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25 M Keansburg, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Mar 31
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Heya! my name is Jared (Jurd to my friends) and I'm just an average guy who is openly sensitive to his and other's feelings. If that's a turn off for you, you are on the wrong profile. Sorry! I am always willing to help anyone in need, but I am not so naive as to not realize when I am being fooled or abused for my kindness.

I am very passionate and put 100% of my heart behind everything I do. So far my luck with girls has been that they either don't care about me or care too much and become stalkers (no bueno). I'm looking for the girl who can appreciate my sense of humor and will tell things to me straight. When you get me, you get all of me or none of me, but I am willing to give people a trial period :P

I tend to make friends easy and am always quick with a joke. I try to make every situation fun or funny, but I understand not everything is fun and games. Sometimes you need snacks too~

I appreciate very much when things are done for me out of kindness or gratitude, and often times like to give with no concept of repayment. Making others happy is what I love to do.

I believe I have too many things to do in this world before I die, so I cant and wont let anything slow me down. I want someone that can keep up with me as I charge towards my goals. I want to bring joy and laughter to this world to make it a better place, and if I cant get to everyone first, I would instead like to focus my attention on one very special girl <3
What I’m doing with my life
I recently graduated from IADT (The International Academy of Design and Technology) for Video Game Design in August!!. I have always wanted to be a video game designer ever since I was a kid.

When I first got my Super Nintendo at the age of 5, I was completely sucked into the games. It was like comic books and TV combined, only I was in control and could make it happen the way I wanted. My vivid imagination ran wild with idea, when suddenly I realized that someone had to have made this game, meaning this could be my job one day. Since then I have been making it my goal and dream to become a game designer and bring my imagination to life.

Video Games, "MegaMan" in particular, have had such a huge impact on me that I want to share that feeling with the rest of the world and make another generation of kids raised on good morals and lovable characters, telling the stories and making the characters that will become their childhood heroes like MegaMan was mine, so that they will be a generation of creative and imaginative minds.
I’m really good at
I am really good at telling jokes and being quick with my wit. I am also learning I'm not a half bad dancer! I love to draw and I can come up with stories and deep worlds of vivid expanse very quickly. I am sure that my ideas will not go stale as they get older and I hope to bring them to life.

Along with game design, I hope to do voice over work for cartoons and possibly other media. If you watch any of the shows on Cartoon Network's Adult Swim programming block, I can do almost all of the voices from almost every show, as well as many others. Any time you want I would be more than happy to demonstrate! I am not just blowing smoke either, I have been offered jobs on the spot just for doing my voices at conventions for flash videos. I hope to someday make a career out of it alongside my game design, or at least do it now and then to make some extra cash.

I practiced Karate for six years of my life growing up, and only stopped because I moved away from my home town of Hoboken. I often felt sad that my furthest belt in my training was a green belt. Most people I talk to are black belts. But then I started telling them how long I trained for and every time I get a shocked response. Most people seem to get their belts in just under two years or a little more. It turns out, my school made us practice for two years before each test. Meaning I trained for two years before I even made ONE belt advancement. That doesn't mean I wasnt good. It means I trained that much more before being awarded my belt. As if that wasnt enough, most schools have extra or made up belts so that you advance through them quicker, such as Red or Blue, most of the time to make you feel like you are advancing better and will keep paying for more classes. Red and Blue belts are actually non-traditional and are an American thing. My school does not HAVE additional belts, as the ranking system comes directly from traditional Go-Ju Karate. In short: while many people might have their black belts, my green belt is worth about three of theirs.

I'm also really good at video games I guess. Mostly because I need to learn how they work inside and out to be good at my future career.

Just talk to me some and you'll find out all about what I'm good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people immediately notice I have a very good sense of humor. I am always making people laugh or telling funny (and true!) stories. And if no good joke presents itself, you can always count on me to have a terrible pun ready to back me up.

Aside from that, many people just get the impression that I'm a really nice guy. I'm not "THE NICE GUY" so to speak (if you know which one I mean), but most people are usually visibly happy to see me walk in the room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh geez, this is a hard one.

I love Star Wars, Star Trek, almost any kind of sci fi, especially the bad sci fi, and of course the classics. I love Fantasy based series and games, though it has to fit a certain criteria. Sometimes it just doesnt sit well with me

Food? I'm Italian. My nationality practically owns the copyright on food. I'm not a picky eater. I will eat anything if given to me (considering if it is edible or not). Mom's cookin' is always the best, but there's this place back in Hoboken I love to go to. It's my best kept secret so none of the yuppies go there and ruin the place. Maybe I'll show it to you and you'll see what I mean...

Music? If it sounds good I listen to it. I dont have a favorite artist, but I have several that I like. I mostly listen to video game music, and not just cuz I'm a loser dork. Video game music usually has no words, meaning the composer has to convey the feeling of emotion WITHOUT words, which usually means the piece is composed that much more powerfully to convey the emotion.

I love techno, trance, house, classic rock, heavy metal, dubstep, jazz, classical, and all sorts of crap. I have a very appreciative ear for all kinds of music. To me, it's not just sounds. Every song has something deeper behind it. I like to listen to them all to see what every song is about.
The six things I could never do without
My computer

My super nintendo

My megaman games

My Zune and headphones

My sense of humor

My imagination

and of course my friends.

Please note, these are NOT in order of importance. If they were, the list would read, MegaMan games, Super Nintendo, Computer, Friends, and then the last three in any given order, because who cares after I've got my Computer and MegaMan games... :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spent a lot of time thinking about my goals and what I will do and how to do it.

I spend a lot of time wondering how my brother will do in life, and how I can help him, even though he's a hot shot teenager who just got his license and is "mature" and doesnt need any help, but then complains that no one helps him... I just want the best for him and I've always wanted to be his brother. Even though he pushes me away a lot, and yells at me, and calls me names, and says really hurtful things even though I'm just trying to help, I still love him and I just want him to be MY brother the same way I've wanted to be his all my life.

Update: As of late, me and him are getting along great now, and he works with me at my job! He is really reliable and it's always a pleasure to work with him. The stories we have at that

I think about my mom and how I can help her out, and about my dad and what he would have wanted for me and my brother. I know he raised us to be good boys, and I'll show him for sure he got us right. He always worried about us and always wished us the best, and was always so proud of us. I often think about how he feels about me. If I could tell him anything, it would be "You havent seen anything yet."
On a typical Friday night I am
Working my job at Staples, fixing computers.

Truthfully, if I had more things to do on a Friday, I would probably change my schedule to open them up, but since my girl situation has been less than fortunate, I figure it's an extra day I can work and pocket me some cash, so when someone DOES come along, I've got the green to lay down on a nice dinner for us <3
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Just about anything I guess. What am I supposed to put here? Sexual preferences? Kinks? Embarrassing birth marks? I dunno...

Seriously, just ask me and I will probably tell you. I dont mean to make this part so boring, but really it's true! I shit you not! Go ahead and ask!

I live life without regrets and cannot go back and change the past, so what is there about me I am embarrassed about to share? What's happened has happened, and I am who I am. No changing that.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you like video games! (bonus points if you like megaman)

Send me a message if anything in my above profile really got to you and you said "yeah I like that."

If you're cute, funny (and even a little chubby), send me a message. don't be shy. I'm great to talk to and I want to talk to you. Tell me your story. I dont read much because the stories of people are more interesting to me.

So, if you're ready, I'm waiting eagerly to speak to you.


IMPORTANT NOTE: Please dont message me unless you have intent to eventually meet me if you're interested!! I'm kinda tired of talking to people who set up a date with me and then bail the day before.