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Ghostvamp

30 / M / straight / Available

Blackwater, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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Your Notes

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I am romantic, lonely, and obsessive.

My Self-Summary

Although not egotistical (at least I don't think so) I do usually like to talk about myself. Which makes
this odd considering I'm drawing a blank.

So I'll just list some facts.

I've just went through the hardest breakup of my
entire life, in which I was used, lied to and cheated
on.

For a long time this stopped me from trusting women, even the female friends I've had for years.

But... It's been months and I'm moving on.

I don't really know why I am writing this. I don't
want another relationship right now and I can't have
a physical relationship without love... I guess I just
want someone to tell me that I'm interesting or
charming or something.

What I’m doing with my life

Nothing right now. I have a sense of waiting for
something.

I’m really good at

Making jokes at uncomfortable moments, being honest,
cheering others up, making love, falling in love and
having my heart broken.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes. Most people like my eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite books are the Wheel of Time series by Robert
Jordan.
I don't really have a favorite movie, I like different
things about different movies.
I also don't have a favorite music, I like what I like.
My favorite food would have to be scrambled eggs and cheese.

The six things I could never do without

Love, my computer, romance, books, root beer, my family.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Being happy, online games and like most men, sex.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with my friends playing Magic The Gathering, or
home watching TV.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I fall in love too easily. Not sexual love,
whole-hearted true love. Waaay too easily.

You should message me if

If you want to, or if you want to know more about me.