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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 9:01am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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"Never neglect the wonder of conscious existence, which too soon comes to an end.”
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it one day at a time, with an eye on the long view and the main chance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Designing wittily deadpan (Buster Keaton-ish) CGI robots (more about that later). Not knowing when I'm beaten. Picking the perfect typeface (PMN Caecilia, how I love thee). Strategic and tactical snark. Shooting straight. Being there for my friends. Making twenty-three different kinds of pasta sauce and one kind of chronological mixtape. Identifying paintings at any museum without needing to look at the little cards (from twenty paces: "'Roger' Van Der Weyden?....are you sure you don't mean 'Rogier?'" I'm the Annie Oakley of art history trivia.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hm, I've never thought to ask them. My cute butt? (very cute for forty-seven, I have to say) uncanny resemblance to a younger Gene (great in ever movie he appeared in) Hackman?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bookage: Pynchon, Borges, Penelope Fitzgerald, Graham Greene, Edith Wharton, Jack Vance. Et Al. (Good ol' Al. He's always readable)

Films: "The Holy Mountain," "Go," "Spirit Of The Beehive," "Heavy Metal," "Repo Man." More recently: "Upstream Color" and "Martha Marcy May Marlene."

Music, popular: According to iTunes, my three most-played songs are "1979" (Smashing Pumpkins), "She Bangs The Drums" (Stone Roses), and "Cosmia" (Joanna Newsom.) Also I like that "I crashed my car into the bridge" song from last summer.

Music, unpopular: Beethoven's late chamber music, Glenn Gould's "Well-Tempered Clavier," any jazz recorded before 1930. And Schubert's C-Major Quintet, which I think is one of the greatest (and most underappreciated) works in the classical canon.

TV: Like everybody else: "The Wire," The Sopranos," "The Office," and the first season of "True Detective." I also like some recent BBC comedies--"The Trip," the various Mitchell & Webb projects, and the improv-quiz show "QI."

Food: I like to cook and my friends seem to enjoy eating what I make. Possibly they're just being polite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Red wine. Espresso. Reality-based political blogs (Matt Taibbi, Balloon Juice, Chariie Pierce, etc.). Drinking with my pet okapi during okapi hour. My cozy and book-filled apartment. Clean socks with no holes in them.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Give me back the Berlin Wall
Give me Stalin and St Paul
I've seen the future, brother--
It is murder.

Things are going to slide, slide in all directions
Won't be nothing--
Nothing you can measure anymore."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
"Send lawyers, guns, and money--
Dad, get me out of this."

The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"I tried it just once, found it all right for kicks
But now I've found out it's a habit that sticks."
You should message me if
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you want to get sushi. I'm *always* up for sushi.