Nat King Cole, Perry Como, King Khan, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, The Bell, Flying Lotus, The Foo Fighters, Nirvana, Smashing Pumpkins, Stone Temple Pilots, Morphine, (no country or pop, please)

Food/Drink: Most anything. I'm one of the least picky eaters you'll meet and I love trying foreign food. Extra points for German food, crab legs, good black coffee, Americanos and cheese. I try to avoid soda but we have a dirty, disgusting on-again-off-again love affair.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Holidays
2. Snow
3. Loved ones
4. Something new to learn
5. My pets (my cats, Fruit Bat and Space Invader; and my ferret, Zucchini)
6. A sense of accomplishment
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Loved ones, change, plush creature designs, what the future might hold for me, romance and all of its possibilities
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the splendor and majesty of the great indoors. I'm an introvert (not to be confused with a misanthrope, a social cripple or a serial killer) and I also have a lot of commitments during the week. I typically don't work or have classes on Friday nights so it's a good time for me to lay low, take a breather and recharge my batteries. It's not necessary that I do that alone, though. If I'm with my lady or a trusted friend, it's prime cuddle time!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I grew up with my Mom's home daycare business in our house during the day and I'm pretty sure the ample experience with children as a young person effectively removed the gears from my biological clock. I don't hate kids but I'm not really charmed by ones that aren't in my immediate circle. They may as well be adult strangers on the bus.
You should message me if
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If you made a sincere effort, read my profile and liked what it said. If you'd value knowing me even though we may only end up being friends. If you're unique. If you're a thinker. If you have a sharp wit and a biting sense of humor. If you're socially awkward in an endearing way. If you're sweet and genuine. If you know who you are and mean what you say.