You mean 6 essentials I couldn't do without in a relationship,
Nice twist turning the concept of deal breakers into the
Friends call me social type O, I can get along with anyone, however
I'm hardly the average joe. What really sparks me are open-minded,
kind, unconventional guys with passions and interests to
I'm rarely bored, and I love the company of the similarly
I need a fellow escapee from the island of misfit dorks who shines
with special character.
I'm convinced humor is the most important element to any positive
relationship. Finding the funny twist, the humor in our own
goofiness, the delight in discovering something fun together. These
are the secret keys to making it work. Even in sex. Humor makes all
that fun, and real, and better. I will admit I can be very serious,
but if you hear us laughing a lot on our dates, get your best
I've been told I'm psychic, and this might be true, or maybe I'm
just good at picking up signs, but I'm not willing to rely on these
skills to make a relationship work. Being able to share the
vertical drift of life and the underlying currents is important.
Real intimacy opens up vulnerability, trust, and real
I'm hardly perfect, but hopefully I'm capable of saying: thank you,
sorry, please, excuse me, and help me understand -and so is
Funny, it seems so simple, no Cupid?
I need this like I need sex. I blame my italian heritage.
Playing with flavor, form, and then quality table time together is
a keystone in quality of living and an intimate relationship for
We need to be as interested in the kitchen as in the bedroom.
I also love cooking for others, but creating together sparks my
Cupid, we live in a multitasking world, of juggled roles and
responsibilities, clearly by this age we all have histories and a
past. Okay, okay, it's just a fact.
Taking care of ourselves should be our first priority, of course,
but I don't want to be lost and behind other relationships: to
dogs, work, exes, kids… These create degrees of distance that
dilute love. These are the guys for great friends.
Oh and btw, Cupid, let's skip fwb things. Real availablity is
I almost hate to admit it but he has to be attractive to me. Hot
even. There, I've said it. Handsome sexy smile. Bright eyes.
Healthy body. Sensual physicality. Tasty skin…
Being good guys can get us a few months in, but I need that very
certain animal attraction that lures us back to the fire.
Let's hunt that, Cupid.