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42 F London, United Kingdom

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary

I am French Caribbean from Martinique, North of St Lucia, able to put two English words together and more. French + Caribbean = 2 cultures rolled into one. A deal not to be missed!

My friends describe me as talented and full of ideas, naturally elegant, intelligent, “too” kind.

For the traditionalists out there, do note that I sport a short back and sides hair cut. I feel more feminine that way, go figure. . On the flip side I don't own trousers. As for jeans, I own only 1 pair, which is needed some specific activities like camping, go karting (which I love), walking.

I was a Girl Guide (Girl Scout) leader for 20 years back home and here. It would be impossible to list all the amazing things I organised and did with my girls. Girl Guiding in the UK was disapointing (even though it's the birth place of the organisation) The H&S brigade took the fun out of it: camp fires are now tea lights on tin foil on the floor of an enclosed space: I did quit because I don't call that Scouting, but I miss it. It was such a big part of my life for so long...I am still in touch with my girls from the 90s. I saw them growing up.

I am an urban who can't live without the outdoors or may be it's the other way round. I have never worked it out but I do love both equally
What I’m doing with my life
Avoiding lengthy telephone conversations, I hate talking on the phone. Always prefer face to face in the context of online dating.

Have a 9 to 5 working as a Personal Assistant for the European Union but "by night" I am an Event Stylist. I design, create party decoration, props and favours. I hand-made everything
I’m really good at
Waking up early and in a good mood, including on Mondays

Organising activities for my friends, sourcing out events, unusual venues like restaurants, hotels, bars. I am also good at booking holidays from scratch. It's organised yet loose enough for spontaneity.

May be I have old fashion skills: I can sew my own clothes which is handy if I want to wear something unique. I am good at craft and making beautiful things out of little: that's my USP for my Event Stylist business. Everything is hand made and unique

I can cook pretty much everything from scratch I tend to over do it when I cook for people: 3, 4 sometimes 5 courses.
The first things people usually notice about me
My short hair cut (sock horror) I guess and my hands (had a short career as a hand model and they are always in tip top condition)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't think what we like in music, movies, books is a deciding factor when considering a partner. Hopefully I will pick up new interests etc from you and you will from me. This section is forever evolving.

Books: All the ones I have not got rid of over the years. I borrow from my local library now and buy the ones I really liked but need recommendations of things to read.

Movies: All the DVDs I have bought over the years. I like French 80's farce comedy, and arty 60's and 70's, dance related movies and the odd blockbuster

Music: Find the sound of vinyl very sexy and full of soul but don't have a turntable and only 3 vinyl so bonus point if you have.
Some favourites: Marvin Gaye “Let’s get it on” no comment needed, Bob Marley, Gyptian, (no specific), Aerosmith: “I don’t want to miss a thing”, Bon Jovi “Livin’ on a prayer” (high on my list for karaoke), anything disco. French songs by Charles Azenavour, Serge Gainsbourgh, Patrick Bruel, McSolar, Henri Salvador and of course French Caribbean Music called Zouk. No dirty winning here, the dance is very civilised yet hot with a ballroom hold. Think of a slower salsa, verging on Tango.

Food: I have a microwave which I haven't used in 10 years, my freezer has never seen a frozen meal. How to get to my heart? By cooking for me, with good food shared in good company.

I love my steak blue and still bleeding, I am a big sushi fan, love Thai, Indian.

My French/Caribbean mash up means that I equally like my scotch bonnet and red wine and smelly cheese but I don’t do junk food. I much prefer fresh food. I make my own yogurts, take seconds to make, are delicious and cheap.

For eating out, my preference always goes for independent establishments. Same goes for pubs and bars, hotels. I loathe Cafe Rouge, Strada, All Bar One etc. I like places with soul and the quirkier, the better!
The six things I could never do without
Cocoa or shea butter for my skin
Contact lenses
My hands

I wish I could live without a mobile phone but it wouldn’t be fair to my friends and, I guess, my social life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Love and you?
Why mankind developed arrogance and rudeness?

How to get better at things. What's the next chapter of my life?
On a typical Friday night I am
I do like to stay in and chill on Friday night after a hard week, with company would be even lovelier

But I do go out: to the theatre, or Busaba Eathai or Ronnie Scott bar or Buena vista for live Cuban salsa with my best friends of 25 years Livia and Muriel. It would be better with you
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am massively attracted to guys with a shaved head. I like all other hair types but shaved head is a big deal for me.

Otherwise, I admit assessing (some will say judging) men and women on their nails and hands:
How clean or not, chewed nails or not, too long (MASSIVE turn off on a man)
More importantly, how the hands move and behave. I observe hands a lot. Stiff hands I find very unsexy. I tend to find people you uses their hands to create things very attractive in general. Someone into DIY, a sculptor or a pianist for example would score very high with me...BUT hands and nails have to be clean when not working.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Definitely do if you're Irish (all other nationalities welcome of course)

You have a sexy confidence. It's hot!

Fathers welcome but only if you are there for your kids and a proper Dad but don't have 5 kids with 7 women...

...You have a cheeky smile and sparkly eyes, have things to say and have remained curious of the world you live in, you have a creative streak, you're active rather than lazy, you are passionate about something unless it involves heavy drinking and drugs.
A bientot!!